Good Doms Bad Doms
I've lived this lifestyle 30+ Years. My experience with Doms is extensive, yet all of the following is purely my opinion based upon my experiences. I am a professional submissive for men and a Mistress to women. i have had extremely wonderful Doms and I've had the exact polar opposite.....Evil bastards. This has been my life. I'm not a 9-5 job holder, I'm not a mother, I have no real experience outside of this lifestyle. It started when I was 13 and it is what it is.......My Life.
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Doms are people......and as we are all aware, this world has some truly corrupt and vile people living in it. But there's also very good Doms too. Some Doms are sadists.....All they care about is inflicting pain and punishment upon a female. Probably because of how some woman treated them in the past......Or not. Who's really to know. Sometimes the machine is broken when it leaves the factory......Crazy is Crazy and Ive experienced crazy. Ive submitted to some men simply to avoid having the crap kicked out of me. That's not domination......Thats fear. Being forced into a car, suspended from a tree and beaten with belts from 4 men....plastic bag placed over my head to suffocate me over and over....never knowing if I'm going to even survive...........They let me know that in the future, If I ever refuse their advances....If I ever refuse their demands.......They will end me............So I did what I was told. Every Single Time. There are Doms out there like this........Beware.
A "good" Dom knows his/her limits. While the sub may have some limitations, especially an inexperienced sub, a Dom only complies with that limit as a courtesy and nothing more and for a very short length of time. any Dom worth their weight has to know the limitations of the sub and be aware of their own limitations as well all while understanding that these limitations are subject to change. They're quite fluid, limitations.........what a sub won't do one day will be gladly accepted the next.....what a Dom wont inflict one day he/she will, after some serious research, inflict tomorrow and be prepared for whatever happens. Even if that means calling an ambulance. This may sound extreme........But there is high risk with extreme sex and it does happen from time to time. That's why the absolute best Dom I was ever controlled by was a doctor. Not only did he use his knowledge of the human body to push my limits to the extreme, he could deal with any eventuality. He's the only one I felt truly safe with and was most willing to be used to his limitations.
A submissive must set aside any idea of boundries and trust the free hand of the Dom. A Dom must know and accept that he/she has limitations. The crazy ones don't. The crazy ones don't give a God damn about your welfare.....and there are several of these crazies right here on xhamster. After 30+ years of living this lifestyle, I can tell if a Dom is good/bad/crazy within a few short minutes of chatting with them.
So, A good dom is aware of limitations and considers the ramifications of his/her actions. A free hand needs to be given to the Dom from the Sub. Bad Doms are the beginners who don't have a clue as to what they are doing, but they are learning. Crazy Doms.......Need to be avoided if at all possible.
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Doms are people......and as we are all aware, this world has some truly corrupt and vile people living in it. But there's also very good Doms too. Some Doms are sadists.....All they care about is inflicting pain and punishment upon a female. Probably because of how some woman treated them in the past......Or not. Who's really to know. Sometimes the machine is broken when it leaves the factory......Crazy is Crazy and Ive experienced crazy. Ive submitted to some men simply to avoid having the crap kicked out of me. That's not domination......Thats fear. Being forced into a car, suspended from a tree and beaten with belts from 4 men....plastic bag placed over my head to suffocate me over and over....never knowing if I'm going to even survive...........They let me know that in the future, If I ever refuse their advances....If I ever refuse their demands.......They will end me............So I did what I was told. Every Single Time. There are Doms out there like this........Beware.
A "good" Dom knows his/her limits. While the sub may have some limitations, especially an inexperienced sub, a Dom only complies with that limit as a courtesy and nothing more and for a very short length of time. any Dom worth their weight has to know the limitations of the sub and be aware of their own limitations as well all while understanding that these limitations are subject to change. They're quite fluid, limitations.........what a sub won't do one day will be gladly accepted the next.....what a Dom wont inflict one day he/she will, after some serious research, inflict tomorrow and be prepared for whatever happens. Even if that means calling an ambulance. This may sound extreme........But there is high risk with extreme sex and it does happen from time to time. That's why the absolute best Dom I was ever controlled by was a doctor. Not only did he use his knowledge of the human body to push my limits to the extreme, he could deal with any eventuality. He's the only one I felt truly safe with and was most willing to be used to his limitations.
A submissive must set aside any idea of boundries and trust the free hand of the Dom. A Dom must know and accept that he/she has limitations. The crazy ones don't. The crazy ones don't give a God damn about your welfare.....and there are several of these crazies right here on xhamster. After 30+ years of living this lifestyle, I can tell if a Dom is good/bad/crazy within a few short minutes of chatting with them.
So, A good dom is aware of limitations and considers the ramifications of his/her actions. A free hand needs to be given to the Dom from the Sub. Bad Doms are the beginners who don't have a clue as to what they are doing, but they are learning. Crazy Doms.......Need to be avoided if at all possible.
7 years ago
