Life outside the playroom (aka Dungeon)
A short time ago, an x-hamster friend asked me about my life as a slave and if i had a life outside of the dungeon or was i whipped and abused 24/7 all day long for a Sadist's pleasure.
To answer that question, if that were the case, i'd be dead by now. i enjoy pain but i don't have a deathwish
To begin, define "Sadist"? There are many lessons to learn from the Marquis DeSade but i don't consider my Owner, Master Robert as a Sadist. Perhaps to some people, they might consider Him a Sadist because they don't understand the lifestyle W/we choose. Master is very loving and compassionate. When i was in doubt about my chosen lifestyle, Master sent me home to think about my choice. He doesn't want me if i am unsure i don't want to be His dedicated property.
He enjoys seeing pretty girls being used and abused in many different ways but more so, He tests limits and gives pleasure to masochists like me. He holds me and comforts me when i need to be. Master is one of a few in O/our group who owns more than one slave. i understand and accept Master's first slave is His consort (and legal wife) slave veronica. After my submission into consensual slavery to Master G, i was given to Master Robert to assist Him and slave veronica as she has a disability.
Master Robert was one of the first ones there to comfort and console slave bonni when she had a death in her family.
Master suggested i copy & paste the two comment entries i recently made on my page and enter them in my blog to give an example of O/our and O/our friends lives. It begins on this past Saturday, Oct. 1st reflecting on the activities from the night before.
we, the slaves in O/our lifestyle group enjoyed a night out on occasion but we are free to stay home and watch TV and eat popcorn if we'd rather. we are not tied to a whipping post or cross if we are not being used. we are free to come or go as we please.
The comments begin with
(Saturday morning Oct. 1)
"slaves night out last night. No Owners, we had fun"
our Owners had a business meeting for O/our lifestyle group and encouraged us slaves to go out on the town by ourselves, as long as we stuck together and protected each other. slave tony (the only male) was pretty much the protector and as i don't drink, i was one of the designated drivers. slave veronica was another designated driver because of medications, she doesn't drink either.
No M/s talk, just dancing and partying. Some things got risque' and some cloths were shed but we didn't get thrown out of anyplace. slave veronica held her own pretty well and danced a few times.
slave bonni and i have been out with our classmates before but this was a first for me. In my (almost) year as a slave, i've never been on a "slaves night out" before. It's happened before but not with me.
For the most part, we were left alone. Dancing with the guys was alright but every so often, some dude would want to 'hit on us'. It was fun watching the dudes face as we girls would begin to make out with each other as he was trying to pick us up. Then, some persistent dude thought he was getting lucky with 2 girls, tony would step in and we'd make out with him and ignore the dude. It was so much fun.
we went to 3 clubs - well, 4 if you count the strip club we stumbled into. Then, out for breakfast at about 2:30 am. Yes, we behaved ourselves in the restaurant.
All in all, our Owners were so proud of us for not being called to come pick any of us up. W/we are all going out to a banquet dinner tonight and the 'new business' of the meeting will be shared with us then. Master mentioned this morning, although not all Owners ride motorcycles, a trip to Sturgis for the rally is on this years agenda. OH BOY, can you imagine a bunch of horny slut slave whores who enjoy being used be turned loose in Sturgis? i can't wait for Sir G to gas up the RV. OH NOOOOOO, i just had another thought, imagine slaves bonni, veronica and i on Rt. 90 again? (read "What a slut slave bonni has taught me to be" in my blog).
2017 promises to be a slut slaves happy year.
slave melissa
(Sunday, Oct 2)
A/all,
Most all of U/us in O/our group went out to a very nice buffet dinner to support a local non-profit a****l care foundation (it's slave bonni's pet project).
After the dinner and social period, W/we went to the local American Legion as guests of Sir G & Mistress Danielle. Great band that covered all the hits from the 40's (WWII), 50's (Korea), 60's (Vietnam) and recent hits of this century (representing Afghanistan & Iraq). i've fallen in love with those "oldies". Now i understand why slave bonni loves Janis Joplin, Stevie Nicks and Kim Carnes. she has that raspy voice and does them so well. Several of U/us tried to get slave bonni to sing but she wouldn't. she's very good but she said it was the band's night to shine, not hers.
i learned a lot about Mistress Danielle's military experience. She politely asked me not to get into it but to say She is a highly decorated veteran of both Afghanistan AND Iraq as (i think) a pilot. She and others from this AL post have a bottle of Royal Crown behind the bar with their names on the accompanying plaque for the "Last Pilots Club" that goes to the last survivor. Interesting story but i cannot say more.
W/we all danced and had a wonderful time enjoying the company of one another.
Someone once asked me if being a consensual slave meant being used and abused all the time or if a submissive had any time for ourselves? First off, if this were the case, slave bonni and i wouldn't be in nursing school right now. Several other slaves work outside their Owner's house. Secondly, W/we all have a life outside of the dungeon. Like Friday night, slave's bonni, veronica, tony and i among others i am not allowed to say by name, wouldn't be able to enjoy a "slaves night out" nor would slave bonni and i be permitted to go out 'clubbing' with our classmates.
During the school year, our time is pretty limited to class, homework and tending to our household chores. Although i am still relatively new to slavery (11 months), slave bonni and her Owner, Sir G enjoy yard sales, flee markets, barn finds and competitive shooting, i am content just keeping my grades in a "A" grade for nursing.
BTW, don't mock yard sales, barn finding and flee markets. slave bonni bought a photograph for $5.00 which was an original Ansel Adams photo and appraised at nearly $50,000.00.
So, YES, W/we enjoy a life outside of the dungeon much like last night's dinner and at the American Legion OR on Friday when we had a "slaves night out" OR when we go out with our classmates. Sometimes, we enjoy going out clubbing with our Owners too. W/we are healthy Dominants and submissives 'family' who enjoys life outside of the playroom (dungeon).
i hope this brings some closure to the misconception we slaves are just meat waiting to used and thrown away.
i am thankful to my Master for owning me, i give myself to Him willingly,
slave melissa
7 years ago
It is my Master who deserves the credit for my accomplishments. Also know, Master teaches me "A slaves training is never complete".
That said, the friend who asked me this question told me of another slaves strong desire to be degraded and used like "A piece of meat". i suppose some have this urge to be a nothing but for me and the other submissives in O/our lifestyle group, we are trained to be the best slaves we can be.
Yes, we can be filthy whores when ordered but as i told this friend, i have been trained to rope & ride & shoot if a Cowboy wants to use me. i have also learned table etiquette, manners and how to waltz if a gentleman of means wants to use me. i also told this friend, i may not drive like Danica Patrick but i can run the gears of a '62 Chevy Impala just as well as she can.
my training is so diverse for when i am loaned or rented or sold to anyone who may want to use me for whatever They please besides just whipping me.
slave melissa
On a side note: We understand most people come here simply for the fun, but we like to make genuine human connections. It's nice to hear a bit of you outside of your service. ^_^