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“Hey, diddly-dee, an actors life for me!” This was the song and dance the clever Fox sang to the naive, wooden Pinoke as they trotted off to new hot adventures arm in arm. How many of us have been there, and still are? Nose and ears ever growing with lies to cover up our misdeeds and errant adventures? I have played the part over and over again and how I have managed to survive this far is only by the grace of God. And I know it is the same for many of my readers. But, that said, we still maintain a good degree of wisdom and are apt to learn by our mistakes and chart a better course in fairer… Read more

A male has the natural and innate potential to bring the female to an extremely high degree of self value, self esteem and self actualization. The reason for this first and foremost is the natural and biological fact that the male is her counterpart as progenitor of the human race. This core realization on the part of both male and female is innate. It is where our deepest feelings arise from the amygdala through the u*********s to the conscious. The male’s deep intimate involvement with the female is essential for both his a… Read more

This is my ever expanding personal review of current models in the xhamsterlive section. Nothing in stone here because things do shift and change and your experience may be quite different form mine. Keeping in mind the many variables that might alter each situation following critiques are what I found initially upon entering a model’s room. Keep an open mind what turned me off might be the very thing that turns you on. Carol_Harris — Gorgeous. Likes Lovense (Her internal vibration toy) and is incredibly passionate and fun… Read more

Having engaged in coaching for many years and for some period those incarcerated at times for sexually generated offenses may I suggest following question: "Is there something right about watching other people making love, having sex and being erotic, or is it simply, in the view of many, something very wrong?" Something Right Many people agree with the general idea that there are socially redeeming effects and benefits for many who enjoy watching people engage in sexual activity, and that this is something that should not b… Read more

We all want to be liked and loved. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to know that the model who is ready to take off all her clothes and reveal everything to you truly likes and even loves you? I know the key to achieving this. The great advantage that the real lover has in the Sex Cam venue is that most men whom the lovely models encounter are brutes. You know it and I know it. When was the last time you said to a gorgeous lady upon meeting her for the first time, “Hey, you’re so beautiful. Please turn around and bend over!” Or, “W… Read more

The real and virtual world offer many parallels especially in the area of sexual and erotic entertainment. But, how does the Live Sex Cam Model compare to the Live Strip Club Model? Perhaps the best way to begin is by describing some things I learned about the exotic club dancers I learned some years ago at the Centerfold in San Francisco. After my divorce and desperately in need of feminine touch I decided to visit a club where I might enjoy a few hours of adult entertainment and being around some of the worlds most lusciou… Read more

When it comes to survival and money there is no limit to what a person will compromise away to achieve their goals; sometimes everything. Live Sex Cam Models and their visitors spend countless hours entertaining each other and as most females will agree the models often compromise something deeply rooted in their gender and natural core instincts in order to accommodate most of their visitor’s needs and desires. This is the sad reality of a sex worker’s life. Understanding that in those few moments in her bedroom something is… Read more

“Hi @Visitor come into my space and stay little while. I am so pleased to see you. Make yourself at home.” Whether you are new or old in the live sex cam venue these ideas are sure to improve your business? I have been a life coach to sex workers for quite some time and have gained some good insights, I feel, into business and life I think you might enjoy reading and benefit from both for business and pleasure. One time I asked a hair dresser who posed for a special pictorial edition for Playboy how she liked the mod… Read more

Many females are in dire need of a little anal eroticism oriented coaching especially the ones with the desirable derrieres. Before we begin let me ask the question, “How do females naturally integrate with others?” … The answer they would agree is both through feelings and ideas. That said when breakdowns occur between the sexes it is generally because females try to communicate their ideas often as an honest blend of natural feelings and often wise ideas. Success occurs when both males and females integrate well wit… Read more

The cam experience can be quite delightful for both model and the patron. We all have our own reasons for being there. Some get lost in chat rooms for hours exploring fantasies and unimaginable visuals one is would hesitate to describe to grandmother even if She is a model herself. Many models wear the cutest little pink toy called the “Lush” with a provocative Bluetooth antenna shamelessly waggling from an often quite well exposed and often moist orifice. Tokens of the patrons high esteem will cause the little monster… Read more

It is a well established fact that most men visiting cam girls are a lot older. Some have quite a bit of wisdom to offer which could virtually change a young life for ever. I am a seasoned life coach of a number of years and I approached this venue with a certain degree of hesitation just recently. It's been around a long time but I felt little reason to be there. But, now is the time for me. And, what I have found is that I take a mature and supportive approach in those whom I choose to get to know. For me there is a large difference between sex and Eros. In my journey throu… Read more

People giving to each other creates an abundance. People taking from each other causes scarcity. Imagine if two people said to each other that they enjoyed deriving pleasure from watching the other person receiving pleasure? I once had a woman tell me that she loved watching me touch and pleasure myself. Funny thing is I can hardly recall ever doing that in front of her. I was way too inhibited at the time. Perhaps she was indirectly encouraging me to do something she really liked. I remember thinking that this was really something I was uninterested in doing. But what i… Read more

Though years of life coaching here I now begin anew, more clearly ... Understanding the Erotic Process Nobody starts out feeling erotic. Erotic feelings are a process. We may all, however, start out feeling sexual. That's only natural. Sexual is the feeling of being horny, turned on, excited in the genital area, in heat, in need of relief and highly aroused. Erotic is something else. A Greek philosopher one time told me once when I asked him what "eros" meant, he said he believed it meant "passion". Eroticism Is About Passion Passion is about feelings. We say a pers… Read more

I happened upon khailanyangelsweet01 tonight and made my usual entry with "Hello ... I am Evanu ... Honored and pleased to be here to meet such an elegant lady." No response. She was however responding to others which is to be expected. I waited a little while ... still no response. I began to feel discouraged. Offered a simple word on the music she was playing. Still no response. Then I realized she was writing in Spanish and probably felt a little inhibited wanting to respond more deeply to me. I never sent her a to… Read more

"Hello ... I am Evanu ... I am happy and honored to be here and to meet you." .. [Said on entering a chat room.] This is the only appropriate way I know to introduce myself to what otherwise may have been simply a static photo or a video. Through the cam venue we meet real "Live" people. This is a new reality that I appreciate and respect. Although, meeting another person in this live venue is indeed a human contact there it must be considered that, indeed, the model is a unique human being with feelings, thoughts and a certain degree of experience. One can access those thoughts… Read more

It takes wisdom and personal discipline to enter this medium without being taken out to and emotional sea of thoughts, feelings and ideas that may be as troubling as they are pleasant. To better address this I have come up with a few rules I need to remember to remain stable in my heart and thinking. 1. Cam girls are in business, and as all retail trade it is up to the business owner to provide a good product at a reasonable rate. It is also up to them to prove that they are worthy of my time and money. In order to establish this I must know exactly what it is I wish… Read more

Did I really want to be King Solomon with a thousand wives and three hundred concubines? What a fantasy! The answer is yes, and no! Yes, because I am sensual, and love women. And, no ...because I realize that I have a problem handling only one. What would happen to me if I had thirteen hundred? So realistically speaking, I know that I may be able to have a harem of beautiful women but I must go slowly and think in terms of starting with only a few. Now we come to the exiting new venue call "Live Sex Cam". Oh, I so appreciate this medium. Am learning many thing there. Having intellige… Read more

What is it like to make a living having sex on cam? More and more people are finding out. Nice work ... no? Imagine the positive reinforcement of knowing people are sending you money every time they see you feeling good and having pleasure. How alive that must make you feel in the privacy of our own bedroom independently using your time and all the things you choose to do. You get to play at what you truly love to do whenever you want ... to be yourself in a most relaxed, private and personal way. Somehow you believe you were meant for this kind of life. This all takes place in the… Read more

The Cam Models say most patrons are men who "aren't getting laid". Needless to say, we all go through periods with our partners when sex, for whatever reason, is a non sequitur in the relationship. So, where do we go with that? Do we take it inward as rejection, the way they tend to do? Do we blame them? Does the intimate distancing cause us to recede into self pity and looking for other means of satisfying our natural need to encock our lovely, well nurtured vagina once in while just to keep the wheels of love well greased. Brothers, we have all gone through this and will. Here i… Read more

As I get to know the medium better here are a few of my observations: Extremely warm and friendly. Nice way to start my day. I think it is unnecessary to be a big spender to get to know my little harem ... I simply say hi with a modest tip and move on quickly. Visiting a model regularly can be very encouraging to her and when I do it is good to engage rather than stay out of sight simply watching without saying hello. If I say hello there is no obligation to engage or spend unless I feel I want to. She knows I am the… Read more