From the time we are toddlers, we are told that touching our privates is taboo. Making the transition from feeling pleasure is bad to getting told "you'll go blind from masturbation" was a true conflict of feelings. How do you enjoy your partner, and feel confident enough to trust him/her with your desires. I can remember during my first marriage I was so scared to tell what I needed because I thought it was wrong to even speak about what made you feel good was a taboo sexual act. Thank heavens husband number 2 was a patient, and loving partner in bed. He made me feel good about my body a… Read more