Amrita: The Nectar of Female Ejaculate
Female Orgasm Explained
What classifies female "ejaculation"?
Sometimes known as 'squirting' or 'gushing,' but also produces an abundance of lubricating fluids created by stimulation of a woman's erogenous zones. In tantra, it is referred to as Kalas. Indicating the esoteric nature of this phenomenon. It's the connection with culture and the cycles of the Moon/reproductive cycle. My favorite one is a beautiful word for it - "Amrita," which means 'divine nectar.'
Are you getting the feel of where I am leading you to?
Mmm…
WHERE are MY VAGINAL FLUIDS COMING from?
Those come from three different body sources:
1) From the urethra - pee hole
2) From vaginal walls - and moisten your pussy
3) Directly from the uterus through the cervix opening and discharged again out through the vagina
Another way Amrita comes about is: Without any stimulation whatsoever. This is next-level magic. An activated Yoni may produce Amrita just like that. It may happen together with an energetic opening through emotional release through orgasm, sexual fantasizing, or just watching erotic love-making films.
What happens on my physiological level?
Female ejaculation is a physiological phenomenon usually associated with an orgasm that is not under voluntary control and is entirely different from urination. It is related to the release of a man called prostatic enzymes, such as PSA.
It comes out from the same hole as urine does. That's why some people assume it's pee. (NOT True.)
Why is it not pee?
A real study that proves it so.
First of all, they smell different. Female ejaculation has a pheromone odor to it, and on the tongue, it tastes delicious.
The amounts of the liquid vary from one woman to another woman and from day today. Knowing from my own experience. Sometimes I will trickle a few drops, and other times – the puddle of fluids draining from my pussy can be quite significant.
I know of my women friends by chatting with them who can soak the entire bed during sex! That is just how much they squirt!
The large amounts are genuinely incredible and due to a massive orgasm that accompanies it. GYN doctors won't give you an explanation as to why it happens if you even bother to ask.
Biology accepts that some liquid comes out from the Skene's gland, which ends all of what female ejaculation is about. But the abundant fluids cannot be explained by conventional GYN training.
Here is a hint. [In many women's opinion.]
Female ejaculation is a mystical experience.
It is directly related to your connection with the cycles of the Moon/Reproductive Cycle. This may start at a ********** age in girls, so you are aware that mom's out there.
If you pay attention, you will notice that on some days of the month, a squirting orgasm is more relaxed than on others.
Tantra says that the ability to produce Kalas is a woman's step into paranormal powers. I was a psychology major in college back in the 1970s. But this was never talked about in my classes at the time. Kalas is the physical manifestation of sexual energy.
And if you try, you can 'Kalas' too.
The liquid produced is very precious. It has lots of healing properties, the results of which I have witnessed many times. Keeping my whole body looking youthful. Tantric people try not to waste a drop of it. They will smell and taste it, rub it on the skin around their vaginal opening. The sensation and health effects are essential to life itself.
OK, Vik, how do I get there?
First of all, you need to be very relaxed and very aroused. Do everything you can to empty your mind.
A great skill that we learn with using a vibrating egg by pushing out with the vaginal muscles. This skill is convenient when it comes to female ejaculation. It's great to train these muscles.
Most commonly, Amrita results from prolonged and firm stimulation of the urethral sponge around the A & G spots area. The G-spot is located about 6-10 cm inside the vagina. On the frontal wall of the birth canal. The A-spot is located slightly higher, just in front of the cervix and on the frontal wall. (Frontal wall is the side of your pubic bone, back wall – the bottom of your anus.)
The stimulation has to be rhythmical and thrusting. If you are taking yourself there – it's excellent to use toys designed for G-spot stimulation. Or if you have a willing partner or a happy friend to assist you in this unique experience. Fingers do a better job than their cocks at this.
And don't put pressure on yourself or your partner for this – have fun with it, keep practicing, and one day the fountain of immortality will show its essence to you through your own pussy.
What's stopping you, ladies?
Your mind.
You might think to yourself: "I cannot possibly do this. What will my partner think of me?"
Many women think this way, not knowing that they are pushing away an experience that cannot compare to anything else, which can unlock something deep within them.
I hope that once you have read about the nature of this precious liquid, you will change your mind. And please do educate your partner about it.
You might also think: "Imagine all the mess that I will create. What if I spoil the bed?"
Actually, I know a couple who bought rubber sheets for this purpose.
You don't need a rubber sheet, but you can get creative: use a towel under your pelvis, puddle-proof pads, or consider doing it in the bathtub. If you are flexible enough, it can be fun!
You might have other fears and thoughts, but the important thing here is: these thoughts are your inner saboteur, it is your resistance – a part of you that wants to stay small and doesn't want to experience deep pleasure because it knows – you won't be the same person after that.
Do everything you can to make it comfortable for your mind, but then if things are not going the way you planned, let it go, don't react to the provocations of your imagination.
You might be surprised, but sometimes female ejaculation can happen independently of an orgasm. More than that – it can occur as a release even though the sensations you are having are not pleasurable at all! I know it because this is what happened to me once.
My very first ejaculation experience was not pleasurable at all. When I had just started working on my sexuality, I was entirely disconnected from the sense of pleasure in my body. I had to resurrect my Yoni and went through quite a lot of healing. And one time, I was receiving a tantric Yoni massage, and it was deadly painful, and suddenly the masseuse working with tells me: "Oh great, you are having Kalas!" I remember being so surprised because I thought that Kalas only comes with immense pleasure.
It usually does, but there are exceptions.
Because to get to these really blissful out-of-your-mind expanded states of orgasm, we have to release stuck energy and pain.
I hope that you are inspired, and you will tap into this mystical aspect of yours!
And before you go, I am inquisitive.
Have you ever had an experience of female ejaculation? How was it? What tips can you give other women to get there?
Please, let Vik know in your comments.
{some lovely ones I received already}
=============================================
•Shy Shelly - Shetowne
Vik, I came across this information when I was seeking answers to squirting! I started squirting at 43 when I started relaxing when having sex. Mine comes in drops and mild wetness. For me, it happens voluntarily, during sex, foreplay, and orgasm. It never happened with any of my previous lovers, male or female. But my current husband knows how to turn me on, and the pleasure is enormous! We love it!
• Lovely Lynne - Loverton
So I read Shelly's comment just moments ago, experiencing her release. And was searching for information for myself. I am working through sexual healing from abuse growing up and the sexual trauma I experienced as a teenager. I have been with my husband for 26 years and struggled with blockages from my youth that I had created to survive. These past weeks I had a breakthrough connecting with myself sexually. And this breakthrough has now connected me with my husband in a more profound spiritual way.
No more shame and no more feelings of guilt in my life. Thanks, ladies.
•Joyful Jenna - Johnstown
This was extremely helpful to me. I've never had an experience like that, and I've honestly been pretty worried about messy sex. I have been married for 4 years, but I have always felt like something was blocking me from orgasm. And now, I am working on my sexuality, and I feel like this was a perfect article to read. I'd love any advice.
Thanks, Vik.
•Always Alanis - Atlanta
Thank you for this, Vik!
The first time I squirted, I thought it was urine and was quite embarrassed until my partner explained. He had experienced it work with previous partners.
I had been married previously for 20 years. And my partner always ended very quickly. After my divorce, I met an excellent partner with whom sex was so much more enjoyable. For me, it was a 'timing' thing, I think. It takes a woman longer to warm up and become aroused enough to ejaculate/orgasm.
•Busty Brea - Bayview
The first time this happened to me, I was shocked. It was pleasurable but not orgasmic. I experienced it only a few times with my first husband. But now, with my current partner, I experience it more frequently. It's always minutes before orgasm, depending on how I time my release. I'm very in touch with my sexuality, and I believe this release, as well as mind-blowing orgasms, comes with being adequately hydrated, relaxed, comfortable, and the moon cycle.
FYI, Vik - my lover is my girlfriend, and she squirts too, so we make a mess together.
•Moanin' Mona - Morrisville
This was happening to me, but I never knew what it was. Being a good Chinese girl, my partner and I never talked about sex. I'm actually trying to get over my girlfriend. She was the only one who could make squirt, and it happened almost every time we were intimate. Our sheets would be drenched! It's her ability to do this to me that's making it really hard to get over her. This started happening to me after my second was born and leaving my husband at 32.
•Elegant Elle - Elizabethtown
I have tried and tried and tried. Fingers, toys, you name it. I had two partners in the past that swore up and down that they were the ones to make my pussy squirt. They could make it happen to any woman bragged. They tried so hard on me, but I was bleeding from them working so hard instead of Amrita! I have since had a Yoni massage and done some sacred sexuality studies. But still, I have not experienced a gushing orgasm yet.
Vik's reply
Hi Elle. I just experienced this for the first time last night. And it came after weeks of more or less feeling at my wit's end. I just turned 60 not long ago, and I am losing my ability to achieving real orgasm.
In the past, my husband would often make the "come here" motion on my G-spot with his fingers. And I would only end up getting overstimulated, asking him to stop. Last night he really really wanted to give me an orgasm. I told him it was a lost cause.
But he tried different things and made love to me for an hour. He asked me what to do, and once more, I suggested that he finger my G-spot. He was at it for a minute, and it felt OK.
Then he did something that changed EVERYTHING. He shifted to change positions and get off his elbows, and he braced his left hand against my belly just above my pelvic bone, exactly opposite where his right hand was inside of me.
I felt my G-spot sandwiched between, and the pleasure was so intense. I threw my hand on top of his and said, "Oh my God! Leave that hand right there. You've got it. This is it." And he did. He put pressure above and pressure inside, and I literally squirted all over him. That was the first time in my life I had such a powerful orgasm to enjoy with my husband again. The most incredible mystical feeling I have ever had.
•Naughty Nadia - Nachez
I squirted the second time only just yesterday! The first time I was making amends to my Yoni, while in India. I was super relaxed and just kept rubbing until suddenly, I heard a splash on the bed, and I realized what had happened! I laughed my butt off for a solid five minutes. It was so much fun and very unexpected.
Then yesterday, I was sitting on my bed, pleasuring myself with my rabbit vibrator. Having meditated a lot, experiencing a lot of Kriya/Kundalini-related energy racing to my body. Doing yoga every day, I was just relaxing, profoundly focused on my body sinking deeper into relaxation, creating a super horny scenario in my head. (Wish I could share that part with you, but let's say it was very naught). Within minutes I am splashing again, two squirts, totally unexpected and sexy for my Yoni. Still, I ended up laughing hysterically for five minutes after it is all over. Sex with laughter is the best combination! (Splash thrown in too!)
•Lustful Lisa - Lexington
I am a gusher and BBW! It happens ************ for me, and in fact, I do not feel anything associated with it other than it happens when I am very aroused. I can feel that I am suddenly very wet down there if there is a lot of foreplay leading to a good pounding that usually does it for me.
I finally bought some belted pads intended for incontinence to keep from having to change my underwear all the time. Of course, incontinence pads work, but I wish the 'sex blankets' on the market for this purpose of protecting our bed. Were rubber sheets not so expensive, or the incontinence pads were not so ugly? I wish for a better solution to my wetness. I never thought it was pee, but you would be surprised how many times I've had to explain that to my lovers.
•Top-Heavy Talla - Tallahassee
After reading about Nectar Goddess, I tried with my girlfriend, Initially, she was hesitant to lick me down there, but once she got past my very bushy puss, she enjoyed touching me until reaching my orgasm. Then we swap, and I repay the sexual favor just given to me. It is a gratifying experience for us both, and I have almost given up intercourse because my sex life was compromised for that. Still, the ultimate pleasure for us now is orgasm by only licking and fingering each other's pussies.
•Gramma Gracie - Gateway
I had my first last week! At 73 on my own at the senior home. I'm now fingering my old hole and have just done it again! I hope the staff does not find out. Shhhh! (Asked my son to buy me a decent vibrator to help.)
•Crazy Crystola - Christchurch
Ya, I squirt myself and do regularly. Whenever my husband takes his dick, it's not completely hard. And rubs it up and down along my clit hood and a bit inside my hole. It is crazy, and he cums not long after gushing all over his hard prick. He has even made me squirt twice before he blasts his load in me. It is a fucking mess! Last night, cumming cowgirl, my squirts hit his belly button, making a small pond! Then I had to suck it out. I thought this was weird, but maybe not.
•Erotic Erica - Englishtown
Vik, I am so thankful for your article. I have been releasing my 'divine nectar' for years during intercourse with my loving husband. But last night, I did it during the most unexpected time. I'm in our family room, watching my favorite porn movie. As the lovers on our big-screen TV made more and more moaning sounds of their sex play,
I start to orgasm with joy, and there it began. All that wetness soaked all through my pants. What if our little ones were around instead of at a friend's house? How would I explain this? I am totally in the dark and don't understand why or how this all happened. I was fully aroused but had no orgasm at all. Is something wrong with me? Please help me get control of the wetness in my panties.
Vik's reply
Nothing wrong with you, Erica! The joy, rapture, ecstasy, excitement of an erotic moment will have that effect on you. I was at a club with my best friend once, and she was so excited and happy she squirted there on the dance floor in my arms. She didn't tell me till a few weeks later as she was so embarrassed! It was so beautiful to share.
• Chatty Chantay - Chicago
I'm a 20-year-old very fit woman. Recently I've been squirting in my dreams at night. Exercising all day at the gym makes my rest very sound at night. My night-dreams, the ones I remember, don't have to be overtly sexual just intimate. I'll literally wake up feeling water falling down my thigh gap out of my Yoni. I find it happens more frequently when I'm really in tune, in a positive mood, and endorphins taking over. Or if I meditate before I sleep. I believe your ability to squirt is most linked to your trust in your own sexuality and sexual confidence within yourself.
•Wicked Wendy - Wheeling
I am a 48-year-old woman who likes to swing. I experienced my first orgasm at the age of 16 via oral sex and eventually began experiencing them with intercourse a year later. It wasn't until my twenty-first birthday that I experienced my very first female ejaculation/gushing. I had heard about it from one of my girlfriends but had not experienced this incredible pleasure till then.
I am not entirely sure of the contributing factors at the time, just being very erotic. Still, I speculate that the connection I have with ever-changing partners and now being older and wiser. In touch with my sexuality, it plays a massive role in my comfort level. The ability just to relax, thoroughly enjoy the moment of orgasm takes over your body. It even happened twice the first night we were together. The first time was shocking, and I thought I had peed, but it happened again within about 20 minutes later, while hotly fucking.
I was more aware of the sensation, knowing it was something different and extremely pleasurable. Now it happens again and again, but it happens between my orgasms as well. It's really something else and hard to describe to a female that has never gushed. It is messy in a beautiful and liberating way, to say the least; however, being prepared with towels has become necessary! It's something my girlfriend, a 50-year-old widower, has never experienced, so it has been a very erotic topic of discussion. Maybe someday, we will delight her by sharing my husband with her. And we all will be able to experience together. Wishing all of you an abundance of Amrita!
•Juicy Janet - Janesville
I started squirting while masturbating at ******* years old. My mother was out of the house shopping. And now that I am eighteen, I remember the first time I did it vividly. I thought it was pee! To this day, I still find it embarrassing. Although men seem to enjoy it, I hope mommy will allow me to bring one home to fuck me silly.
•Sloppy Samantha - Southampton
Hello V. V., this is all a fascinating subject, but I have always been wondering about the fact of having to push out to squirt. Taoïsts teachings are all about avoiding any energy leakage from one's Yang. And Chinese custom advises not to push out when orgasming. I noticed that anytime I would push out when having an orgasm, the sensation would feel stronger. But also much more energy-depleting, which is why I now avoid that on days that I work. So I'm a bit unclear about the real benefits of squirting.
The liquid produced is supposed to have great qualities, but what if it makes us lose our energy in the process. That idea doesn't make me very keen to try squirting, and that's why I would love to know what your take on this is? How do you manage to push without losing energy?
Vik's reply
Hi Sam, thanks for some great questions. These are subtle things, but when you are pushing out physically, you actually don't have to push out energetically at the same time. You can be pushing out with your Yoni and circulating the energy along the microcosmic orbit.
Another thing is that Amrita doesn't always have to come together with physical pushing. Sometimes it may occur without any effort whatsoever, just a super high level of arousal and openness of the Yoni. Ahh, just writing about this feels so juicy!
•Messy Melissa - Missiontown
Thank you, Ms. Vik, for explaining sexuality in such a fantastic way. For me, the journey into squirting required quite a lot of work and frustration. I have been with my husband for 20 years, so we know each other well. We are lifestylers, so we also share our sexuality with others. In the lifestyler society, it has been "trendy" to make a woman squirt for the last 5 years, so more and more men learn how to make their wives squirt. I think they like it since it makes it visual for them what happens with the woman.
I guess they think, "Oh, I did well cause she squirted." The result has been that they have worked hard to improve their skills, and because it was new to me too, I haven't been able to guide the men I have been with. For years I thought it wasn't for me because it was painfully mixed with a feeling of needing to pee. But then, finally, we connected with a man who understood the essence of it. He could make me squirt within minutes of playing with me, and it was only pleasurable. This is 4 months ago, and now, after knowing how it should feel, I can squirt over and over again with only minutes of recovery in between. I can quickly soak the whole bed or a bathroom floor. For me, it is easiest if I stand up or sit on my knees.
It's more difficult if I lie on my back. The point in my vagina is not that far from the opening and is very sensitive to touch. What works best for me is relaxed fingers moved back and forth (Between the frontal and back wall of the vagina), NOT in and out. Or a penis gently tapping this area. So my point is that if it doesn't feel right, it might be too hard or in the wrong spot. I did have some shame or embarrassment around it, but it is gone now, and I am so happy to see you call it Amrit, the nectar of life.
Vik's reply
Wow, Melissa, thank you so much for sharing your experience. It's handy! I also see many people try to force Amrita, push on the woman's belly, and make her go through a lot of pain before she can actually squirt. I've decided that but I MUCH prefer the gentle way, and the key for me is just to be extra aroused. Then it all flows naturally. I am also so happy to hear that your relationship works beautifully for 20 years, and you stay open to your desires! Well done, you gals! :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
What classifies female "ejaculation"?
Sometimes known as 'squirting' or 'gushing,' but also produces an abundance of lubricating fluids created by stimulation of a woman's erogenous zones. In tantra, it is referred to as Kalas. Indicating the esoteric nature of this phenomenon. It's the connection with culture and the cycles of the Moon/reproductive cycle. My favorite one is a beautiful word for it - "Amrita," which means 'divine nectar.'
Are you getting the feel of where I am leading you to?
Mmm…
WHERE are MY VAGINAL FLUIDS COMING from?
Those come from three different body sources:
1) From the urethra - pee hole
2) From vaginal walls - and moisten your pussy
3) Directly from the uterus through the cervix opening and discharged again out through the vagina
Another way Amrita comes about is: Without any stimulation whatsoever. This is next-level magic. An activated Yoni may produce Amrita just like that. It may happen together with an energetic opening through emotional release through orgasm, sexual fantasizing, or just watching erotic love-making films.
What happens on my physiological level?
Female ejaculation is a physiological phenomenon usually associated with an orgasm that is not under voluntary control and is entirely different from urination. It is related to the release of a man called prostatic enzymes, such as PSA.
It comes out from the same hole as urine does. That's why some people assume it's pee. (NOT True.)
Why is it not pee?
A real study that proves it so.
First of all, they smell different. Female ejaculation has a pheromone odor to it, and on the tongue, it tastes delicious.
The amounts of the liquid vary from one woman to another woman and from day today. Knowing from my own experience. Sometimes I will trickle a few drops, and other times – the puddle of fluids draining from my pussy can be quite significant.
I know of my women friends by chatting with them who can soak the entire bed during sex! That is just how much they squirt!
The large amounts are genuinely incredible and due to a massive orgasm that accompanies it. GYN doctors won't give you an explanation as to why it happens if you even bother to ask.
Biology accepts that some liquid comes out from the Skene's gland, which ends all of what female ejaculation is about. But the abundant fluids cannot be explained by conventional GYN training.
Here is a hint. [In many women's opinion.]
Female ejaculation is a mystical experience.
It is directly related to your connection with the cycles of the Moon/Reproductive Cycle. This may start at a ********** age in girls, so you are aware that mom's out there.
If you pay attention, you will notice that on some days of the month, a squirting orgasm is more relaxed than on others.
Tantra says that the ability to produce Kalas is a woman's step into paranormal powers. I was a psychology major in college back in the 1970s. But this was never talked about in my classes at the time. Kalas is the physical manifestation of sexual energy.
And if you try, you can 'Kalas' too.
The liquid produced is very precious. It has lots of healing properties, the results of which I have witnessed many times. Keeping my whole body looking youthful. Tantric people try not to waste a drop of it. They will smell and taste it, rub it on the skin around their vaginal opening. The sensation and health effects are essential to life itself.
OK, Vik, how do I get there?
First of all, you need to be very relaxed and very aroused. Do everything you can to empty your mind.
A great skill that we learn with using a vibrating egg by pushing out with the vaginal muscles. This skill is convenient when it comes to female ejaculation. It's great to train these muscles.
Most commonly, Amrita results from prolonged and firm stimulation of the urethral sponge around the A & G spots area. The G-spot is located about 6-10 cm inside the vagina. On the frontal wall of the birth canal. The A-spot is located slightly higher, just in front of the cervix and on the frontal wall. (Frontal wall is the side of your pubic bone, back wall – the bottom of your anus.)
The stimulation has to be rhythmical and thrusting. If you are taking yourself there – it's excellent to use toys designed for G-spot stimulation. Or if you have a willing partner or a happy friend to assist you in this unique experience. Fingers do a better job than their cocks at this.
And don't put pressure on yourself or your partner for this – have fun with it, keep practicing, and one day the fountain of immortality will show its essence to you through your own pussy.
What's stopping you, ladies?
Your mind.
You might think to yourself: "I cannot possibly do this. What will my partner think of me?"
Many women think this way, not knowing that they are pushing away an experience that cannot compare to anything else, which can unlock something deep within them.
I hope that once you have read about the nature of this precious liquid, you will change your mind. And please do educate your partner about it.
You might also think: "Imagine all the mess that I will create. What if I spoil the bed?"
Actually, I know a couple who bought rubber sheets for this purpose.
You don't need a rubber sheet, but you can get creative: use a towel under your pelvis, puddle-proof pads, or consider doing it in the bathtub. If you are flexible enough, it can be fun!
You might have other fears and thoughts, but the important thing here is: these thoughts are your inner saboteur, it is your resistance – a part of you that wants to stay small and doesn't want to experience deep pleasure because it knows – you won't be the same person after that.
Do everything you can to make it comfortable for your mind, but then if things are not going the way you planned, let it go, don't react to the provocations of your imagination.
You might be surprised, but sometimes female ejaculation can happen independently of an orgasm. More than that – it can occur as a release even though the sensations you are having are not pleasurable at all! I know it because this is what happened to me once.
My very first ejaculation experience was not pleasurable at all. When I had just started working on my sexuality, I was entirely disconnected from the sense of pleasure in my body. I had to resurrect my Yoni and went through quite a lot of healing. And one time, I was receiving a tantric Yoni massage, and it was deadly painful, and suddenly the masseuse working with tells me: "Oh great, you are having Kalas!" I remember being so surprised because I thought that Kalas only comes with immense pleasure.
It usually does, but there are exceptions.
Because to get to these really blissful out-of-your-mind expanded states of orgasm, we have to release stuck energy and pain.
I hope that you are inspired, and you will tap into this mystical aspect of yours!
And before you go, I am inquisitive.
Have you ever had an experience of female ejaculation? How was it? What tips can you give other women to get there?
Please, let Vik know in your comments.
{some lovely ones I received already}
=============================================
•Shy Shelly - Shetowne
Vik, I came across this information when I was seeking answers to squirting! I started squirting at 43 when I started relaxing when having sex. Mine comes in drops and mild wetness. For me, it happens voluntarily, during sex, foreplay, and orgasm. It never happened with any of my previous lovers, male or female. But my current husband knows how to turn me on, and the pleasure is enormous! We love it!
• Lovely Lynne - Loverton
So I read Shelly's comment just moments ago, experiencing her release. And was searching for information for myself. I am working through sexual healing from abuse growing up and the sexual trauma I experienced as a teenager. I have been with my husband for 26 years and struggled with blockages from my youth that I had created to survive. These past weeks I had a breakthrough connecting with myself sexually. And this breakthrough has now connected me with my husband in a more profound spiritual way.
No more shame and no more feelings of guilt in my life. Thanks, ladies.
•Joyful Jenna - Johnstown
This was extremely helpful to me. I've never had an experience like that, and I've honestly been pretty worried about messy sex. I have been married for 4 years, but I have always felt like something was blocking me from orgasm. And now, I am working on my sexuality, and I feel like this was a perfect article to read. I'd love any advice.
Thanks, Vik.
•Always Alanis - Atlanta
Thank you for this, Vik!
The first time I squirted, I thought it was urine and was quite embarrassed until my partner explained. He had experienced it work with previous partners.
I had been married previously for 20 years. And my partner always ended very quickly. After my divorce, I met an excellent partner with whom sex was so much more enjoyable. For me, it was a 'timing' thing, I think. It takes a woman longer to warm up and become aroused enough to ejaculate/orgasm.
•Busty Brea - Bayview
The first time this happened to me, I was shocked. It was pleasurable but not orgasmic. I experienced it only a few times with my first husband. But now, with my current partner, I experience it more frequently. It's always minutes before orgasm, depending on how I time my release. I'm very in touch with my sexuality, and I believe this release, as well as mind-blowing orgasms, comes with being adequately hydrated, relaxed, comfortable, and the moon cycle.
FYI, Vik - my lover is my girlfriend, and she squirts too, so we make a mess together.
•Moanin' Mona - Morrisville
This was happening to me, but I never knew what it was. Being a good Chinese girl, my partner and I never talked about sex. I'm actually trying to get over my girlfriend. She was the only one who could make squirt, and it happened almost every time we were intimate. Our sheets would be drenched! It's her ability to do this to me that's making it really hard to get over her. This started happening to me after my second was born and leaving my husband at 32.
•Elegant Elle - Elizabethtown
I have tried and tried and tried. Fingers, toys, you name it. I had two partners in the past that swore up and down that they were the ones to make my pussy squirt. They could make it happen to any woman bragged. They tried so hard on me, but I was bleeding from them working so hard instead of Amrita! I have since had a Yoni massage and done some sacred sexuality studies. But still, I have not experienced a gushing orgasm yet.
Vik's reply
Hi Elle. I just experienced this for the first time last night. And it came after weeks of more or less feeling at my wit's end. I just turned 60 not long ago, and I am losing my ability to achieving real orgasm.
In the past, my husband would often make the "come here" motion on my G-spot with his fingers. And I would only end up getting overstimulated, asking him to stop. Last night he really really wanted to give me an orgasm. I told him it was a lost cause.
But he tried different things and made love to me for an hour. He asked me what to do, and once more, I suggested that he finger my G-spot. He was at it for a minute, and it felt OK.
Then he did something that changed EVERYTHING. He shifted to change positions and get off his elbows, and he braced his left hand against my belly just above my pelvic bone, exactly opposite where his right hand was inside of me.
I felt my G-spot sandwiched between, and the pleasure was so intense. I threw my hand on top of his and said, "Oh my God! Leave that hand right there. You've got it. This is it." And he did. He put pressure above and pressure inside, and I literally squirted all over him. That was the first time in my life I had such a powerful orgasm to enjoy with my husband again. The most incredible mystical feeling I have ever had.
•Naughty Nadia - Nachez
I squirted the second time only just yesterday! The first time I was making amends to my Yoni, while in India. I was super relaxed and just kept rubbing until suddenly, I heard a splash on the bed, and I realized what had happened! I laughed my butt off for a solid five minutes. It was so much fun and very unexpected.
Then yesterday, I was sitting on my bed, pleasuring myself with my rabbit vibrator. Having meditated a lot, experiencing a lot of Kriya/Kundalini-related energy racing to my body. Doing yoga every day, I was just relaxing, profoundly focused on my body sinking deeper into relaxation, creating a super horny scenario in my head. (Wish I could share that part with you, but let's say it was very naught). Within minutes I am splashing again, two squirts, totally unexpected and sexy for my Yoni. Still, I ended up laughing hysterically for five minutes after it is all over. Sex with laughter is the best combination! (Splash thrown in too!)
•Lustful Lisa - Lexington
I am a gusher and BBW! It happens ************ for me, and in fact, I do not feel anything associated with it other than it happens when I am very aroused. I can feel that I am suddenly very wet down there if there is a lot of foreplay leading to a good pounding that usually does it for me.
I finally bought some belted pads intended for incontinence to keep from having to change my underwear all the time. Of course, incontinence pads work, but I wish the 'sex blankets' on the market for this purpose of protecting our bed. Were rubber sheets not so expensive, or the incontinence pads were not so ugly? I wish for a better solution to my wetness. I never thought it was pee, but you would be surprised how many times I've had to explain that to my lovers.
•Top-Heavy Talla - Tallahassee
After reading about Nectar Goddess, I tried with my girlfriend, Initially, she was hesitant to lick me down there, but once she got past my very bushy puss, she enjoyed touching me until reaching my orgasm. Then we swap, and I repay the sexual favor just given to me. It is a gratifying experience for us both, and I have almost given up intercourse because my sex life was compromised for that. Still, the ultimate pleasure for us now is orgasm by only licking and fingering each other's pussies.
•Gramma Gracie - Gateway
I had my first last week! At 73 on my own at the senior home. I'm now fingering my old hole and have just done it again! I hope the staff does not find out. Shhhh! (Asked my son to buy me a decent vibrator to help.)
•Crazy Crystola - Christchurch
Ya, I squirt myself and do regularly. Whenever my husband takes his dick, it's not completely hard. And rubs it up and down along my clit hood and a bit inside my hole. It is crazy, and he cums not long after gushing all over his hard prick. He has even made me squirt twice before he blasts his load in me. It is a fucking mess! Last night, cumming cowgirl, my squirts hit his belly button, making a small pond! Then I had to suck it out. I thought this was weird, but maybe not.
•Erotic Erica - Englishtown
Vik, I am so thankful for your article. I have been releasing my 'divine nectar' for years during intercourse with my loving husband. But last night, I did it during the most unexpected time. I'm in our family room, watching my favorite porn movie. As the lovers on our big-screen TV made more and more moaning sounds of their sex play,
I start to orgasm with joy, and there it began. All that wetness soaked all through my pants. What if our little ones were around instead of at a friend's house? How would I explain this? I am totally in the dark and don't understand why or how this all happened. I was fully aroused but had no orgasm at all. Is something wrong with me? Please help me get control of the wetness in my panties.
Vik's reply
Nothing wrong with you, Erica! The joy, rapture, ecstasy, excitement of an erotic moment will have that effect on you. I was at a club with my best friend once, and she was so excited and happy she squirted there on the dance floor in my arms. She didn't tell me till a few weeks later as she was so embarrassed! It was so beautiful to share.
• Chatty Chantay - Chicago
I'm a 20-year-old very fit woman. Recently I've been squirting in my dreams at night. Exercising all day at the gym makes my rest very sound at night. My night-dreams, the ones I remember, don't have to be overtly sexual just intimate. I'll literally wake up feeling water falling down my thigh gap out of my Yoni. I find it happens more frequently when I'm really in tune, in a positive mood, and endorphins taking over. Or if I meditate before I sleep. I believe your ability to squirt is most linked to your trust in your own sexuality and sexual confidence within yourself.
•Wicked Wendy - Wheeling
I am a 48-year-old woman who likes to swing. I experienced my first orgasm at the age of 16 via oral sex and eventually began experiencing them with intercourse a year later. It wasn't until my twenty-first birthday that I experienced my very first female ejaculation/gushing. I had heard about it from one of my girlfriends but had not experienced this incredible pleasure till then.
I am not entirely sure of the contributing factors at the time, just being very erotic. Still, I speculate that the connection I have with ever-changing partners and now being older and wiser. In touch with my sexuality, it plays a massive role in my comfort level. The ability just to relax, thoroughly enjoy the moment of orgasm takes over your body. It even happened twice the first night we were together. The first time was shocking, and I thought I had peed, but it happened again within about 20 minutes later, while hotly fucking.
I was more aware of the sensation, knowing it was something different and extremely pleasurable. Now it happens again and again, but it happens between my orgasms as well. It's really something else and hard to describe to a female that has never gushed. It is messy in a beautiful and liberating way, to say the least; however, being prepared with towels has become necessary! It's something my girlfriend, a 50-year-old widower, has never experienced, so it has been a very erotic topic of discussion. Maybe someday, we will delight her by sharing my husband with her. And we all will be able to experience together. Wishing all of you an abundance of Amrita!
•Juicy Janet - Janesville
I started squirting while masturbating at ******* years old. My mother was out of the house shopping. And now that I am eighteen, I remember the first time I did it vividly. I thought it was pee! To this day, I still find it embarrassing. Although men seem to enjoy it, I hope mommy will allow me to bring one home to fuck me silly.
•Sloppy Samantha - Southampton
Hello V. V., this is all a fascinating subject, but I have always been wondering about the fact of having to push out to squirt. Taoïsts teachings are all about avoiding any energy leakage from one's Yang. And Chinese custom advises not to push out when orgasming. I noticed that anytime I would push out when having an orgasm, the sensation would feel stronger. But also much more energy-depleting, which is why I now avoid that on days that I work. So I'm a bit unclear about the real benefits of squirting.
The liquid produced is supposed to have great qualities, but what if it makes us lose our energy in the process. That idea doesn't make me very keen to try squirting, and that's why I would love to know what your take on this is? How do you manage to push without losing energy?
Vik's reply
Hi Sam, thanks for some great questions. These are subtle things, but when you are pushing out physically, you actually don't have to push out energetically at the same time. You can be pushing out with your Yoni and circulating the energy along the microcosmic orbit.
Another thing is that Amrita doesn't always have to come together with physical pushing. Sometimes it may occur without any effort whatsoever, just a super high level of arousal and openness of the Yoni. Ahh, just writing about this feels so juicy!
•Messy Melissa - Missiontown
Thank you, Ms. Vik, for explaining sexuality in such a fantastic way. For me, the journey into squirting required quite a lot of work and frustration. I have been with my husband for 20 years, so we know each other well. We are lifestylers, so we also share our sexuality with others. In the lifestyler society, it has been "trendy" to make a woman squirt for the last 5 years, so more and more men learn how to make their wives squirt. I think they like it since it makes it visual for them what happens with the woman.
I guess they think, "Oh, I did well cause she squirted." The result has been that they have worked hard to improve their skills, and because it was new to me too, I haven't been able to guide the men I have been with. For years I thought it wasn't for me because it was painfully mixed with a feeling of needing to pee. But then, finally, we connected with a man who understood the essence of it. He could make me squirt within minutes of playing with me, and it was only pleasurable. This is 4 months ago, and now, after knowing how it should feel, I can squirt over and over again with only minutes of recovery in between. I can quickly soak the whole bed or a bathroom floor. For me, it is easiest if I stand up or sit on my knees.
It's more difficult if I lie on my back. The point in my vagina is not that far from the opening and is very sensitive to touch. What works best for me is relaxed fingers moved back and forth (Between the frontal and back wall of the vagina), NOT in and out. Or a penis gently tapping this area. So my point is that if it doesn't feel right, it might be too hard or in the wrong spot. I did have some shame or embarrassment around it, but it is gone now, and I am so happy to see you call it Amrit, the nectar of life.
Vik's reply
Wow, Melissa, thank you so much for sharing your experience. It's handy! I also see many people try to force Amrita, push on the woman's belly, and make her go through a lot of pain before she can actually squirt. I've decided that but I MUCH prefer the gentle way, and the key for me is just to be extra aroused. Then it all flows naturally. I am also so happy to hear that your relationship works beautifully for 20 years, and you stay open to your desires! Well done, you gals! :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
4 years ago
The next installment will be about loss of the hymen and deflowering.