There are a lot of videos that seem to be put out by dominatrices to help men overcome their heterosexuality. I knew a woman who felt that we are all bisexual to some degree and that hetero and homo are not sexualities, but parts of our personality that inhibit our true bisexuality, and she tried her best to help her friends, male or female, gay or straight, to get past that inhibition. I don't know if it's true for everyone, but I kind of think there's some validity to it. In any case, in a dominant/submissive relationship, I've also noticed that a lot of the folks I've met into BDSM a Read more
Transgender hints?
Asking, not offering! I've been on XHamster for years! I've explored some of the strangest and also sexiest videos here, I've hit that convenient little icon right next to the XHamster logo and enjoyed (watched and ejaculated to) plenty of Hetero, Bi and Homo porn. But I never even really noticed that when you click on it, you get THREE options: Straight, gay and transgender. I know trans is very popular, but for some reason I never really even thought about delving in. While lockdown is still on, I really should fix that. Where should I start? Tell me your favorite trans videos that will fur Read more
Chat Lines Then and Now
About a dozen years ago, I had just broken up with a girlfriend, and i was trapped in a job that didn't give me much free time to go out and meet anyone new. I tried some dating sites, but wasn't really coming up with anyone I liked. Then I saw an ad for a chatline. I called, thinking I might meet someone, but quickly discovered it was nearly all masturbation and sexy talk. But that was OK too. I told them to masturbate a little harder or push a finger a little deeper, and they told me all kinds of things about their sex response. I learned a lot of stuff about female sexuality! Ultimately it Read more
Bisexualization
I love hearing "first time" stories! Straight or gay people who suddenly find themselves doing something they never thought they could. For bisexual sex, it seems like everyone's first time falls into a few categories: Just born that way-- some people are just born equally attracted to both, and only needed the opportunity to experience it with either boys or girls. Experimenting/playing doctor as a k**-- this almost falls into a "doesn't count" category, where k**s are innocently exploring. Seems like the majority of people, both guys and girls has some kind if same-sex conta Read more
Check out my newly organized open favorites!
I haven't been very active here lately, but with a little extra time on my hands these days, I decided to separate my collection into different categories. I know some of you love my straight or bdsm favorites, but might be uncomfortable with the bisexual stuff (or vice versa). I think I may add some other categories when I have time. For example, a few of the s&m videos are a little hardcore, and I'll take those out of the b&d vids. Also there were a few hard-to classify, like "painful anal" or stuff with trans folks. as usual, Lesbian porn is strictly girls only. Once there's a pe Read more
Reaffirmation and invocation of my Bisexuality
I saw someone else do something like this and even though I'm pretty straight, or maybe because of it, it looked like a pretty cool declaration to make considering the upcoming LBGT holiday.. I hereby reaffirm my bisexuality, my desire for women and also for men, my inability to suppress my arousal for both the sight, the feel, the smell and the taste of men and women, of lips and tongues and nipples and breasts and labia and clits and cocks and foreskins and the taste of pussy and sperm and smooth warm skin.I reaffirm my desire to touch, kiss fuck, suck, fist, to milk orgasms from tight de Read more
Cock Rings -- Tools of Pleasure or Punishment?
A girl asked me about cock rings the other day. What are they for and do guys like them or are they just to help keep the dicks up? How do you explain to a person with a vagina what it feels like to make your cock so full and hard that it almost hurts? Like a lot of guys, I really like cock rings, but it was really hard (hehe) for me to explain what the appeal was to someone without a penis, because, at least for me, it's all about the feeling. I don't remember when or how I got my first cock ring. but I do remember approaching puberty and getting erections more and more frequently. The Read more
Orgasm Control Devices
Following up on my last blog post about the joys of orgasm control, I had a chat with someone who has practiced long term orgasm training with both men and women. I posted a little gallery with my lasy blog post, of pix of chastity devices, and they left me with a few questions, so I asked my expert.The male devices seemed pretty simple -- if you want to keep a male in frustration, just find a way to isolate the head of his cock, and he's effectively neutered. But I wondered about the women. A woman's entire body is a sex organ when it's manipulated properly, and I know I've caused orgasms by Read more
Orgasm Control (Denial and Persistence)
Some boys hit puberty--puberty hit me, and with a vengeance! Almost as soon as I could, I found myself compelled to masturbate any chance I could, up to almost a dozen times a day, if I could find the time. For those who don't know, boys can't cum or ejaculate before puberty, but we do get aroused, and for years before, my young cock produced a lot of clear sexual fluid when I was turned on. Once I was able to, I began producing a lot of sperm. Every time I was aroused, it quickly led to pressure as my body started producing fluid, the classic "blue ball" pain that only a few goo Read more
Where to squirt it?
OK, maybe this is one of those stupid thoughts you get in the middle of watching too much porn.. So much of sex is about where to squirt the sperm. Some people want it in them, some people don't, some people want it but feel it's not safe, still others like to wear it on their skin. Guys have to think about it alot, since we can't cum if we don't squirt it. We don't want to get a girl pregnant (or we do) we don't want to get it on our clothes, we don't want to squirt it before we're ready. Some guys even worry about squirting too much or too little. Where we squirt affects our plea Read more
would you bisexualize girlfriend/boyfriend?
Nearly every guy I know has tried to talk their girlfriend into a threeway with another girl, and especially to kiss/eat out/fuck another girl. I know a few girls who want to (or have) gotten their boyfriends to try bi, but a lot of girls say they don't like the idea. My girlfriend says they are afraid to see it happen, but most all of them really fantasize about it. I have more to add on this, including some cool stories, but I'll wait and see what kind of feedback I get from you guys. Here are some specific questions (but I want to hear whatever you have to say on this): ---wou Read more
Does Your Jewelry Tell People You're Bisexual
Talking to a girl about what girls do (maybe guys, too?) to let interested strangers know they're bisexual. She said girls wear thumb rings, pinkie rings and left nipple rings. Also jewelry with an axe on it. Are any of these things you do? I know plenty of girls wear thumbrings but don't know (or are in denial) about the meaning of the thumbring. I also see a lot of guys who wear them just cause they're cool, or they want to meet bi girls, maybe... The pinkie ring? I never heard that one, but I was told some girls do. Nipple ring Read more
Fucking an inexperienced mouth -- the right way
I'm a guy with a cock, so I like cumming in girl's mouths. and since I'm a bisexual guy, I like cumming in guy's mouths, too. And I'm pretty good at getting a guy to cum in my mouth, which is just as hot, or hotter. Cock sucking is just about every girl's first sexual experience, and more guys' than are willing to admit it. So you'd think it would be a universal pleasure, but there are plenty of people who hate having a cock in their mouth, and that's sad. Not too long ago, A girlfriend and I teamed up with a young couple. They were pretty turned on at first, but the girl got jealous w Read more
Frustration!!
I just uploaded a new cock pic, a little memory of a long fuck session with a story to it. The girl I fool with and I are both bisexual to some degree. Lately my girl ha a new girlfriend and I've had full access to the both of them. I'm more straight than bi, and all that pussy had dampened my taste for boy-flesh a bit. Frustrating to my girl, since she gets off on watching guys together the way most guys get off on lesbians. A lot. She's been bugging me about doing a threesome with a guy, or preferably, just watc Read more
Easier bisexual initiations-- Boys or girls?
If you're bi, and you ewnjoy group sex, you've probably had it with some hetero and some bis. And if you're like me you get a special buzz introducing a partner to the taste of theirn own gender for the first time. There's always a little resisitance from heteros, for fear it'll convert them permenently, but a lot of them get over that fast.. I've had this discussion with both men and women, but i'll put it out to you guys: Who is easier to convert, boys or girls? Share your expereinces of seducing or being seduced bisexually. What did it for you? Read more
Dream --human sculptures
Sometimes I have interesting erotic dreams in those moments between waking and sleeping. This morning I imagined I was posing with two friends as human sculptures. We stood barefoot on a field of small round pebbles and a cool wind blew against my skin. My two friends were on wither side of me, to the left a pretty petite with close-cropped red hair, firm compact breasts and a tight muscular body. To my right, soft, curvy and large-breasted with a long fall of dark auburn, henna'd hair and rings through her nipples. I wanted to stay discreetly flaccid out of respect to my friends, but the Read more
What happened to phone sex lines?
A few years back, I dated a girl who was a voyeur and masturbation addict. When there was no cock or pussy around to feed her apatite, she'd get it wet by going to these phone chat lines, and the stuff she told me about was pretty hot. So, One day I was walking around with an unrelenting hard on, and not a single hungry hole to feed it to, so I remembered what she said and picked up my dick with one hand and the phone with another. The line I called had tons of hot young girls all on there to share hot-talk and jerk off their pussies! Some girls just wanted the guys to listen to them jerk Read more
Uncut Cocks
If you've seen my masturbation video, you know I'm uncut. When I was a k**, I was almost the only k** with a full foreskin. The other cocks I touched had, naked, exposed heads, and a fair number of the girls I fucked didn't like a dick with a foreskin (though to tell the truth, they were too turned on to stop, and if we did it bareback, they quickly became converted to the feeling of that skin adding stimulation to the canal of their pussy). For a long time, all the porn I jerked my uncut cock to featured uncircumcised men, and as I began to get more bicurious and really sought out hot guy Read more
The Bisexuality Test--How Queer Am I?
I was talking to someone about my sexuality, and we came up with this example. It's a pretty hot scenario, and pretty accurate, too. By now you probably know I'm more straight than gay, but definitely turned on by men sometimes, whether I want it or not. Most bisexuals consider me a straight man with versatile sexuality, despite my sexual reactions. Imagine if I were stripped bare and strapped to an exam table in a lab. Researchers and onlookers are observing my breathing and heart rate, but especially my penis, to see how I respond to different tests. They take the basic measur Read more
Weird, the kind of things that turn you on
Turn me on, anyway. All evening, I've been craving the feeling of sperm rocketing through my cock. Not so much the orgasm, or the sexual pleasure. Not the idea of my cock wrapped in a tight, spasming pussy, or a guy's hot throat. Not the pleasing sight of silvery spurts of semen making a salty smelling work of modern art across a pair of round firm tits, making big, erect nipples shine, or even spurting thick lines down a thick, weiny cock, congealing over the folds of a half-retracted foreskin. Although, I do love all those pleasures. No, right now, my impatient, half-erect penis is cra Read more