About

Who I Am
BF and I work and live in and around "The District" in the U.S.A. I have a doctorate in Psych and he works in I.T. Our work gives us flexible hours, but we have to be super careful about what we say and do here because of the company we keep. I'm just sayin' - deal with it.

Thanks to Brazilianluva who turned us on to our own hometown rap video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4T1RMuoQnKo

I help people visualize and get clear with things. I use that talent here to help explore your fantasies. It is fun to see what turns people on and I get to experiment without cheating on bf! He really gets off on me doing this, and that's a big deal for me. I am in a fully committed long term relationship with him.

The pics I put up don't show my face. They are more recent and, well, see the job thing above. I hope you enjoy the soft hair on my body - I like to be natural, but I do shave my legs. BF goes nuts over my soft hairy armpits because he knows something most American men don't. Hmmmmm.

What I Like
Because you've asked (and continue to do so), you can get a peek into what turns me on by browsing my favorite videos over there on the right. Watch a couple of those and you'll get the idea. Oh, and, YES - I do like girls, too. Dated one for a while and it was a wonderful experience. If you want to ask me "why" on a particular video, send me the link to it when you do so I know how to answer you.

My Annoyances
I just have to say this - it's annoying to me that a guy puts up a pic of a girl for his avatar. Hello? Do you want to BE that girl or DO that girl? Why not put a picture of your face or another part of your anatomy there. I guarantee you - I remember what your penis looks like a lot quicker than the ass of the girl you want to BE or DO. I'm just sayin'.

Look, I know that it's sometimes hard to "strike up a conversation", and I'm not going to be a jerk to you when you ask me stupid stuff, but PLEASE do me the courtesy of reading this first, then ask me stuff I don't say here. I like sweetness and people who are respectful. That's a turn-on from me and you'll get more mileage.

The Bad News
We have decided that we were not going to cam anymore, at least for now. See above on the job thing. I really can't say more about that, and I understand that this creeps out some people. That's fine - don't friend me and don't chat me up if you're going to go all spaz on me when I tell you I don't have a cam. That's the technical term.

Also, we don't do yahoo, msn, skype, or call you on the phone, meet you for a beer, or anything else. If it's not on Hamster, we're not there, so if you ask any of these things, I'll politely ask you to go read my profile. Maybe that's why you're here right now!

We have met some amazing, loving, wonderful people here, and as much as we might like to hook up and be real friends in life, we have to adhere to a policy of "not right now", so please don't make it any harder for us by pushing it.

My Rules (I go from Zero to Bitch in 4.3 seconds)
If you are under 18, don't even think about inviting me to your cam and don't friend me. By doing so, you are implying that you're 18 or over. I'm not a cougar and it does not excite me in the least.

I like tenderness, politeness and people who are classy. I don't care what you do in life - that has nothing to do with being classy. I don't like brute force, harsh, overly-dominant slave stuff. You'll get blocked quick if you try it on me.

If you chat me up on a particular topic and I "hint" back at you that I don't much care for that line of thinking, acting, or being, let it go. If you keep pushing me to act out, chat about, or just plain accept whatever it is, you'll be blocked.

Be respectful of everyone here. If I see you being a jerk to someone else, I'll block you. Keep it casual, fun, and remember that this is just a place for virtual fantasies, and not just yours.