Answered: "How do you cum so much?"
The top question I get asked is "How do you cum so much?".
To be clear, I'm not sure really, it depends on a lot of things. You must understand that every body is different, genetics dictate most of it. Diet and exercise helps a lot also, but perhaps the most important after that is just how horny you are and how much effort you're willing to put in for the reward. So lets get down to learning how to blow your load like a pro.
#1 Diet - Most important in the structure of diet is hydration, water, drink water, please, lots of it. No coffee, soda, sports/energy drinks, etc. Tea and juice of the right kinds and in careful moderation are fine, but the human body is designed for processing water! I could go on a rant about this in and of itself, but that's for later (do you think gaterade is *that* good? Have you seen the sugar, or fake sugar that is used nowadays? It inhibits fat processing). Food is equally important, not only is it important to make sure that you're getting the right amounts, it's important to know what to put into your body. It's no secret that I'm nearly vegetarian, there's less stress, guilt, it's cheaper on the wallet, blah blah blah, you should be eating a salad a day anyway because your body needs it. And that's what I do, the biggest meal of my day is a salad, romaine lettuce, broccoli, tomatoes, avocados, mushrooms, carrots, etc. it tastes so good and is versatile depending on combinations and what you're in the mood for and supposedly actually helps a lot with semen production because it's natural and easy on the body. Most of my protein comes from nuts (ha!) and fish, I also eat all my cum, supposedly that helps also aside from it being healthy.
Diet TL;DR - Drink water and start eating your veggies.
#2 Exercise - Time for a grimdark secret of life, if the body doesn't get used, it wastes away and will start with taking away your chances of procreation. So exercise, just do it! 1h a day of exercise, intense dance or play is the bare minimum for maintaining your current weight. We're talking work up a sweat, get your endorphin high and unleash the inner b**st. On average I do 1.5h or more per day of focused workouts with cardio, tension exercises, stretching between reps, and I go out of my way to make sure that I use my body as much as possible otherwise, parking on the farthest edge of the parking lot, using the toilet farthest away in the house and at work (within reason of course), less driving time depending on where I need to go because heck, I've got some nice legs, I'ma put them to use. There's also some focused exercises that you can do to help strengthen your pelvic muscles and inner workings;
- Hip raise
- When you pee, slow down the stream
- Squats
- Lunges
- Leg raises
- And more, do some leg work yourself!
Exercise TL;DR - Daily exercise, just do it!
#3 Horniness - Now this might sound strange, but stress is most important to manage to affect your horny levels, if you're not relaxed, you're not doing it right! It's also important to love your body, no it's not "gay" to like dicks or whatever, especially your own, and for what it's worth; ALL HUMANS ARE A LITTLE GAY, get over it (most straight porn is more focused on the guy's dick anyway). That said, you have to like what you have to work with, I don't like the term, but it helps a lot to "goon out" over your own junk. Open up about how good it feels, get lost in yourself, don't focus on the porn so much as you should focus on the situation, how lewd it is, etc. Personally I barely even watch porn, sometimes I browse through things to work myself up a bit, but I'm most excited by the notion of getting to play with my cock, making myself squirm and drowning in the anticipation of my orgasm. The smells involved are also very important, and the taste too, it takes a little focus to break the mental blocks we have on the natural smells we produce, which carry a lot, A LOT, of specifically tailored pheromones that are designed to give us the best orgasms possible. So breath in through your nose, breath out heavy through the mouth, put yourself in heat and don't be afraid to taste your fingers as you explore your body and the natural juices it produces, from precum, to sweat, and even the grease of your anus.
Horniness TL;DR - Relax and love yourself.
#4 Effort - So now for the fun part, WORK. Work it work it work it work it. Harder harder harder harder, faster faster faster faster....STRONGER! Seriously though, you can't expect to cum buckets when you're just doing "maintenance" and jerking yourself to orgasm in just a couple minutes. The most important aspect of blowing a load is actually probably edging (I know diet and exercise are important, but if those are general givens to survival, the math says that you should be jerking off for at least a half hour before you cum). This doesn't mean light teasing and stuff warming up and then after your half hour you edge for a little bit and then pop. You can still do that, and I encourage it, but don't take like 20min or whatever to get hard and then stroke for a bit, I'm talking about hard, mind breaking can't keep from cumming edging. Work yourself up and don't stop until you're just a few strokes from going over the edge, do this for 20min or more and then we can talk, your cock should be drooling with precum, it should be swollen and throbbing, your balls should ache and sending ripples of lust through your whole body. You'll be sweaty, your heart racing, your mind will become sticky and when you feel like you can't keep going, slow down, take it easy and continue working yourself but gently so that each stroke isn't making you squirm and tense. And once you're calm, do it again, 20min to 30min intervals are ideal for my body, do this two or three OR MORE times and eventually you'll get to a point where you just can't help yourself. Don't hold back, work it harder, push and keep pushing, your body is an ocean and you can feel the currents and the waves of pleasure, try to hold your orgasm in, but not too hard and then let loose, force it out, you can feel the muscles and the flow of your cum. You have to let go of yourself (not your dick, you, in the mental/spiritual sense) and before you realize it, you'll have drenched yourself or something in the resulting mess.
Effort TL;DR - Edging, learn to do it, and do it right.
#5 Meta Effort - Aside from edging, it's important to do more than just play with your dick, while we all know that you need to mead and love your balls also...what about other pleasure points? Your prostate is very important, not only for general health, but the sensations that it feels can be even more pleasurable than just a normal jerk off session and you don't even necessarily have to have an orgasm. If you turn prostate massaging into a regular thing or not, it's good to experience that aspect of your being, doing it even once "unlocks" a whole new layer of understanding of mind and body, and truth be told, it wasn't until after getting into anal did I start spraying cum, it was like "oh, so that's where the center of all the pleasure comes from, now that I know, I have all this experience and whoops I'm cumming everywhere...". But what about the nipples? The chest alone or your thighs? Touching your body improves the pleasure experienced, which in turn helps you cum harder and farther. But don't forget the taint, you can still hit the prostate a bit by massaging the spot between your balls and anus...and while you're down there, you should probably also learn to enjoy rubbing your asshole, there's A LOT of nerve endings there and stimulating them sends a lot of lewd signals through the body. As an aside, I also find that I cum harder when I'm recording myself, it's a very lewd act and if I know that my efforts are going to be enjoyed by others, then it's easier for me to justify making a mess.
Meta Effort TL;DR - Explore your body.
#6 Supplements - At the end of the day, there's only so much all of the above can do, for those extra pushes though there's a few things that you can take to help out.
- Pygeum and saw palmetto (prostate health)
- Sunflower Lecithin (prostate health)
- Pumpkin extract
- L-arginine (helps blood flow)
- Zinc (it's what semen is made of aside from protein)
- Magnesium
- Vitamin E
- Vitamin C
- Ginsing (great with tea!)
- Garlic oil (for the heart)
#7 Bonus - Cock rings, look into them. It takes about 4 days to produce a maximum level of semen. Cold temperatures make the body contract, this helps with the freedom of flow with your cum. Urethral sounding is great for stretching your dick for flow and unlocking extra sensations/memories.
Good luck and happy fapping!
To be clear, I'm not sure really, it depends on a lot of things. You must understand that every body is different, genetics dictate most of it. Diet and exercise helps a lot also, but perhaps the most important after that is just how horny you are and how much effort you're willing to put in for the reward. So lets get down to learning how to blow your load like a pro.
#1 Diet - Most important in the structure of diet is hydration, water, drink water, please, lots of it. No coffee, soda, sports/energy drinks, etc. Tea and juice of the right kinds and in careful moderation are fine, but the human body is designed for processing water! I could go on a rant about this in and of itself, but that's for later (do you think gaterade is *that* good? Have you seen the sugar, or fake sugar that is used nowadays? It inhibits fat processing). Food is equally important, not only is it important to make sure that you're getting the right amounts, it's important to know what to put into your body. It's no secret that I'm nearly vegetarian, there's less stress, guilt, it's cheaper on the wallet, blah blah blah, you should be eating a salad a day anyway because your body needs it. And that's what I do, the biggest meal of my day is a salad, romaine lettuce, broccoli, tomatoes, avocados, mushrooms, carrots, etc. it tastes so good and is versatile depending on combinations and what you're in the mood for and supposedly actually helps a lot with semen production because it's natural and easy on the body. Most of my protein comes from nuts (ha!) and fish, I also eat all my cum, supposedly that helps also aside from it being healthy.
Diet TL;DR - Drink water and start eating your veggies.
#2 Exercise - Time for a grimdark secret of life, if the body doesn't get used, it wastes away and will start with taking away your chances of procreation. So exercise, just do it! 1h a day of exercise, intense dance or play is the bare minimum for maintaining your current weight. We're talking work up a sweat, get your endorphin high and unleash the inner b**st. On average I do 1.5h or more per day of focused workouts with cardio, tension exercises, stretching between reps, and I go out of my way to make sure that I use my body as much as possible otherwise, parking on the farthest edge of the parking lot, using the toilet farthest away in the house and at work (within reason of course), less driving time depending on where I need to go because heck, I've got some nice legs, I'ma put them to use. There's also some focused exercises that you can do to help strengthen your pelvic muscles and inner workings;
- Hip raise
- When you pee, slow down the stream
- Squats
- Lunges
- Leg raises
- And more, do some leg work yourself!
Exercise TL;DR - Daily exercise, just do it!
#3 Horniness - Now this might sound strange, but stress is most important to manage to affect your horny levels, if you're not relaxed, you're not doing it right! It's also important to love your body, no it's not "gay" to like dicks or whatever, especially your own, and for what it's worth; ALL HUMANS ARE A LITTLE GAY, get over it (most straight porn is more focused on the guy's dick anyway). That said, you have to like what you have to work with, I don't like the term, but it helps a lot to "goon out" over your own junk. Open up about how good it feels, get lost in yourself, don't focus on the porn so much as you should focus on the situation, how lewd it is, etc. Personally I barely even watch porn, sometimes I browse through things to work myself up a bit, but I'm most excited by the notion of getting to play with my cock, making myself squirm and drowning in the anticipation of my orgasm. The smells involved are also very important, and the taste too, it takes a little focus to break the mental blocks we have on the natural smells we produce, which carry a lot, A LOT, of specifically tailored pheromones that are designed to give us the best orgasms possible. So breath in through your nose, breath out heavy through the mouth, put yourself in heat and don't be afraid to taste your fingers as you explore your body and the natural juices it produces, from precum, to sweat, and even the grease of your anus.
Horniness TL;DR - Relax and love yourself.
#4 Effort - So now for the fun part, WORK. Work it work it work it work it. Harder harder harder harder, faster faster faster faster....STRONGER! Seriously though, you can't expect to cum buckets when you're just doing "maintenance" and jerking yourself to orgasm in just a couple minutes. The most important aspect of blowing a load is actually probably edging (I know diet and exercise are important, but if those are general givens to survival, the math says that you should be jerking off for at least a half hour before you cum). This doesn't mean light teasing and stuff warming up and then after your half hour you edge for a little bit and then pop. You can still do that, and I encourage it, but don't take like 20min or whatever to get hard and then stroke for a bit, I'm talking about hard, mind breaking can't keep from cumming edging. Work yourself up and don't stop until you're just a few strokes from going over the edge, do this for 20min or more and then we can talk, your cock should be drooling with precum, it should be swollen and throbbing, your balls should ache and sending ripples of lust through your whole body. You'll be sweaty, your heart racing, your mind will become sticky and when you feel like you can't keep going, slow down, take it easy and continue working yourself but gently so that each stroke isn't making you squirm and tense. And once you're calm, do it again, 20min to 30min intervals are ideal for my body, do this two or three OR MORE times and eventually you'll get to a point where you just can't help yourself. Don't hold back, work it harder, push and keep pushing, your body is an ocean and you can feel the currents and the waves of pleasure, try to hold your orgasm in, but not too hard and then let loose, force it out, you can feel the muscles and the flow of your cum. You have to let go of yourself (not your dick, you, in the mental/spiritual sense) and before you realize it, you'll have drenched yourself or something in the resulting mess.
Effort TL;DR - Edging, learn to do it, and do it right.
#5 Meta Effort - Aside from edging, it's important to do more than just play with your dick, while we all know that you need to mead and love your balls also...what about other pleasure points? Your prostate is very important, not only for general health, but the sensations that it feels can be even more pleasurable than just a normal jerk off session and you don't even necessarily have to have an orgasm. If you turn prostate massaging into a regular thing or not, it's good to experience that aspect of your being, doing it even once "unlocks" a whole new layer of understanding of mind and body, and truth be told, it wasn't until after getting into anal did I start spraying cum, it was like "oh, so that's where the center of all the pleasure comes from, now that I know, I have all this experience and whoops I'm cumming everywhere...". But what about the nipples? The chest alone or your thighs? Touching your body improves the pleasure experienced, which in turn helps you cum harder and farther. But don't forget the taint, you can still hit the prostate a bit by massaging the spot between your balls and anus...and while you're down there, you should probably also learn to enjoy rubbing your asshole, there's A LOT of nerve endings there and stimulating them sends a lot of lewd signals through the body. As an aside, I also find that I cum harder when I'm recording myself, it's a very lewd act and if I know that my efforts are going to be enjoyed by others, then it's easier for me to justify making a mess.
Meta Effort TL;DR - Explore your body.
#6 Supplements - At the end of the day, there's only so much all of the above can do, for those extra pushes though there's a few things that you can take to help out.
- Pygeum and saw palmetto (prostate health)
- Sunflower Lecithin (prostate health)
- Pumpkin extract
- L-arginine (helps blood flow)
- Zinc (it's what semen is made of aside from protein)
- Magnesium
- Vitamin E
- Vitamin C
- Ginsing (great with tea!)
- Garlic oil (for the heart)
#7 Bonus - Cock rings, look into them. It takes about 4 days to produce a maximum level of semen. Cold temperatures make the body contract, this helps with the freedom of flow with your cum. Urethral sounding is great for stretching your dick for flow and unlocking extra sensations/memories.
Good luck and happy fapping!
6 years ago
Fantastic, advice, thank you for sharing