Why Spanking, hair pulling

Pleasure is nice, and it’s the name of the game for the most part, but pain brings a whole new level to the experience of sex. The reason is very simple:

Guys you can touch your partner’s leg or you can run your fingers through her hair and she’ll enjoy those acts… but she could easily be thinking about her job, or her taxes, or some text that she wants to respond to.

It’s nothing against your effort, but the human mind will travel; it’s natural.

But compare that to a slap on her butt or pulling her hair. It would be almost impossible for her to focus on anything else than that immediate sensation she just experienced at your hand.

Pulling hair or giving a light slap are great assets to use during sex, both are quick sensations that bring back her attention to you and the pleasurable things you are doing to her.

Having a man’s hands slap your butt or pull your hair plays into the fantasy of being taken, also known as ravishment. Result is release of endorphins, which combine with the neuro-chemical cocktail of sex create a feeling of heightened exhilaration.

Published by SweetNSpice

5 years ago

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Chrispcrunch69 2 years ago

There\s nothing like knowing that the woman (person) lying/crouching/kneeling/hanging before you is eagerly willing tp give themself to you and your whims and desires, where ever that may take them, and you, of course.

fannylicker57 3 years ago

I guess a tweaked nipple or gently but firmly bitten clit works well too then!!

Pain and pleasure are twins....?

Primateprimaire 3 years ago

this is so true... and for menn too

Ullrich1966 3 years ago

Great idea ?

I hope a lot of women, and men too, read this excellent explanation of the pleasure a little pain can add to sex play.

yes, I totally agree. A few years ago I was kissing my then GF and I had the brilliant idea to suddenly slap her ass, I wanted to make it sweetly, just a "pat pat" but I actually used way more force than I meant. Lol I thought she would have given me a similar slap on face but she actually kissed me more sensually. And, the first time we had sex after that, she really loved the surprising slap on her back. While I am always a bit scared by giving hard donkey punches she used to become very excited when I did.
But I will always love the hair pulling more than any other "rudeness". Not only she can't fake it's not happening - or as you said, she might think to taxes or songs - but it also brings her closer phisically.
Good post, girl!

itsthrobbing 4 years ago

This should be in a pamphlet somewhere.;) You don't address how distracted a lady can be by a good old fashioned big cock. I'd love to hear your thoughts.

black4porn 4 years ago

Thanks for that Valuable Info

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fucksyourough 5 years ago

love being balls deep in you while i yank and pull on my sluttttttttttttts hair whispering in her ear you are my slutttttttttttttt now )

master_hd 5 years ago

Spanking and hair pulling can be a good but just for a warm-up.

MayaSingh11 5 years ago

Its true..

Ur definitely right

xulo13 5 years ago

I concur