Why do people lie?
It is a question that has bugged me forever.
First and foremost...I am just going to write from my heart. Some of these may be boring to you. I don't know. Maybe some of you are going through what I am? Or may do in the future? I hope not. I hope that your marriage is as fulfilling as you thought it would be.
Anyway....back to my question....why do people lie? To hide the truth? Sometimes....To hurt someone? That would be pretty much a cruel thing to do. But cruel people are everywhere.
I think that some people lie for one reason. ....Because the truth can be boring...
Now, some of you might be confused...let me explain...
I am not a slut, a whore or cum drinking slag....sorry to disappoint. I don't do Gangbangs and don't take part in Bukkake's. I do not think about Sex all day. In fact some days I don't think about Sex at all. I am sure some of you will stop reading now. That is fine. But what I am is a down to earth woman who respects everyone. Some people say that respect is earned. I don't believe in that. I respect everyone until they lose my respect.
To some people I will be boring. I can accept that. The truth can be boring remember. I will always be boring then. And that is something I can live with.
So you might question why am I here then...And that is a valid question. I don't watch the movies on here or read the stories. So why am I here? To find the spark? you could say that...It took me ages in deciding to post here. The more I though about it, the more I wanted to. I was very nervous posting my photo's here, I had a feeling deep pain in the pit of my stomach..but it was not unpleasant, it was more of the kind you get from excitement. And, yes I read everyone of the comments people write, and I can not thankyou enough for the kind words that you guys have bestowed upon me.
Have I lost that spark? Yes, I have mentioned it in my profile. Can you ever find it again? Maybe...I'm not sure..
So why am I here? Maybe one day I will find out. ....
First and foremost...I am just going to write from my heart. Some of these may be boring to you. I don't know. Maybe some of you are going through what I am? Or may do in the future? I hope not. I hope that your marriage is as fulfilling as you thought it would be.
Anyway....back to my question....why do people lie? To hide the truth? Sometimes....To hurt someone? That would be pretty much a cruel thing to do. But cruel people are everywhere.
I think that some people lie for one reason. ....Because the truth can be boring...
Now, some of you might be confused...let me explain...
I am not a slut, a whore or cum drinking slag....sorry to disappoint. I don't do Gangbangs and don't take part in Bukkake's. I do not think about Sex all day. In fact some days I don't think about Sex at all. I am sure some of you will stop reading now. That is fine. But what I am is a down to earth woman who respects everyone. Some people say that respect is earned. I don't believe in that. I respect everyone until they lose my respect.
To some people I will be boring. I can accept that. The truth can be boring remember. I will always be boring then. And that is something I can live with.
So you might question why am I here then...And that is a valid question. I don't watch the movies on here or read the stories. So why am I here? To find the spark? you could say that...It took me ages in deciding to post here. The more I though about it, the more I wanted to. I was very nervous posting my photo's here, I had a feeling deep pain in the pit of my stomach..but it was not unpleasant, it was more of the kind you get from excitement. And, yes I read everyone of the comments people write, and I can not thankyou enough for the kind words that you guys have bestowed upon me.
Have I lost that spark? Yes, I have mentioned it in my profile. Can you ever find it again? Maybe...I'm not sure..
So why am I here? Maybe one day I will find out. ....
7 years ago
I chatted with a woman who started off saying she was deeply in love with her hubby and he was her soul mate, after much general chat she admitted she was unhappy after a major event in their lives. She posted on some amateur sites and lapped up the atention for a short period befoer deleting her profile. She met me and said we should be together, then met another guy (i said it turnerd me on, but found out when she had done that it didn't). Meeting the other guy was the big turning point. She realised she did love her hubby and felt guilty for what she had done. She appears to have finally found her spark, her "balance" in her life and is happy.
Now what works for one may not for another because the reason you feel you are missing "something" may be down to completely different circumstances. I sincerely hope that at some point you find what you are seeking, even thought you aren't sure what that is. I also hope that things work out between you and your hubby because finding someone special is one thing but being able to share your whole life with that person is something we seem to find more and more difficult to do x
Thought for s moment it was my story lol
It should be fun here x
Skyflyer72
Reading your blog, very honest and truthful...
I definitely won't say you are boring, many of us are on here for the same reasons as you, so totally understand where you are coming from.
It's brave what you are doing on here, just like me,. But it's exciting too.. talking to strangers sometimes, adds buzz.
Sparks will happen,.. enjoy on here, chat,.and make genuine friends for same reasons.
Of course, be aware, as you say,,. Many do lie on here, for whatever reasons, lots of fake profiles etc
But stay very discreet, and don't reveal to much to soon to an extent.
Have fun
With men it can be the same- I want to find one nice person to chat with, flirt with and who knows what else with, but the immediate assumption is that as a man on here I want to shag everything that moves and will do or say anything to make that happen.
So ignore the idiots