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Ladies, Laddies, Bi-Buy-Bye's and Don'tFuckenLabelMe's,
VERY NB: I don't have answers, I don't provide solutions, I share opinions, in every thing I say and do, forever, since my life began.
I read a lot - yes I look at porn a lot too but I never sleep so I get to do both. I've read a LOT of rants on here lately, mostly from girls, mostly about us boys - and then followed by the usual defensive/offensive BS from said boys and underdog-minority-school-drompoppie-squad solidarity from the girls. And often the writer's point gets lost - or frustratingly indelibly illustrated.
Frankly, I find every single one to be justifiable and more than a little worrying - and before ANY of my fellow members of the Organisation of Man start yelling "Traitor" or "See You Next Tuesday" at me: go have a look at a particular group on Fet:
"Return to Sender". The original one. (Yes, I got Hammer-Banned - it's a Thor point. Actually, it isn't at all - & I remain hugely grateful for the exposure I got but it becomes excruciating and shameful. Every male on this site should spend time there, and buck up.)
Silver lining? If the ranters/writers had given up, they would shut up - if they didn't care, they would be elsewhere. But patience wears out & eventually hands the whip and horse corpse over to a foot-tapping, eye-rolling Grim Reaper.
Read the god-damn rants and position them in your head as ADVICE, not an attack. Who cares how it's said, pay attention to WHAT is said. There is no necessity to agree, nor support - there is a responsibility to choose a position thoughtfully, not just react to insulate a fragile ego or lack of self-esteem.
Read the blogs.
Shut up and think for a bit.
Respond, don't React.
If you're defensive - improve. If you believed in yourself you wouldn't feel defensive.
If you don't give a shit - start caring. You don't need a little pony-tail and a Hessian robe to weep into over O Magazine's debate on "Teale vs Aqua-Marine: Are we Seeing-Sick?" to be sensitive. Sensitivity is empathy of perspective, not shit internet poetry.
If your natural reaction is to attack the person, not the writing - It's crab mentality, surely you aren't a fan of crabs?
TL: DR - If you came straight here it's a shame, this article is specifically about you, mentions you personally.
VERY NB: I don't have answers, I don't provide solutions, I share opinions, in every thing I say and do, forever, since my life began.
I read a lot - yes I look at porn a lot too but I never sleep so I get to do both. I've read a LOT of rants on here lately, mostly from girls, mostly about us boys - and then followed by the usual defensive/offensive BS from said boys and underdog-minority-school-drompoppie-squad solidarity from the girls. And often the writer's point gets lost - or frustratingly indelibly illustrated.
Frankly, I find every single one to be justifiable and more than a little worrying - and before ANY of my fellow members of the Organisation of Man start yelling "Traitor" or "See You Next Tuesday" at me: go have a look at a particular group on Fet:
"Return to Sender". The original one. (Yes, I got Hammer-Banned - it's a Thor point. Actually, it isn't at all - & I remain hugely grateful for the exposure I got but it becomes excruciating and shameful. Every male on this site should spend time there, and buck up.)
Silver lining? If the ranters/writers had given up, they would shut up - if they didn't care, they would be elsewhere. But patience wears out & eventually hands the whip and horse corpse over to a foot-tapping, eye-rolling Grim Reaper.
Read the god-damn rants and position them in your head as ADVICE, not an attack. Who cares how it's said, pay attention to WHAT is said. There is no necessity to agree, nor support - there is a responsibility to choose a position thoughtfully, not just react to insulate a fragile ego or lack of self-esteem.
Read the blogs.
Shut up and think for a bit.
Respond, don't React.
If you're defensive - improve. If you believed in yourself you wouldn't feel defensive.
If you don't give a shit - start caring. You don't need a little pony-tail and a Hessian robe to weep into over O Magazine's debate on "Teale vs Aqua-Marine: Are we Seeing-Sick?" to be sensitive. Sensitivity is empathy of perspective, not shit internet poetry.
If your natural reaction is to attack the person, not the writing - It's crab mentality, surely you aren't a fan of crabs?
TL: DR - If you came straight here it's a shame, this article is specifically about you, mentions you personally.
7 years ago