1. I was a helicopter pilot in the Army during Desert Storm. 2. I have been married 3 times. 2 divorces and one death. 3. No one in my family has any idea about Tami. 4. When I can't sleep, I like to go out and drive fast while listening to metal. 5. I am extremely loyal. I will do terrible things to anyone who harms my family or friends. 6. I swear. I use fuck as punctuation. But, I also say please and thank you. 7. I always return my shopping cart to the rack, maybe yours too. 8. I handle major events with grace. It's the small stuff that pisses me off. 9. I still don't know who I wa… Read more
Lost
I go by Tami_ Lost or Lost_Tami on other sites. I came up with that name after my wife/Mistress passed away. It took me some time to get over it. But, I began to realize that wasn't when I was lost. I was lost before that in a world that was expected of me. My life was a constant shift into who I am. I was lost when I was expected to do as my older brothers (3) had done. Whether it was Boy Scouts to sports, I was always held to their standard. I fought the urge to be Tami for many years and followed in my brother's footsteps. I marched with the drum as far as anyone could see from the outsi… Read more