Why a Sissy''s Chastity Matters
Why a Sissy’s Chastity Matters
It should come as no surprise to any follower of mine that one of my most favored accessories is my chastity cage. Some sissies, those who have truly decided to embrace the lifestyle 24-7, may even refuse to ever remove their chastity device. They will stay chastised for prolonged periods of time… Weeks, months, years. Some dream of being locked up permanently, just so that they will never get to use their former manhood for the purpose of sexual release. A sissy not in chastity may never blossom into a complete woman. But what is it that makes chastity so important?
Let’s be honest. Sissy’s do have a very complicated relationship with their little ‘equipment.’ Deep down, they hate it. It is a useless organ that they don’t want and it only serves to reminds them that they aren’t ‘real’ girls. But most sissies are also terribly addicted to pornographic material. Be it stories, ‘sissy hypnosis videos,’ or pictures of big and erect cocks (often black.) It takes a lot of strength for them to resist touching themselves ‘down there’ at nearly all hours of the day. (As we all know, sissies aren’t exactly known for their strength.)
A sissy’s best option for solving this embarrassing problem is letting a nice doctor schedule a surgical procedure to take care of her ‘thing.’ The surgeon will make sure to give her a nice new gift that will certainly please the boys. But while it is true that this may be the best option, one have to understand that SRS can cost a pretty penny. It is not a realistic choice for all sissies. Some are simply forced to learn to live with their embarrassment, tucking their panties as best as they can and hope nobody notices.
This is why chastity is a great option for those sad and poor sissies who simply can’t afford the proper medical treatment. Chastity will keep them from indulging in ugly boyish masturbation, and it will make real men immediately notice that they are no competition, no threat at all, and might even become good lovers.
Chastity is certainly not an uncommon way for a dominant to control their submissive, as those familiar with the BDSM world will tell you. But as a dom who specialises in training sissies I find chastity to be urgently essential. It is the most effective tool that I have at my disposal for breaking a boy’s spirit, and to make him to accept his new life as a cute girly-girl. While we, in the realm of fantasy, might like to imagine all sissies as having ‘clits’ small as little buttons, this is not always the case. Some sissies are no smaller than your average man. They can actually be rather endowed, which would be lucky for them if they only knew how to use their equipment without crying, and don’t fear the sight of a naked woman’s vagina. Some sissies might, however, get the silly idea that just ‘cause they don’t have a micropenis, it means that they have a little bit of real masculinity left within them. As if masculinity is only determined by penis size. They always forget that it is how you use it that matters. Any girl will tell you that some of the worst lovers out there in the world are the arrogant guys with big dicks who don’t put any effort whatsoever into lovemaking because they’ve been told that size is all that matters.
In order to keep a sissy’s mind focused and free from distractions, a chastity cage can be very effective. It makes the sissy completely forget that her little organ could ever be used for a sexual purpose. A sissy, when trained properly, should be incapable of viewing herself as a potential lover to a woman. A sissy should only be able to think of herself in a sexual setting as the one getting penetrated. She may never be the one doing the actual penetrating. And sure, this penetration could either be done by a real cock belonging to a man or by a woman wearing a strap-on. But however you twist and turn it, the sissy will always be the one receiving. She is made to take and never to give.
A sissy should never be able to unlock her cage and think of sex. To her, an unlocked chastity cage is a vulgar and profoundly unsexy thing. A true sissy would be highly embarrassed if her partner caught her not wearing a chastity cage. It would embarrass her just as much as if she was caught without any make-up on her face. Or, and this would truly horrify her, if she was caught with hairy legs! Being without a chastity cage is the one thing that makes a sissy feel truly naked.
A sissy should never get sexual pleasure from what was once, back when she was a deluded boy, her principal source of masturbatory bliss. Only once you have robbed the sissy of the power that comes from being able to maintain a lasting erection can you know for certain that you’ve completed her transformation from boy to girl. She may even keep the useless remains left intact. Her clit should always stay hidden away, of course, but if she’s completely impotent then there is no real danger in allowing her to keep a little memento from her former life. It can even be quite cute watching her squirm as you squeeze that pathetic thing of hers between your fingers. She might squirt, still. Let her lick your fingers clean if you get any of her ‘juices’ on your hand.
As I see it, the perfect sissy is the girl who even without having committed to surgery could have her clit pleasured by a real man without him even realising that he isn’t licking a real pussy. Her equipment would be so shrunken and small from neglect that in the dark no-one could tell a difference between her and a ‘real’ girl. If I place my hand inside her pants, I will feel only a neatly trimmed bush and nothing else. Some men (some of the very best lovers,) do perform particularly well at cunnilingus and I think even sissies should be given the opportunity to feel what it is like to have a decent and handsome man work his love-making magic between her thick thighs. But this is a dream scenario, and it can take years, almost a decade or more, for her to reach this high level of convincing and undeniable femininity. Chastity is still the more viable option, if she is unable to get castrated. Chastity is a symbolic castration, a promise a sissy makes to dedicate her future life to achieve her goal of total feminization.
A sissy should also be able to get naked around ‘real’ women without causing them any distress. The chastity cage signifies to women that the sissy is no threat to them. In fact, a sissy is a friend and a newcomer to womankind and only wish to be treated as an equal. The sissy is trying her hardest to enter the feminine world, so she removes herself as an object for female sexuality. She is effectively opting out of ever letting a woman view her as being sexually viable. In more progressive times I imagine that sissies would have no problem entering female changing rooms and letting their chastised clits be on display to everyone to see. After all, what could a sissy ever do to a real woman? Aside from making her laugh uncontrollably?
I have no interest whatsoever in a sissy’s ‘penis.’ She does not have one. I may refer to it as a clit, but frankly, even that is something I am not completely keen on doing. I would most like to ignore her little problem, and only refer to it when I have to, in order to further feminize her. To goal of feminization is to remove all traces of manhood, and that certainly includes anything that resembles the male genitalia. And I’ve concluded in this post, if this removal can’t be done in practice, then it can at least be done symbolically through the use of a chastity cage.
You might be proud, after reading this, thinking about that time you’ve lasted a week in your chastity cage. You might have lasted a month once and now you are beaming with girly pride. But as long as you are the one holding the key, it will never truly count.
You are only in true chastity once you allow somebody else to hold the key. You need a key holder in your life, girl. Though, I must admit, that if I held your key, I might ‘accidentally’ lose it. Even if you made me promise to keep it safe. It is so easy to drop it and just shrug my shoulders when I see you begin to panic. I don’t see any reason why you shouldn’t be locked up permanently. As long as you keep your cage clean, I don’t think it could do you any harm. Well, even if could do you harm, I wouldn’t be that upset. It is hardly a vital organ that you are damaging.
In a 24-7 relationship, I would expect you to keep that cage on at all times. I would expect you to go through a metal detector wearing it. I would expect you to go to a doctor wearing it. I would expect you to make love wearing it. If you ever cheat, if you ever let your ‘thing’ out for me to see it, I will have to do something extreme to remind you to never thing you can disobey me. For as polite as I act when you girls message me, I am not shy when delivering rightful punishment. Are you sure you want to make me disappointed, sweetheart?
(NOTE: Original post was written by the prolific nordicdomblr on Tumbl
It should come as no surprise to any follower of mine that one of my most favored accessories is my chastity cage. Some sissies, those who have truly decided to embrace the lifestyle 24-7, may even refuse to ever remove their chastity device. They will stay chastised for prolonged periods of time… Weeks, months, years. Some dream of being locked up permanently, just so that they will never get to use their former manhood for the purpose of sexual release. A sissy not in chastity may never blossom into a complete woman. But what is it that makes chastity so important?
Let’s be honest. Sissy’s do have a very complicated relationship with their little ‘equipment.’ Deep down, they hate it. It is a useless organ that they don’t want and it only serves to reminds them that they aren’t ‘real’ girls. But most sissies are also terribly addicted to pornographic material. Be it stories, ‘sissy hypnosis videos,’ or pictures of big and erect cocks (often black.) It takes a lot of strength for them to resist touching themselves ‘down there’ at nearly all hours of the day. (As we all know, sissies aren’t exactly known for their strength.)
A sissy’s best option for solving this embarrassing problem is letting a nice doctor schedule a surgical procedure to take care of her ‘thing.’ The surgeon will make sure to give her a nice new gift that will certainly please the boys. But while it is true that this may be the best option, one have to understand that SRS can cost a pretty penny. It is not a realistic choice for all sissies. Some are simply forced to learn to live with their embarrassment, tucking their panties as best as they can and hope nobody notices.
This is why chastity is a great option for those sad and poor sissies who simply can’t afford the proper medical treatment. Chastity will keep them from indulging in ugly boyish masturbation, and it will make real men immediately notice that they are no competition, no threat at all, and might even become good lovers.
Chastity is certainly not an uncommon way for a dominant to control their submissive, as those familiar with the BDSM world will tell you. But as a dom who specialises in training sissies I find chastity to be urgently essential. It is the most effective tool that I have at my disposal for breaking a boy’s spirit, and to make him to accept his new life as a cute girly-girl. While we, in the realm of fantasy, might like to imagine all sissies as having ‘clits’ small as little buttons, this is not always the case. Some sissies are no smaller than your average man. They can actually be rather endowed, which would be lucky for them if they only knew how to use their equipment without crying, and don’t fear the sight of a naked woman’s vagina. Some sissies might, however, get the silly idea that just ‘cause they don’t have a micropenis, it means that they have a little bit of real masculinity left within them. As if masculinity is only determined by penis size. They always forget that it is how you use it that matters. Any girl will tell you that some of the worst lovers out there in the world are the arrogant guys with big dicks who don’t put any effort whatsoever into lovemaking because they’ve been told that size is all that matters.
In order to keep a sissy’s mind focused and free from distractions, a chastity cage can be very effective. It makes the sissy completely forget that her little organ could ever be used for a sexual purpose. A sissy, when trained properly, should be incapable of viewing herself as a potential lover to a woman. A sissy should only be able to think of herself in a sexual setting as the one getting penetrated. She may never be the one doing the actual penetrating. And sure, this penetration could either be done by a real cock belonging to a man or by a woman wearing a strap-on. But however you twist and turn it, the sissy will always be the one receiving. She is made to take and never to give.
A sissy should never be able to unlock her cage and think of sex. To her, an unlocked chastity cage is a vulgar and profoundly unsexy thing. A true sissy would be highly embarrassed if her partner caught her not wearing a chastity cage. It would embarrass her just as much as if she was caught without any make-up on her face. Or, and this would truly horrify her, if she was caught with hairy legs! Being without a chastity cage is the one thing that makes a sissy feel truly naked.
A sissy should never get sexual pleasure from what was once, back when she was a deluded boy, her principal source of masturbatory bliss. Only once you have robbed the sissy of the power that comes from being able to maintain a lasting erection can you know for certain that you’ve completed her transformation from boy to girl. She may even keep the useless remains left intact. Her clit should always stay hidden away, of course, but if she’s completely impotent then there is no real danger in allowing her to keep a little memento from her former life. It can even be quite cute watching her squirm as you squeeze that pathetic thing of hers between your fingers. She might squirt, still. Let her lick your fingers clean if you get any of her ‘juices’ on your hand.
As I see it, the perfect sissy is the girl who even without having committed to surgery could have her clit pleasured by a real man without him even realising that he isn’t licking a real pussy. Her equipment would be so shrunken and small from neglect that in the dark no-one could tell a difference between her and a ‘real’ girl. If I place my hand inside her pants, I will feel only a neatly trimmed bush and nothing else. Some men (some of the very best lovers,) do perform particularly well at cunnilingus and I think even sissies should be given the opportunity to feel what it is like to have a decent and handsome man work his love-making magic between her thick thighs. But this is a dream scenario, and it can take years, almost a decade or more, for her to reach this high level of convincing and undeniable femininity. Chastity is still the more viable option, if she is unable to get castrated. Chastity is a symbolic castration, a promise a sissy makes to dedicate her future life to achieve her goal of total feminization.
A sissy should also be able to get naked around ‘real’ women without causing them any distress. The chastity cage signifies to women that the sissy is no threat to them. In fact, a sissy is a friend and a newcomer to womankind and only wish to be treated as an equal. The sissy is trying her hardest to enter the feminine world, so she removes herself as an object for female sexuality. She is effectively opting out of ever letting a woman view her as being sexually viable. In more progressive times I imagine that sissies would have no problem entering female changing rooms and letting their chastised clits be on display to everyone to see. After all, what could a sissy ever do to a real woman? Aside from making her laugh uncontrollably?
I have no interest whatsoever in a sissy’s ‘penis.’ She does not have one. I may refer to it as a clit, but frankly, even that is something I am not completely keen on doing. I would most like to ignore her little problem, and only refer to it when I have to, in order to further feminize her. To goal of feminization is to remove all traces of manhood, and that certainly includes anything that resembles the male genitalia. And I’ve concluded in this post, if this removal can’t be done in practice, then it can at least be done symbolically through the use of a chastity cage.
You might be proud, after reading this, thinking about that time you’ve lasted a week in your chastity cage. You might have lasted a month once and now you are beaming with girly pride. But as long as you are the one holding the key, it will never truly count.
You are only in true chastity once you allow somebody else to hold the key. You need a key holder in your life, girl. Though, I must admit, that if I held your key, I might ‘accidentally’ lose it. Even if you made me promise to keep it safe. It is so easy to drop it and just shrug my shoulders when I see you begin to panic. I don’t see any reason why you shouldn’t be locked up permanently. As long as you keep your cage clean, I don’t think it could do you any harm. Well, even if could do you harm, I wouldn’t be that upset. It is hardly a vital organ that you are damaging.
In a 24-7 relationship, I would expect you to keep that cage on at all times. I would expect you to go through a metal detector wearing it. I would expect you to go to a doctor wearing it. I would expect you to make love wearing it. If you ever cheat, if you ever let your ‘thing’ out for me to see it, I will have to do something extreme to remind you to never thing you can disobey me. For as polite as I act when you girls message me, I am not shy when delivering rightful punishment. Are you sure you want to make me disappointed, sweetheart?
(NOTE: Original post was written by the prolific nordicdomblr on Tumbl
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