Frustrated exhibitionist

I am married and that is the main problem.  I am an exhibitionist and my wife has the sex drive of a ten year old, she isn't even close to pubescentence, no thoughts of sex at all!  I want to pose nude and spread and have photos and videos made of me as I am stimulated and edged for long periods of time.  I want to be tied, spread wide and used as a sex toy.  I want my ass spread, lubed, fingered and dildoed and I want everything photographed and videoed.  I will gladly spread my cheeks wide so someone can lube me up inside and out and use all sorts of toys, vibrators and dildos up inside me.  I have screw eyes in three different rooms in my house and have assisted my wife in tying me nude and spread and asked her to just play and enjoy using my body for her stimulation.  I have a spreader bar I made from a wooden handle and more screw eyes.  I have the cameras and tripods.  I have a huge plastic tool box filled with dildos, vibrators, eggs and strap-ons, but I have no-one interested in playing with me.  I want to be edged and anally stimulated as I am tied, spread wide, blindfolded and used as a sexual play toy. 
So after watching FinAss's and heymickey30's videos I have decided to start making some solo jackoff and self dildoing videos and do my own solo photo shoots since my wife is not interested in taking part in any of the activities I so desire.