Xhamster and friends.
I first came across xhamster a little over 6 and a half years ago and at first i just thought it was just a free porn site so i just watched porn and wanked like so many others and there is most definitely nothing wrong with that, and this was what i did for quite a while, but over time i started to realize i could interact a lot more with people and started to send and receive friend requests.
This was really nice and i became more adventurous and chatted which excited me to do so and as time went by i gathered more friends to the point where i had collected over 350 friends, a relatively small number compared to some.
Then i discovered the whole picture and video posting thing which i explored more and more and posted pictures of my little kinks i suppose, again quite tame, and then came the tributes which has now become the main reason i log on everyday, it is fun and while all those that i have done tributes for have enjoyed me doing them and continue to do so i will keep doing them.
Now to the" FRIENDS" thing and the purpose for this post, i have come to realize that chatting with people on here is what really turns me on and i know it is just people playing out their fantasies and playing with themselves as they do so, that's healthy, but a trend has emerged at least that i have noticed over time and that is in a lot of cases it has become a one way street, by that i mean i will accept a friend request and then never hear anything from them, my guess is they just want to watch my videos which are in the majority of cases for friends only, i'm not sure but that has started to frustrate me because as i said i like the chatting aspect with "friends".
At this point i should say i chat regularly with only a handful of friends and in a couple of cases wanked together on skype, great fun, and those people know who they are and i will continue to do so while they want to but lets get to it now i have recently started to reduce the number of friends because it is too difficult to maintain good and friendly contact, like i said chatting has become more important to me lately.
So for those of you xhamster people who may read this and who are friends with me still or who i may have dropped from my friend list it is only because there has been either no communication between us since accepting your request or vise versa or if there is an obvious language barrier PLEASE UNDERSTAND IT IS NOT PERSONNEL. So i ask just accept that our "FRIENDSHIP" was more a fleeting acquaintance for perhaps a one off tribute for which i thank you, but please accept it for that and please don't get nasty towards me for doing so i certainly wouldn't do it to someone who drops me.
Lets not loose site of where we are here- a porn site where we can interact and have FUN lets keep it that way lets have fun and do away with the facade that the word FRIEND actually really means that, we are all just acquaintances but become friendlier with only a small number of people.
I look forward to your thoughts and comments but lets loose the nasty and negative and just all have sexy fun.
Best regars
HOTOTROT
This was really nice and i became more adventurous and chatted which excited me to do so and as time went by i gathered more friends to the point where i had collected over 350 friends, a relatively small number compared to some.
Then i discovered the whole picture and video posting thing which i explored more and more and posted pictures of my little kinks i suppose, again quite tame, and then came the tributes which has now become the main reason i log on everyday, it is fun and while all those that i have done tributes for have enjoyed me doing them and continue to do so i will keep doing them.
Now to the" FRIENDS" thing and the purpose for this post, i have come to realize that chatting with people on here is what really turns me on and i know it is just people playing out their fantasies and playing with themselves as they do so, that's healthy, but a trend has emerged at least that i have noticed over time and that is in a lot of cases it has become a one way street, by that i mean i will accept a friend request and then never hear anything from them, my guess is they just want to watch my videos which are in the majority of cases for friends only, i'm not sure but that has started to frustrate me because as i said i like the chatting aspect with "friends".
At this point i should say i chat regularly with only a handful of friends and in a couple of cases wanked together on skype, great fun, and those people know who they are and i will continue to do so while they want to but lets get to it now i have recently started to reduce the number of friends because it is too difficult to maintain good and friendly contact, like i said chatting has become more important to me lately.
So for those of you xhamster people who may read this and who are friends with me still or who i may have dropped from my friend list it is only because there has been either no communication between us since accepting your request or vise versa or if there is an obvious language barrier PLEASE UNDERSTAND IT IS NOT PERSONNEL. So i ask just accept that our "FRIENDSHIP" was more a fleeting acquaintance for perhaps a one off tribute for which i thank you, but please accept it for that and please don't get nasty towards me for doing so i certainly wouldn't do it to someone who drops me.
Lets not loose site of where we are here- a porn site where we can interact and have FUN lets keep it that way lets have fun and do away with the facade that the word FRIEND actually really means that, we are all just acquaintances but become friendlier with only a small number of people.
I look forward to your thoughts and comments but lets loose the nasty and negative and just all have sexy fun.
Best regars
HOTOTROT
5 years ago
