Erotic massage information
Erotic Massage Techniques
Begin With The Back Side
Caress your lover's neck, shoulders, arms, back and buttocks with your fingertips in a very light feather stroke for at least five minutes.
If you have fingernails, gently scratch your lover with them. You can do this in circular motions, long fluid motions or from side to side.
Let your light, tickly strokes and caresses create sensual anticipation for your lover as he/she won't know where you are going to tickle, scratch or touch next.
About two tablespoons of oil should be enough with which to start.
Pour the oil into your hands first and then rub your hands together so that they will be slippery and warm to the touch. Then with a slow descent, slide your hands on your lover's lower back. Let your hands glide up your lover's back all the way up to the neck, around the shoulders and back down, over the buttocks.
Repeatedly run your hands over the length of the backside. withh featherlight strokes and as you warm up the skin and muscle tissue are pressure.
Attend to both sides of the body. Change locations but make the change without taking your hands off the skin. Knead your partner from neck to buttocks.
The fleshy parts of the body like the buttocks can stand more pressure, so feel free to squeeze just a little harder. Gently spread the cheeks as you knead; this can be very exciting for the receiver.
Move your hands up all the way to the neck, over the shoulders and down the arms to the fingertips.
Use the strength of your upper body to press firmly on your partner's sacrum (The triangular bone at the base of the spine). Make sure you are low on the actual sacrum and not putting any pressure on the fragile spine.
Be playful and creative. If the mood calls for slow, deep movements stay in a sensual arousing stream of touch. If you want some spice in your erotic touch, have fun engaging your partner's body. Walk your hands like duck feet from head to toe of your partner's back side.
Leg Massage
Make sure to keep the oil warm and sufficient for fluid movement across the skin. Friction can feel bad!
Slide your hands down the thighs and calves in slow motion.
Follow this with the kneading stroke and then the feathery one.
Do one leg at a time and make sure to cover all parts of the leg: Calves, knees, feet & thighs.
Legs work a lot during the day. They are the foundations for your lovers temple body.
Use two hands to increase coverage and divide the energy it takes for these big muscles to be massaged.
Foot Massage
The best approach to the feet is to set aside time for a foot-specific massage. This way you can soak the feet first and devote all of your attention to their hygiene and pleasure.
The feet are a major erogenous zone, especially for women as the foot area in the sensory part of the brain is right next door to the clitoris.
Make sure you have enough oil for the job. The feet may be dry and cracked. Extra oil will help you touch the skin without stumbling over these rough spots.
Massage the sole of the heels.
Massage the hollow area on the sides of the ankles.
Give just as much attention to each toe as you would any other part of the body.
Try rubbing, manipulation, and resistance types of touch.
Front Side
Your lover will probably have a smile on his/her face when they turn over because your massage is so relaxing and sensual.
Do many of the same touches you did when your partner was face down but remember the delicacy of the bodies front side.
Vital organs are closer to the surface and there are more details to care for.
Activate your own muscles for long massage strokes. Channel energy from your strength into your partner's receptive body.
Rub plenty of massage oil in your hands and then put your hands lightly on top of the belly button, slowly sliding them up the center of your lover's stomach and around their nipples, then back down to the belly button. Do this at least five times because it feels really good and it's moving energy around the body.
Tenderly trace your partner's bone structures (collar bone, shoulder bone, jaw bone, sternum etc).
GENTLY kneading a woman's lower abdomen can help detach her endometrium (uterine lining) from her uterus and help reduce menstrual cramping. This can also have the opposite effect and be painful. The best way to know is to ask.
LOWER ABDOMEN MASSAGE
Hot Spots to Massage
The body can be separated into individual isolated areas of concentration. Instead of going all the way with a full-body erotic massage, it is possible to show the same nurturing sexy touch with the following most effective areas of concentration:
Shoulder massage
Neck massage
Back massage
Butt massage
Head massage
Ear massage
Foot massage
Thigh massage
Hand massage
Arm massage
Breast or chest massage
Stomach massage
Ask & Listen
Observe your lover's body language and listen for pleasure moans and groans. Ask your lover to rate the massage of erogenous zones from 1-10 on a pleasure scale with 10 being the best.
Ask her to show you how she would like her breasts to be massaged.
Ask him to show you how he would like his scrotum to be massaged.
Start cautious and gentle then work your way into more dramatic movements.
Begin With The Back Side
Caress your lover's neck, shoulders, arms, back and buttocks with your fingertips in a very light feather stroke for at least five minutes.
If you have fingernails, gently scratch your lover with them. You can do this in circular motions, long fluid motions or from side to side.
Let your light, tickly strokes and caresses create sensual anticipation for your lover as he/she won't know where you are going to tickle, scratch or touch next.
About two tablespoons of oil should be enough with which to start.
Pour the oil into your hands first and then rub your hands together so that they will be slippery and warm to the touch. Then with a slow descent, slide your hands on your lover's lower back. Let your hands glide up your lover's back all the way up to the neck, around the shoulders and back down, over the buttocks.
Repeatedly run your hands over the length of the backside. withh featherlight strokes and as you warm up the skin and muscle tissue are pressure.
Attend to both sides of the body. Change locations but make the change without taking your hands off the skin. Knead your partner from neck to buttocks.
The fleshy parts of the body like the buttocks can stand more pressure, so feel free to squeeze just a little harder. Gently spread the cheeks as you knead; this can be very exciting for the receiver.
Move your hands up all the way to the neck, over the shoulders and down the arms to the fingertips.
Use the strength of your upper body to press firmly on your partner's sacrum (The triangular bone at the base of the spine). Make sure you are low on the actual sacrum and not putting any pressure on the fragile spine.
Be playful and creative. If the mood calls for slow, deep movements stay in a sensual arousing stream of touch. If you want some spice in your erotic touch, have fun engaging your partner's body. Walk your hands like duck feet from head to toe of your partner's back side.
Leg Massage
Make sure to keep the oil warm and sufficient for fluid movement across the skin. Friction can feel bad!
Slide your hands down the thighs and calves in slow motion.
Follow this with the kneading stroke and then the feathery one.
Do one leg at a time and make sure to cover all parts of the leg: Calves, knees, feet & thighs.
Legs work a lot during the day. They are the foundations for your lovers temple body.
Use two hands to increase coverage and divide the energy it takes for these big muscles to be massaged.
Foot Massage
The best approach to the feet is to set aside time for a foot-specific massage. This way you can soak the feet first and devote all of your attention to their hygiene and pleasure.
The feet are a major erogenous zone, especially for women as the foot area in the sensory part of the brain is right next door to the clitoris.
Make sure you have enough oil for the job. The feet may be dry and cracked. Extra oil will help you touch the skin without stumbling over these rough spots.
Massage the sole of the heels.
Massage the hollow area on the sides of the ankles.
Give just as much attention to each toe as you would any other part of the body.
Try rubbing, manipulation, and resistance types of touch.
Front Side
Your lover will probably have a smile on his/her face when they turn over because your massage is so relaxing and sensual.
Do many of the same touches you did when your partner was face down but remember the delicacy of the bodies front side.
Vital organs are closer to the surface and there are more details to care for.
Activate your own muscles for long massage strokes. Channel energy from your strength into your partner's receptive body.
Rub plenty of massage oil in your hands and then put your hands lightly on top of the belly button, slowly sliding them up the center of your lover's stomach and around their nipples, then back down to the belly button. Do this at least five times because it feels really good and it's moving energy around the body.
Tenderly trace your partner's bone structures (collar bone, shoulder bone, jaw bone, sternum etc).
GENTLY kneading a woman's lower abdomen can help detach her endometrium (uterine lining) from her uterus and help reduce menstrual cramping. This can also have the opposite effect and be painful. The best way to know is to ask.
LOWER ABDOMEN MASSAGE
Hot Spots to Massage
The body can be separated into individual isolated areas of concentration. Instead of going all the way with a full-body erotic massage, it is possible to show the same nurturing sexy touch with the following most effective areas of concentration:
Shoulder massage
Neck massage
Back massage
Butt massage
Head massage
Ear massage
Foot massage
Thigh massage
Hand massage
Arm massage
Breast or chest massage
Stomach massage
Ask & Listen
Observe your lover's body language and listen for pleasure moans and groans. Ask your lover to rate the massage of erogenous zones from 1-10 on a pleasure scale with 10 being the best.
Ask her to show you how she would like her breasts to be massaged.
Ask him to show you how he would like his scrotum to be massaged.
Start cautious and gentle then work your way into more dramatic movements.
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