Why do some women quit sex?
My wife and I lived together for 3 years before we got married.
We had sex 5 or 6 times a week during those 3 years before getting married, 25 years ago.
We had a very hot sexual relationship that included having sex with 3 of my best friends (one was bi-sexual and a regular fuck buddy of ours) and 2 of her bi-sexual girlfriends. We had sex with a dozen acquaintances-es and strangers. We took one of her bi-girlfriends to Hawaii with us for two weeks of sucking, eating and fucking. We've met other men and couples in bars and took them home with us to play.
The VERY DAY we got married, everything changed. I had arraigned for two of my male friends to meet us at our hotel to have a foursome with us on our wedding night, but she turned them away.
She would refuse to allow me to touch her as if I was "tickling her" and then outright refused to have sex with me.
We are hopelessly co-dependent and still love each other very much. We have "date night" 2 or 3 times a month without sex, we communicate with each other in a playful way with seldom a harsh word ever, still no sex. I do all the grocery shopping and all the cooking and all of the fix-it stuff around the house, still no sex. And we don't have any k**s, so that's not the problem.
I've tried everything and still no sex... When she came to me and asked if she could have an affair with a co-worker I said, "Sure, but this means we're going to have sex again too, right?" But, no, still no sex with me, but she and her new boyfriend went at it 3-4 times a week for about 5 years, until I recently asked, "Why not with me?"... she just kept saying she didn't know and that it must have to do with the way her mother treated her Dad... and then she broke off the affair.
Now neither one of us are having sex... at least with each other.
She knows that I have been with other people sexually and approves. I've had long term sexual relationships with 3 different couples and about 5 bi-male friends over the last 25 years, but I miss my partner in crime. I've even met a couple bi-Xhammy friends in the last month. One of them is from Australia and visits my area on a regular basis for work (and now play). It was fun knowing my wife was upstairs when he came over and that she knew I was sucking cock downstairs.
I know quite a few of you out there have been cut off by your wives, or you've just lost interest over the years. I have a lot of friends and chat buddies that tell me their love life at home "is zip".
Also, is it normal to become more and more interested in sucking cock, the older you get? That's how it feels to me.
Anybody else in the same boat? I'd like to hear about it. Drop me a personal message if you want to chat about it or if you just want to get anything "off your chest". Feel free to make a comment here, as well.
We had sex 5 or 6 times a week during those 3 years before getting married, 25 years ago.
We had a very hot sexual relationship that included having sex with 3 of my best friends (one was bi-sexual and a regular fuck buddy of ours) and 2 of her bi-sexual girlfriends. We had sex with a dozen acquaintances-es and strangers. We took one of her bi-girlfriends to Hawaii with us for two weeks of sucking, eating and fucking. We've met other men and couples in bars and took them home with us to play.
The VERY DAY we got married, everything changed. I had arraigned for two of my male friends to meet us at our hotel to have a foursome with us on our wedding night, but she turned them away.
She would refuse to allow me to touch her as if I was "tickling her" and then outright refused to have sex with me.
We are hopelessly co-dependent and still love each other very much. We have "date night" 2 or 3 times a month without sex, we communicate with each other in a playful way with seldom a harsh word ever, still no sex. I do all the grocery shopping and all the cooking and all of the fix-it stuff around the house, still no sex. And we don't have any k**s, so that's not the problem.
I've tried everything and still no sex... When she came to me and asked if she could have an affair with a co-worker I said, "Sure, but this means we're going to have sex again too, right?" But, no, still no sex with me, but she and her new boyfriend went at it 3-4 times a week for about 5 years, until I recently asked, "Why not with me?"... she just kept saying she didn't know and that it must have to do with the way her mother treated her Dad... and then she broke off the affair.
Now neither one of us are having sex... at least with each other.
She knows that I have been with other people sexually and approves. I've had long term sexual relationships with 3 different couples and about 5 bi-male friends over the last 25 years, but I miss my partner in crime. I've even met a couple bi-Xhammy friends in the last month. One of them is from Australia and visits my area on a regular basis for work (and now play). It was fun knowing my wife was upstairs when he came over and that she knew I was sucking cock downstairs.
I know quite a few of you out there have been cut off by your wives, or you've just lost interest over the years. I have a lot of friends and chat buddies that tell me their love life at home "is zip".
Also, is it normal to become more and more interested in sucking cock, the older you get? That's how it feels to me.
Anybody else in the same boat? I'd like to hear about it. Drop me a personal message if you want to chat about it or if you just want to get anything "off your chest". Feel free to make a comment here, as well.
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