About

I'm going to leave my original about me down below, it'll be below the ==== signs. My interests have changed somewhat since I wrote it, so I wanted to add to it.

First off, I still do want to do what I originally wrote: just sitting around with a woman while wearing a nightgown without sexual contact. But I've become more interested in public cross-dressing and public exposure as well, often combined. For example, I cross-dressed complete with wig and went to a public women's restroom around 2am at night once, then stripped and sat on the sink counter naked to masturbate. While it wasn't as fun as I hoped, I want to do something similar again and spent the money one a woman's shirt and skirt, so next time I can take off only my skirt and panties instead of getting nude.

I've also taken short walks around my neighborhood late at night wearing only a short nightgown. I've taken longer walks in sweat pants and shirt, then stopping to change into a nightgown when well away from my house. I've tried to squat and pee like a girl when doing this, pulling my panties down and keeping the nightgown out of the way. (Haven't managed it yet for various reasons, but I will someday.) And I've taken longer walks exposing my dick, with stretches being fully nude, as well.

All of the above has happened very late at night when no one's awake. While I want to expose my dick where it might be seen, I'm not wanting to force anyone to see it. (That probably sounds weird, but it's true.) The same applies to the cross-dressing. However, I do want to cross-dress in public during the day and in places I am likely to be seen. That includes riskier stuff like going to a women's restroom while cross-dressing, taking off my skirt and panties, then stepping outside of a stall exposed. (Although there I want to do it where and when I could be seen, but not actually be seen.) I'd love to have a woman willing to go with me while I was cross-dressing in public and help me do some of the risky things I want to do. I don't expect to find any woman willing to do that, though.

And finally, I have some fantasies about non-consensual stuff. They're not something I'm ever going to do, and I don't talk about them in detail unless someone asks me to tell them about them, but they do exist and are part of who I am.

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I'm a middle-aged guy who's enjoyed cross-dressing his whole life, but only in lingerie. I've worn regular women's clothing in public once, and that was only trying it on in a dressing room. After I left the dressing room employees followed me through the store like they expected me to shoplift something. I didn't enjoy wearing it enough to bother trying that again.

Instead I prefer to wear panties and nightgowns. I've done this most of my adult life now, and I prefer to wear them around the house during the day, and sleep in them fairly often, too. I wear panties with the gowns of course, but I've worn them out of the house under my regular clothes as well. I don't always wear them, but I do regularly and I always enjoy doing so.

I have one big problem, though: I'm increasingly wanting to be seen wearing my nightgowns. But because I'm wearing nightgowns, I can't exactly go somewhere in public and wear them. If I was wearing a regular dress, I could drive to one of the Walmart super-centers in another town at 3am and do a short shopping trip. I'd get some weird stares, but no one I knew would see me and no one would think all that much of it. If I try that in a nightgown, it's not going to work that way. People will think I'm being a pervert, not a cross-dresser.

What I'm looking for is women of any age, as well as MtF transgenders, who'd be okay with me visiting them occasionally just to hang out while I wear a nightgown. We can watch TV, a movie, play some games, whatever you want. I just want to spend time wearing a nightgown and panties where someone else sees me and knows I'm doing so. Someone who doesn't mind that I look like an idiot because I'm a middle-aged man in a nightgown. I don't think I'm ugly or anything, but sexy in a nightgown I am not.

I'll write a post with more about what I'm wanting, so this doesn't get too long, but I want to stress I'm not expecting this to happen overnight or anything. You can take as long as you want to be comfortable before you invite me over. It also doesn't have to be one-on-one. Do you have a female roommate (or roommates) who also wouldn't mind? I'm happy to hang out with all of you. I don't want to hang out with guys right now, even cross-dressing guys, because I'm not comfortable enough to do that yet. After I've had some practice I probably will be.

One final note: I'm not looking for sex at all. You'll also never see me naked, I'd change in another room. My gowns are all at least knee-length, most are ankle-length, none are see-through.

If you think you might be interested, send me a message and let's talk about it. :)