About

I am a gay male who is a lot into kinky stuff. I like spanking and BDSM and am switch for both. I am a bit more into sado-masochism (finding pleasure in seeing people suffer pain or in suffering pain myself) than in dom/sub-sessions (finding pleasure in control or in giving up control or finding pleasure in the idea that you’re pleasing someone even when doing thing you don’t really like). I am fairly sadistic but not brutal, but not really a dom or master when I am on the giving side, and rather masochistic and somewhat submissive on the receiving end. Spanking and BDSM can be but does not have to be combined with other sexual activities.

For spanking, I like implements used in domestic and school discipline in the UK and Europe, and in particular cane and tawse. I have no clear favourite position for spanking, though for a BDSM-play I like being tied up/hoisted naked hands arms and legs wide open to be vulnerable on all sides and I really like leather whips and floggers.

I am also into leather, though for spanking and BDSM I prefer the sub to be completely naked.

And I do have a soft side also, my life is not all about BDSM and pain, but that is an aspect of me that I’m not highlighting on this profile.

I am also on PlanetRomeo, Recon and Fetlife with the nickname cotopaxi, and on SpankThisHookups and southspanking.com als BBBoy.