About

"Being a Master is like being a gentleman... If you have to actually tell people that you are one, you probably aren't." - Me

The World of Stig

To borrow a bit from a dear friend of mine, please mind the gap, watch your head, and all ladies please keep your arms and hands inside the armbinder at all times for your safety...

I would like to welcome you all to my world, my little bit of xHamster real estate, where I often will share pictures (and videos) from my life with previous owned girls or with content I've collected over the years that may have fallen off into obscurity or even the occasional original story or blog post with thoughts from the deepest regions of my mind.

You never know what you're going to find when you come here, however I can almost assure you that you'll enjoy the majority of it.

General Rules Before Contacting Me

• If you want to contact me or send me a friend request, you must at minimum have a profile picture and something on your profile. If I look at your profile and see nothing, no profile picture, or just password protected items and your message didn't include the password...sorry but I won't be interested. It takes very little effort to actually make your profile reflect you somewhat, do it.

• If you contact me and your avatar is or contains a cock, you're done. You will be automatically deleted. Period. End of story. I have no interest in seeing your Johnson, ever.

• I do not Skype, Video, Phone, Kik, Text or anything like that with people I don't know. I do consider Google Chat and such for other forms of communication outside of the site and if I get to you know you I may make other exceptions, but the minute you start pressing for it, it won't happen.

• I am LGB friendly, yes, Lesbian/Gay/Bi friendly. I do not believe in the T part of that and you aren't going to change my mind, don't try.

• I have absolutely ZERO interest in Male Submissives, Cross-Dressers, or Transgirls (lets be honest, you're not a girl if you have a penis, it's genetics not a choice) so if you are one of those, please don't bother contacting me. Seriously, you're a guy, grow a pair and get your ass up and learn to be man.

• femsubs or females who are unsure of their place in life, please, feel free to message me at anytime. I love to chat, no strings attached. I'm really just a normal guy who happens to be Dominant so I know how to talk without pressuring you or barking orders at you. If I can help you, I will, it's my nature.

• If you choose to contact me, submissive/bottoms may use the title Sir or Lord and refer to me as either Sir, My Lord, or Lord Stig as was done in more civilized times. Dominants/Tops may just us my name. (Thanks again to my friend for this idea.)

• Do not call me Master unless you have my collar locked around your neck, or have received special permission from me. This is a privilege I only grant to those that I own and work with.

Who is the Stig

Well, obviously, my name is a reference to a character on the the once great (now crap) BBC show 'Top Gear' where a mysterious masked figure simply known as 'The Stig' showcases his amazing driving skills using all different vehicles on a weekly basis.

I use this name because, first off, my friends say that my driving style is very similar to The Stig, but also because to me it represents perfection, always pushing yourself to be the top in your field or the best in what you do which is something that I attempt to do each and every single day.

In my 'mundane' life, I'm a very successful (at least I like to think so) professional individual with a stable career and respectable income. I drive a new car, I own my own home, and I want for very few physical items. I say this, not to brag, but only because too many people that claim to be a 'Master" or a "Dominant' are nothing more than people living in their parents basements, or working at Walmart with no means to support that which they seek which just further lends to the damage being done in the community.


I am a Dominant

I am a very firm believer that you have to learn to Master yourself before you can ever hope to Dominate another person. If you can't control yourself and your own actions, your situations, how can you ever hope to take another person under your hand and control them and their life.

My personal mantra is that respect is earned, not given. I understand that applies to me as well as any submissive out there, I never expect a girl to drop to her knees and call me Master just because I label myself as a Dominant. That means nothing... I will and feel able to take the time to get to know the person aside from the submission, earn her respect and see how things advance. I am not a person looking for a one time meetup for sex, the mere idea of that just boggles my mind, nor do I think you can just 'Collar' someone in the first time of talking to them...a proper bond in BDSM / D/s takes time to develop or else there is nothing truly behind it to keep it together.

I am not a hard-ass, beat you til you submit type of Dom. I have extensive experience both online as well in real life as a Dominant including having previously worked with a live-in submissive. Truth be told I'd rather teach and train through positive interactions rather than spend a lot of time using negative reinforcement unless I have no other choice. Punishment, that's different, but I believe in a very structured system...if I punish a girl she can ask me (and receive an answer) what she did to deserve the punishment.

Likes and Fetishes

Talk about a section that can go on forever...regarding the Fetish aspects of my likes and pleasures as they are more relevant to this site.

Respect - As I said above, it's earned and not given, however I will always show respect to anyone who serves me, or even contacts me. I think everyone deserves to be respected regardless of place in life or what title they choose to give themselves until they give me a reason to change my approach. Now, in return, I expect the same treatment. Respect is a lost art in the world and even more so in the BDSM and D/s communities as we've been invaded by the Fifty Shades of Stupid crowd who think being a bossy asshole or an abusive douche-bag is the same thing as being a Dominant. As a result, many wonderful girls would get end up being degraded and/or hurt by these people and it's a HUGE pet peeve of mine (Seriously, check my blog if you don't beleive me.) I feel RESPECT is the most important thing and actually categorized as a Fetish to me.

Bondage - It has been my experience in life that virtually every woman I've ever met has a submissive element to her personality, if it's displayed or hidden and denied it is still there. With that being said, I feel that woman needs to experience complete and secure bondage in her life as it helps guide and shape her in ways that she can't fathom until she has experienced it. I use bondage in every day life for those who serve me and even discuss it daily with friends and colleagues in the D/s world making it an integral part of who I am. Inescapable locked leather or steel restraints, tight applications of sticky tape are common, day-to-day fixtures in the life of any who kneel at my feet and those who serve me remotely.

Chastity - Another staple of life in my world. I'm sorry for those who don't agree with me on this but there is absolutely no reason that any female has unfettered access to her genitals. Contrary to what most guys think, women are not shy little wallflowers who blush and giggle at the thought of masturbation anymore. Most young women I know masturbate more than guys do, mainly because of the fact that the experience for them is so powerful, their orgasms are so intense and often underachieved from the male contact they do have. As such, any female that I speak to in a D/s or BDSM aspect is expressly forbidden from touching herself or pleasuring herself while we communicate, and further more any girl who serves me in any capacity is kept secured at all times in some form of chastity restraint until she is released from service. These restraints start off as simple as securing her pussy under carefully layered duct tape until such time as she can be placed in a proper locked steel belt, however at every level the implementation will be secure enough to prevent sexual service, satisfaction, or masturbation without my supervision and approval. In a world controlled by me, this would be mandatory for every female on the planet as years of experience has shown me that chaste women are more attentive, focused, and submissive than those who are freed which I feel is a great improvement for everyone involved.

Gags - Everyone in the world knows that a woman's most powerful and empowering tool is her voice and I feel that one in service should have that controlled. Though I love talking to and getting to know those in my service, when we are not conversing silent obedience is the order for her. Gags are such a diverse fetish for me as the different types all serve different purposes... From a simple ballgag to silence the girl and let her focus on what I decide for her to focus on to a mouth full of worn panties covered in duct tape to make her focus on sexuality all the way to a full padlocked head harness ballgag to let her know speech isn't even an option. Gags can heighten any experience for a woman, it relieves them of the need to feel they have to respond to every situation and allows them to listen and learn what is being taught. Now I do always welcome and invite questions and comments from those who serve me, however, a gag is always the symbol that it's time to be silent and turn her focus to obedience and learning.

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