How to Edge your Man
See? It’s not rocket science.
Some notes:
1: “Shave his balls” isn’t really ncessary and it will take some time, but that time will be great prep and will set the scene nicely.
2: “Tie off his balls with a shoestring” - You don’t even need to tie his balls, though it will help. If he complains about it then you simply shrug, untie them, and keep going. :-)
3: Lube - Again, not necessary but a great idea. Olive oil, coconut oil, safflower oil… these are all great if you’re willing to handle the mess. If you use a water-soluable lube then I recommend having a bowl (or even just a plate) of water within reach to be able to dip a finger or two into to hydrate the lube again. Silicone lube is more expensive but many love how it feels. If you don’t have lube available, try lotion or conditioner with some water nearby. My opinion? Bring what you’ve got and switch between them!
4: “Massage his cock & balls methodically.” However you want to play is your choice. That’s the whole point. If you’re at a loss on how to give a handjob I’m sure you can google yourself silly on that. My advice is to stroke the tip of his cock when you want him to squirm, and when you want to get him close to an orgasm then make sure each stroke stimulates the spot a little below the head on the underside of his cock. Also, try different strokes and ask him which one is better.
5: “Bring him to the edge of orgasm & STOP!” - Edging is hard because its hard to know when to stop, but telling him to tell if he gets too close is a great way to do it. Also, you don’t even need to edge him to tease him silly. One domme I had played with enjoyed stroking me and switching techniques every time I started to get even close to an edge. It was so frustrating!
6: “Let him recover for 1-2 minutes.” That’s a good guideline but it can just be 15 seconds if you like. The less he gets to rest, the faster he’ll be right back on edge, and unfortunately the easier it could be to accidentally let him cum. Also, you don’t need to let him rest at all. Maybe after each edge, you just focus on massaging his balls, or discovering whether or not shaved balls are more ticklish?
7: Begin again… optional.
8: Repeat over and over… Hopefully you’ll start enjoying each time and it will be kind of relaxing for you to play with his cock like this. :-) If it’s his first time doing this, you might only want to edge him two or three times before making him cum, and then the next time he’s horny, ask him if it would be hot if you edged him several times.
9: “When you do let him cum it will be intense!” … if you wish. Or, you could stop just one stroke too late and giggle as his cock spurts, untouched. Or, if you like intense, you could keep stroking, focusing the stimulation on the tip for a long time.
So there it is, step by step instructions, with notes that explain that each step is pretty much optional and changable. You don’t need to follow, much less memorize them. There is no true way. If you’ve ever been tempted and have a partner, definitely give it a try.
Some notes:
1: “Shave his balls” isn’t really ncessary and it will take some time, but that time will be great prep and will set the scene nicely.
2: “Tie off his balls with a shoestring” - You don’t even need to tie his balls, though it will help. If he complains about it then you simply shrug, untie them, and keep going. :-)
3: Lube - Again, not necessary but a great idea. Olive oil, coconut oil, safflower oil… these are all great if you’re willing to handle the mess. If you use a water-soluable lube then I recommend having a bowl (or even just a plate) of water within reach to be able to dip a finger or two into to hydrate the lube again. Silicone lube is more expensive but many love how it feels. If you don’t have lube available, try lotion or conditioner with some water nearby. My opinion? Bring what you’ve got and switch between them!
4: “Massage his cock & balls methodically.” However you want to play is your choice. That’s the whole point. If you’re at a loss on how to give a handjob I’m sure you can google yourself silly on that. My advice is to stroke the tip of his cock when you want him to squirm, and when you want to get him close to an orgasm then make sure each stroke stimulates the spot a little below the head on the underside of his cock. Also, try different strokes and ask him which one is better.
5: “Bring him to the edge of orgasm & STOP!” - Edging is hard because its hard to know when to stop, but telling him to tell if he gets too close is a great way to do it. Also, you don’t even need to edge him to tease him silly. One domme I had played with enjoyed stroking me and switching techniques every time I started to get even close to an edge. It was so frustrating!
6: “Let him recover for 1-2 minutes.” That’s a good guideline but it can just be 15 seconds if you like. The less he gets to rest, the faster he’ll be right back on edge, and unfortunately the easier it could be to accidentally let him cum. Also, you don’t need to let him rest at all. Maybe after each edge, you just focus on massaging his balls, or discovering whether or not shaved balls are more ticklish?
7: Begin again… optional.
8: Repeat over and over… Hopefully you’ll start enjoying each time and it will be kind of relaxing for you to play with his cock like this. :-) If it’s his first time doing this, you might only want to edge him two or three times before making him cum, and then the next time he’s horny, ask him if it would be hot if you edged him several times.
9: “When you do let him cum it will be intense!” … if you wish. Or, you could stop just one stroke too late and giggle as his cock spurts, untouched. Or, if you like intense, you could keep stroking, focusing the stimulation on the tip for a long time.
So there it is, step by step instructions, with notes that explain that each step is pretty much optional and changable. You don’t need to follow, much less memorize them. There is no true way. If you’ve ever been tempted and have a partner, definitely give it a try.
8 years ago