Sex parties in nj/nyc area

I'm looking to join more sex parties, it's not just sex but want to be in environment where ppl are less judgemental and no game. I'm a busy man as I work a lot but during free time I want to indulge in free fun. I'm respectful and the last thing I want is to force somebody to do something they dont want to do so I'm willing to warm up get to know ppl.