Gay men, straight men and tgirls.

Since I have been on xhamster, I have noticed that the majority of men who 'friend' me are straight.

Recently I signed up to a site aimed at white guys who love black guys and I have yet to make a 'friend' or be acknowledged in any way. In fact, there is currently a discussion in the Forum about attitudes to tgirls. They are overwhelmingly negative. Indeed substitute a word like Jewish or even black and they would be deemed unacceptable.

My theory is that tgirls challenge gay men. We ask uneasy questions about sexuality. The gay man is afraid of his feminine side and so castigates the tgirl for expressing what he represses.

Luckily, there are plenty of straight guys around who appreciate our special brand of femininity!

Published by NancyBerlin

12 years ago

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jojosmallone 3 years ago

to cumeallecox : i agree. Most Dominate Leather Men are gay and not interested in sissies or "straight" cock suckers. I loved to have my sissy white ass slapped and spanked by both men and wom en but it's hard to find a Dom Male or Dom Female that not only likes to humiliate, embarrass and degraded but also likes to piss, spit, slap, whip or spank a useless submissive beta male

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cumeallecox 3 years ago

to jojosmallone : I have sort of a bucket list fantasy of having a big dominant leather man take charge of me and using some bondage, nasty humiliating language, and his big stiff cock turn me into an emasculated pussy boy, Unfortunately most Dom leather men are gay and not into gurls like me.

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jojosmallone 3 years ago

to cumeallecox : i feel the same way. I am not a t-gurl or dresser just a panty wearing submissive cock sucker. I accept that i'm a submissive beta male and do embrace my fem side when around "real Men". I truly and love to orally please Dominate Alpha Males and love swallowing their seed. But i agree, i have nothing to offer a gay man, i do not turn them on nor do they excite me.

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PrivatePersonality 4 years ago

to cumeallecox : Honey, I couldn't agree more! Should I let a man take me to bed (or the couch, kitchen counter, dining room table...) the last thing I want to feel is like a male

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cumeallecox 4 years ago

to PrivatePersonality : I am not interested in a man that pays much attention to my cock. It is small and doesn't easily get hard. I have no interest in fucking a man or letting him suck me off. The cock(s) in the room shouldn't include mine. When I play I usually wear a chastity cage to render my small cock inaccessible, and symbolic to the release of my manhood and any remaining male pride.

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cumeallecox 4 years ago

to PrivatePersonality : I am in complete agreement on a couple of your points.
I have zero interest in having any sort of a close loving relationship with a man. My interests lie in a man with a big hard cock seeing me as and using me as a woman to completely validate my feminine side taking me to a point of complete and total emasculation.

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PrivatePersonality 4 years ago

to cumeallecox : Well put. For me, I prefer that the man I'm with isn't into my little thing at all, unless he treats it like a womans nub. I just don't want to involve that part of me while I'm doing everything I can to present and feel like a real woman does. Just my thoughts, I know everyone has their own perspective.

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PrivatePersonality 4 years ago

From what I've learned from countless chats with men; men who identify as "Gay" aren't into anything remotely feminine. Gay men are attracted to other men, although sometimes those men may appear or come off as campy or not a man in the traditional sense. I think men who can appreciate and desire both a feminine and manly personality are more likely to be bi-sexual. For me, I prefer a straight-acting man, who is attracted to a gurl like me and treats me as a woman all the way around. I could never imagine being in a relationship with a man, if I wasn't displaying or sharing my feminine side. I have no desire to wear my male clothing and be in a relationship with another man. Just my thoughts

dougadoo1976 6 years ago

I've been told by many thurs that this is true gay men do not like tgirls

cumeallecox 8 years ago

This might be overly simplified but I think the reason "straight" men like t-gurls is the femininety we project and they can overlook what we have between our legs. Where as a gay man is not turned on by the feminine and is only attracted to the manliness a real man projects.

furmanlong 10 years ago

I suppose I am Bi but my preference is toward the CD/TG because they offer the frilly things I love and have that something extra that I crave.
Simple: I love it all

blkice2u 12 years ago

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