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I had a black lover years ago. He was a virgin when we met. He was bright and sweet and so polite and was and still is a darling man, eight years younger than myself. We started out as friends but when he was going through hard times, I invited him to stay with me until he got back on his feet. He slept in one room and me in the other. We'd hang out and watch tv, talk, have dinner together, listen to music, and play board games. The tension was so thick, though, that you could cut it with a knife. Finally, after much flirting during a Scrabble game, we leaned across the board and started going… Read more

So how do I feel when I'm fisting my lover? I feel all-powerful. It's a huge rush knowing that he is entrusting me with something precious that could cause him great harm just believing that I will take good care of them and see that nothing happens to him. It's also a wonderful feeling knowing that he is putting his mental health in my hands, that it is something that could cause great humiliation, embarrassment, and fear but that again, he knows no harm will come to him. He trusts me in every way possible to take him to the edge and to bring him back down again. I am a very caring lover and… Read more

It isn't often that we discover where our predilections, fetishes, fantasies, and desires were first born. For some it seems encoded in our DNA. Others can recall youthful memories where we were exposed to some element that intrigued our little brains. Sometimes we never really know where they came from. But in snuggling with my boyfriend last week, I was reminded of a work of art I saw as a teenager while studying art and humanities. It set a fire in my veins and a lifetime of experiences desired and achieved and led to many more sexual needs, wants and encounters. When I was in school, we… Read more

If you want to add me a friend or correspond with me, please fill out your profile first or at least send me a personal message introducing yourself. I don't play the "Ask me whatever you want to know" bullshit game that men like to play. I'm not going to jump through hoops to get you to open up to me. You don't have to write me a dissertation, but, it would be nice if you put a little thought and personalization into your message. I care more about quality than quantity so I will only play with the best. It takes time and patience to earn my trust but if you do, it is greatly worth the wai… Read more

All of us are at least a little bit kinky or we wouldn't be here. But for some reason, I worry that my interests and enjoyments are too bizarre or "out there" and that I'll be judged as a freak or a weirdo, which I am, but only in a good way. Even some of the most hardcore of friends have stated that some things were just too far out or on the fringe for them. But there is some seriously scary stuff out there that I deem as too out there for me so I guess we're even. Not that I'm keeping score. To each, his, her or their own. I suppose I should stop apologizing to people or warning them tha… Read more

Signs That Your Cat is Too Fat Cat door retro-fitted with garage door opener. Confused guests constantly mistaking her for beanbag chair. Always lands on her spleen. Fewer calls to the fire department, but a sudden upsurge in broken branches. Fifteen month gestation period, and still no kittens. No longer cleans itself unless coated in Cheese Whiz. Catfood dish replaced with Rush Limbaugh trough. Luxurious, shiny black fur replaced with a mint green polyester pants suit. It's no longer safe to lift him without a spotter. Waits for the third bowl of food to get fin… Read more

He was in ecstasy with a huge smile on his face as his wife moved forward, then backwards, forward, then backwards again... back and forth... back and forth... in and out... She could feel the sweat on her forehead, between her breasts and trickling down the small of her back. She was getting near to the end. Her heart was pounding... her face was flushed... Then she moaned, softly at first, then began to groan louder. Finally, totally exhausted, she let out an almighty scream and shouted * * * * * "Okay, Okay! I can't park the car! You do it, you… Read more

It excites me to be undressed by a lover. It reminds me of when I was younger and sex was something new. When a lover's first touch to your naked skin takes your breath away. I savor that. It never gets old, really. If you're in a relationship long enough (too long sometimes) you get used to neglecting the finer delights of undressing a lover and instead just toss of your clothes and climb into bed. But the slow seduction and undressing is like a treasure to be found, a gift to be unwrapped. It's such a turn on to me. Recently, a former lover of mine who I hadn't seen in years came by. To b… Read more

On a night like tonight, when you’re tired and your back is sore from overdoing it, (shame on you), you wanted to know if I would insist upon you taking an enema or an enema series. I have to state that I would absolutely insist upon it but knowing how terrible you feel, it would be gentle insistence. I would take you into the bedroom, undress you and have you life on your back with a towel rolled under your lower back and two pillows stacked under your knees to decompress your spine and alleviate your pain. I would have you bring your knees to your chest briefly and insert two suppositories i… Read more

After you have properly cleaned me out and bathed me, I kneel on the bed and lay my head onto a pillow. You spread my cheeks and devour my pink rosebud; your tongue licking around it, on the rim of it and inside it, giving me such exquisite pleasure and intensity. When your mouth tires and my rosebud is slick with your saliva, I feel your finger pry me open and slide into my bottom. You feel the heat of my body as my ass tightens around your finger and you stroke and fuck me with it and turn me into a quivering pool of jelly. Then you insert a second finger, then a third… You see how wet yo… Read more

I used to try to stifle my noises and screams but realized that in doing so, I stifled my orgasms and that was no fun at all. Many years ago, when I was much younger, I dated a premature ejaculator who, after his orgasm, was completely done with the act of sex. He would do nothing to try to bring pleasure to me and I was too inhibited to try to do it myself. This went on for maybe a year and I ended up with the female equivalent of blue balls and had tremendous pelvic pain all the time. After he and I broke up, I had a time where I was unable to orgasm since I was practically trained to believ… Read more

A recent article in the Kentucky Post reported that a woman, one Anne Maynard, has sued St Luke’s hospital, saying that after her husband had surgery there, and now he has lost all interest in sex. A hospital spokesman replied … “Mr. Maynard was admitted in Ophthalmology – all we did was correct his eyesight."… Read more

A middle aged woman went to her cosmetic surgeon to see what her options were concerning her rapidly sagging face. “We can give you an old fashioned face-lift, or we can use a new high-tech procedure called the knob”. “What is the knob, doctor?” she asked. “It is a procedure where we install a knob under your hair on the back of your head. We then connect it to the facial muscles and skin which sag, and when you see new wrinkles and sagging, you just tighten the knob a few turns and your skin is nice and tight again.” “Oh, yes! that is what I would like to have”, she replied excitedly… Read more

************************************************* A man walks into a cocktail lounge and approached an attractive woman sitting by herself and asked, "May I buy you a cocktail?" "No thank you," she replies; "alcohol is bad for my legs. "Sorry to hear that; Do they swell?” "No, they spread.” ************************************************** It reminds me of the Dorothy Parker quip, "I always drink like a lady. One or two at the most. Three I'm under the table. Four I'm under the host."… Read more

The info below is mostly my sexual interests, but I prefer to get to know people for who they are before getting naked with them. Unless there is something going on emotionally and intellectually, nothing will take place physically. But here goes... As far as the "normal" things I like, I love massage - I prefer to receive, but can give a great massage as well, oral sex -- the same as my comment above -- rimming, vaginal sex, anal play and anal sex. Back to massage, I absolutely love, love, love to be massaged, especially if it is a deep tissue massage. My muscles are always tense and… Read more

Someone on another site I frequent asked a question on how to prepare for anal sex because she found it painful. This was my reply. You should take at least one cleansing enema. You should also wait between 30 and 60 minutes to make sure the water and dirt are completely out of your system before attempting anal play or you could end up with unwanted surprises. I recommend using a two quart bag and taking of the water, thought not necessarily at once. You can take a few ounces and expel when you have the urge to do so. The water stretches you internally somewhat so that will help later. But… Read more