50 Dinge die Frau tun sollte bevor sie stirbt...
submission
The submission and dominance relationship lays the foundation for good bdsm contact, along with mutual respect and the desire to give each other something. It can go many ways through mutual consultation. For someone who wants to offer her as a Sub-member to me, it is good to know some basic submissions beforehand. Handy to fall back on in moments of uncertainty, or at the start, or somewhere in between. Above are a number of basic postures. Read more
An Absolute Beginner’s Guide to Domination
An Absolute Beginner’s Guide to Domination You come home one ordinary afternoon, and there is your girlfriend looking nervous. She has something she wants to talk to you about, and you’re thinking, “ok, if she crashed the car again I’m not going to get angry.” It’s not that though, it’s…sexual stuff. Now you’re really nervous; I mean hell, you’re not exactly John Holmes, but you get the job done, right? No no, it’s not like that, your sweet girl want to be Dominated.She has, she explains, certain types of fantasies. Fantasies about not nice stuff, fantasies about dirty, naughty thing Read more
25 Facts About BDSM That You Won’t Learn In
1. First things first: Here’s what BDSM actually stands for: BDSM includes bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), and sadism & masochism (S&M). The terms are lumped together that way because BDSM can be a lot of different things to different people with different preferences. Most of the time, a person’s interests fall into one or two of those categories, rather than all of them. 2. It doesn't always involve sex, but it can. Most people think BDSM is always tied to sex, and while it can be for some people, others draw a hard line between the two. Both are bodily Read more
***** List of painful punishments:
This is not a story, but a list of ideas for punishments of a slavegirl. The degree of the punishment should be adjusted by amount and severity. This list is divided by painful and humiliating punishments. However, these punishments should only be used for girls who desire to be treated like a slavegirl. If you feel inspired by some of the punishments, please feel free to send me some pictures of your session ;-) As this list is by far not completed, feel free to add other punishments in the comments and I might post a more complete list later. ***** List of painful punishments: Read more
Dominance and submission
Dominance and submission (also called D/s) is a set of behaviors, customs, and rituals involving the submission of one person to another in an erotic episode or lifestyle. It is a subset of BDSM. This form of sexual contact and pleasure has been shown to please a minority of people. Physical contact is not necessary, and D/s can be conducted anonymously over the telephone, email, or other messaging systems. In other cases, it can be intensely physical, sometimes crossing into sadomasochism. In D/s, both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated. Thos Read more
Sex is NOT an Excuse
Sex is not an excuse for you to be rude Sex is not an excuse for you not to have manners Sex is not an excuse to talk a man or woman like they are not a person Sex is not an excuse for you harass someone Sex is not an excuse to ignore another person's consent Sex is never owed to you Sex is not something you should take Sex is a great way to cut loose and have fun Sex is mutually pleasurable Sex is something to be shared Sex is something to do with someone you like Sex is something to do with someone who likes you Sex can be great Sex can be ok Sex can be bad BUT Se Read more
Blair's Fantasies
In my opinion sharing fantasies and experiences with xhamster friends is one of the biggest thrills in this site. I have experimented in a few things sexually, however although having some, my experience in the field of bdsm is certainly limited. I have a submissive part to my personality. I have always had this fantasy of being someone’s slave. Someone who I would have to serve and fulfill his pleasures…. . And my body is for him to use, when and how he pleases…. h Read more
My Favorite Fantasies and Turn Ons
Sometimes i feel like a broken record, answering the same questions over and over about what excites me, what i do in real life and what is just fantasy. Typically this is followed by an offer to make my fantasy a reality. While i appreciate the offer, most of my fantasies are just that, fantasies! In fact the majority of my fantasies, things that excite me and get me very wet to think about, are things that i would never want to experience in reality, with anyone (neither with my husband nor anyone else). i am very happily married and we are 100% monogamous with each other. i am not repress Read more
How-To Guide for Men on How To Dominate a Woman in
"Gentle" Dominating Push her against the wall/bed/floor/table. Hold down her wrists (above her head, behind her back, by her sides). Lean your weight against her to create the feeling like you are dominating her body. Push your knee between her legs and roughly spread them wide. "Spread wide for me, sweetheart." Manhandle her. Put your hands all over her as if you can't get enough. Grab her breasts, squeeze her ass. Worship her. "God I love this hot/tight ass of yours". "This hot/tight ass of yours is all mine tonight." "You have the hottest/tightest little body ever." "Your body was mad Read more
mein leben mit Sex
Jeder der einen Hund hat, nennt ihn Bello oder Hasso... Um einen nicht so alltäglichen Namen für meinen Hund zu haben, habe ich ihn damals 'Sex' genannt! Es war ein Fehler, wie sich später herausstellen sollte... Als ich auf die Gemeinde ging, um ihn nach dem Umzug bei der Hundesteuer anzumelden, sagte ich dem Beamten, dass ich meine Steuern für Sex bezahlen wollte. Er meinte, dafür gäbe es noch keine Steuer. 'Aber es ist für einen Hund' antwortete ich. Er meinte nur, Beischlaf mit Tieren sei zwar verboten, aber eine Steuer gä Read more
Stupid Questions
Ich finde Neugier an sich ja eine gute Eigenschaft, aber mit welchen Fragen manche schon ins Gespräch einsteigen, ist doch erstaunlich. Ich habe die seltsamsten mal aufgeschrieben in der Hoffnung, sie hier ein für allemal zu beantworten. "Bist du Nacktschläferin?" Nur, wenn der Sex so langweilig war, dass ich dabei einschlafe. "interessiert dich denn mal ein etwas größer geratener Schwanz auch?" Nein, ich bin mit meiner kleinen Klitoris ganz zufriede Read more
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs from the Society of Janus 1. Be Patient A potential top will let you know if she or he is interested in you or not. Keep in mind that your purpose as a submissive is to serve and to satisfy someone who will take into consideration the realization of your fantasies. Don't expect your top to be able to turn on like a light switch. The timing must be right for both of you. 2. Be Humble You may be God's or Goddess' gift to the world and the most sought after prize in town, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportu Read more
10 Considerations for Aspiring Dominants
10 Considerations for Aspiring Dominants from the Society of Janus 1. Be Patient Until you enter into a relationship with a submissive, you have no right to order him/her around. Give your sub, time to get to know you and what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness go hand in hand. The sensitivity and awareness (or lack thereof) that you show in the real world is likely to be repeated in the playroom. 2. Be Humble You may be God's/Goddess' gift to the world, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have a Read more