Pegging gear for newbies
After more deliberation, numerous emails to and from the dildo and harness makers, previous visits to our local Good Vibrations and an unbelievable amount of help from some very wonderful and knowledgeable women I believe that my lady and I may have possibly found some of our favorite pegging toys.
As a couple our anal exploration had begun slowly and at times we had gone from full throttle to nonexistent play. After a recent conversation about our lack of experimentation we have once again started to look at some playthings. My lady has a few stipulations in toys that are always something we have to consider but here is a list of some of the pegging toys that we are considering.
*Stipulations
1. Dildo: She doesn't want any dildos that look realistic, she is OK with strapping on a toy but doesn't want to feel like it is a real penis. She wants a dildo that looks unrealistic and not in flesh colors
2. Harness: She wants a harness that is easy to put on and stays on securely. She doesn't want to be stressed trying to figure out the harness especially when she will already be doing something so unfamiliar to her.
3. Lube: She wants a good lube for anal, something thick and long lasting because she wants to be safe and doesn't want to cause me pain.
*Best (Non Realistic Dildo) for a nervous wife
1. Mistress Vibrating Dildo
Length: 6.75 in, Diameter: 1.25 in
This slim dildo has a semi realistic shape with a pronounced head and slightly angled shaft to hit all the rights spots. At the bottom of the wide, harness compatible and anal safe base is a slot to hold a powerful little bullet vibe. When it's inserted and turned on, the orgasmic vibrations are carried throughout the Mistress, from the base right to the tip of the head. The shape is perfect for both vaginal and anal penetration, and the slightly tapered head lets you pinpoint the clit or any other area you'd like to give some special attention to. The included bullet is simple and strong, just push the button on the base to turn on the vibrations if you're in the mood, but you can certainly use the Mistress without the vibe and vice versa. Aside from the dreamy look and feel of the premium silicone, this material is hypoallergenic as well as incomparably hygienic, it's surface is non porous, and it's very easy to clean. This manageably sized, flexible yet firm toy is perfect for beginners, and experts will love the O-ring harness compatibility and anal potential.
2. Charm Silicone Dildo 2:
Charm 2: 7" x 1 1/4"
Become bewitched by the sensual allure of the Charm Silicone Dildo. Featuring a sleek, gently curving shape, the Charm’s extended length offers extra inches for those who prefer a longer reach. Made from 100% Silicone, the thick oval-shaped base makes Charm compatible with a variety of harnesses, while the smooth surface is perfectly suited for dilation or simple in-and-out vaginal or anal penetration. Designed with every body in mind, the Charm is great for both experimenting and experienced dildo users who want versatility from their intimate accoutrements.
3. Fun Factory Magnum Dildo:
1.5 inches diameter by 7.1 inches
At 18 cm it is the second largest dildo from Fun Factory
The curved tip with a glans shape stimulates the g-spot or prostate
The wide base pleasures the surrounding erogenous zones and makes Magnum 100% safe for anal. Smooth surface and sleek design. Firm, yet pleasantly flexible silicone shaft. Special suction base that allows the Magnum to adhere to smooth surfaces and walls. Suitable for use with a harness. 100% medical-grade silicone.
4. Vixen Creations Raquel:
7” long x 1 ½” diameter
Raquel moves with your body and does not jostle and prod at your insides. The supple rotund head has just enough give and holds up to the most vigorous activity.
Wonderful toy for men who want deeper yet yielding p-spot stimulation. With an integrated suction cup base, it sticks to slick hard surfaces for interesting possibliities. Warms and retains body heat.
5. Bouncer Silicone ShakeDildo:
7" x 1 1/2"
Shake it, baby! This one-of-a-kind dildo design adds a new kind of motion to the ocean. Each of its pronounced curves houses a weighted ball that adds a pleasurable (and totally quiet) vibration like tremor to the dildo whether it’s used by hand or in a harness and the more thrusting you enjoy, the more the inner balls move and the greater sensation they cause. Velvety smooth silicone surface is a pleasure to touch with a thin base that is easy to wear with a harness. The slight curve to Bouncer’s shape offers subtle G-spot and anal-safe prostate stimulation.
6. Riley Vibrating Silicone Dildo:
6 1/2” x 1 3/8” diameter
Packed with features, this sleek silicone dildo offers substantial length and curving shaft with a pronounced bulbous head making it great for G-spot stimulation. With less girth than many other dildos, Riley is a perfect introduction to harness play, vaginal or anal and is ideal for those seeking a slimmer dildo design. Equipped with a space to insert a bullet vibe built right into the shaft.
7. Siren Vibrating Silicone Dildo:
6 1/2" by 1 1/2"
The come-hither curve and prominent head on this elegant stylized dual density dildo are crafted for pleasurable G-spot and prostate stimulation. Widening in width towards the base so the shaft feels even more substantial, the Siren is also a great harness toy. Perfect for those who want to explore G-spot and prostate pleasures. The Siren Fire Core Dildo comes with a spot for a bullet vibrator to fit snugly inside the shaft through the bottom base. This will allow for vibration while still keeping the base flush and perfect for use in a strap-on harness.
*Best Harnesses for newbies
1. SpareParts Joque Harness:
Vegan hand made harness that is designed to be comfortable and convenient. With a Velcro strap that adjusts in a snap, the SpareParts Joque Harness easily adapts to your size and shape. Fashionable and flexible, the front piece includes a built-in elastic o-ring that can accommodate toys up to two inches wide. Double dildos, strap-on dildos (flared bases) and even external vibes can be placed in the pleasure pouch. The mesh-lined backing allows for breathability with all-day wear. Get wet in this hardware-free harness! With no metal parts to rust, you can use the Joque as a jock while playing water sports. After getting down and dirty, this washable harness can be cleaned by hand or in the machine.
2. Aslan leather Jaguar Harness:
Sleek, sexy sophisticated the Jaguar has it all. Designed for comfort, style and performance the Jaguar Harness has slim line buckles at the hips for maximum comfort and secure hold. D-ring closures on the butt straps make the Jaguar design simple to put on (unbuckle one side, step in, adjust buckles to fit). Designed for the ultimate ride the Jaguar's dildo placement is lower than most traditional harnesses.
It sits low on the hips like low-rise jeans allowing for delicious pressure on the clit. Two strap design allows for plenty of access. A three point snap out o-ring system (comes with one 2" rubber o-ring) allows for interchangeable o-ring sizes.
3. Aslan Minx Harness:
Enjoy a rare combination of strap-on comfort and sexy design with the Minx Harness. Aslan Leather took the bestselling Jaguar Harness and added a gorgeous corset-style back lace closure, making the Minx as seductively hot as it is functional. Strategically placed buckles and D-rings ensure a snug, comfy fit. And like the lovely Jaguar Harness, the Minx's dildo placement is lower than our traditional jock, allowing for delicious pressure on the clit and a sturdy fit.
4. Bella Couture Harness:
Harness the perfect femmetastic lingerie look and support your strapon dildo in high style with the super sexy Bella. Cut like booty shorts and crafted from gorgeous stretch black lace over black nylon spandex, a strong and stretchy material that holds its shape, it also rocks four black removable garters (included) and a beautiful bow over rear peephole cleavage. Sturdy yet flexible elastic flatters your hips for a smooth, streamlined look. Comfy, functional, and easy on/easy off, this is one harness you can wear all day. The material wicks moisture away from the body and keeps you cool when things get hot, plus quick dry nylon spandex is ideal for wet play, it’s 100% water-friendly and, of course, washable. Durable elastic O-ring fits toys 1 ¼” to2 ¼” in diameter; two internal fabric panels separate the wearer’s dildo from their skin, if desired, or shift out of the way to accommodate a double dildo. With two internal mini-vibe pockets positioned to pleasure both partners.
*Best lube for anal exploration.
Be sure to use a silicone toy compatible lube, anything else can damage your silicone dildos.
1. Sliquid Naturals Silk:
A water based personal lubricant blended with cream emollients and silicone to create a unique hybrid lubricant. Silk is all that a water based personal lubricant can be, with the added longevity of a silicone lubricant. Silk is easy to clean up and has a luxurious creamy texture.
2. Sliquid Sassy:
The Sassy is a thicker gel and it is marketed as an anal lubricant. This thick, long-lasting lube is uniquely blended to emulate your body’s natural lubrications. Called the “booty formula”, the water based, glyercin-free gel is perfect for anal use and can be reactivated with water or spit.
3. Love Balm Natural Lubricant: These delectable, versatile lubes, made with organic coconut oil, can be used solo or with partners, for vaginal or anal play, J/O cream, as a slippery yet absorbent massage oil, and even as a relaxing, moisturizing, sweetly scented bath oil. Great with all types of toy material except latex. A little goes a long way, and the solid at room temp coconut oil will not go rancid like other vegetable oil-based products. It completely liquifies at 76 degrees, so as soon as you apply it to warm flesh, it starts moisturizing and lubricating!
4. Pjur Analyse Me! Relaxing Anal Glide Silicone:
Say goodbye to anal discomfort! Pjur Analyse Me! Relaxing Anal Glide is an exceptional cosmetic product. Helps to desensitize sensitive areas. without dangerous numbing ingredients. It has added Jojoba, which naturally relaxes the muscles. It counteracts hypersensitivity and helps increase your ultimate pleasure.
As a couple our anal exploration had begun slowly and at times we had gone from full throttle to nonexistent play. After a recent conversation about our lack of experimentation we have once again started to look at some playthings. My lady has a few stipulations in toys that are always something we have to consider but here is a list of some of the pegging toys that we are considering.
*Stipulations
1. Dildo: She doesn't want any dildos that look realistic, she is OK with strapping on a toy but doesn't want to feel like it is a real penis. She wants a dildo that looks unrealistic and not in flesh colors
2. Harness: She wants a harness that is easy to put on and stays on securely. She doesn't want to be stressed trying to figure out the harness especially when she will already be doing something so unfamiliar to her.
3. Lube: She wants a good lube for anal, something thick and long lasting because she wants to be safe and doesn't want to cause me pain.
*Best (Non Realistic Dildo) for a nervous wife
1. Mistress Vibrating Dildo
Length: 6.75 in, Diameter: 1.25 in
This slim dildo has a semi realistic shape with a pronounced head and slightly angled shaft to hit all the rights spots. At the bottom of the wide, harness compatible and anal safe base is a slot to hold a powerful little bullet vibe. When it's inserted and turned on, the orgasmic vibrations are carried throughout the Mistress, from the base right to the tip of the head. The shape is perfect for both vaginal and anal penetration, and the slightly tapered head lets you pinpoint the clit or any other area you'd like to give some special attention to. The included bullet is simple and strong, just push the button on the base to turn on the vibrations if you're in the mood, but you can certainly use the Mistress without the vibe and vice versa. Aside from the dreamy look and feel of the premium silicone, this material is hypoallergenic as well as incomparably hygienic, it's surface is non porous, and it's very easy to clean. This manageably sized, flexible yet firm toy is perfect for beginners, and experts will love the O-ring harness compatibility and anal potential.
2. Charm Silicone Dildo 2:
Charm 2: 7" x 1 1/4"
Become bewitched by the sensual allure of the Charm Silicone Dildo. Featuring a sleek, gently curving shape, the Charm’s extended length offers extra inches for those who prefer a longer reach. Made from 100% Silicone, the thick oval-shaped base makes Charm compatible with a variety of harnesses, while the smooth surface is perfectly suited for dilation or simple in-and-out vaginal or anal penetration. Designed with every body in mind, the Charm is great for both experimenting and experienced dildo users who want versatility from their intimate accoutrements.
3. Fun Factory Magnum Dildo:
1.5 inches diameter by 7.1 inches
At 18 cm it is the second largest dildo from Fun Factory
The curved tip with a glans shape stimulates the g-spot or prostate
The wide base pleasures the surrounding erogenous zones and makes Magnum 100% safe for anal. Smooth surface and sleek design. Firm, yet pleasantly flexible silicone shaft. Special suction base that allows the Magnum to adhere to smooth surfaces and walls. Suitable for use with a harness. 100% medical-grade silicone.
4. Vixen Creations Raquel:
7” long x 1 ½” diameter
Raquel moves with your body and does not jostle and prod at your insides. The supple rotund head has just enough give and holds up to the most vigorous activity.
Wonderful toy for men who want deeper yet yielding p-spot stimulation. With an integrated suction cup base, it sticks to slick hard surfaces for interesting possibliities. Warms and retains body heat.
5. Bouncer Silicone ShakeDildo:
7" x 1 1/2"
Shake it, baby! This one-of-a-kind dildo design adds a new kind of motion to the ocean. Each of its pronounced curves houses a weighted ball that adds a pleasurable (and totally quiet) vibration like tremor to the dildo whether it’s used by hand or in a harness and the more thrusting you enjoy, the more the inner balls move and the greater sensation they cause. Velvety smooth silicone surface is a pleasure to touch with a thin base that is easy to wear with a harness. The slight curve to Bouncer’s shape offers subtle G-spot and anal-safe prostate stimulation.
6. Riley Vibrating Silicone Dildo:
6 1/2” x 1 3/8” diameter
Packed with features, this sleek silicone dildo offers substantial length and curving shaft with a pronounced bulbous head making it great for G-spot stimulation. With less girth than many other dildos, Riley is a perfect introduction to harness play, vaginal or anal and is ideal for those seeking a slimmer dildo design. Equipped with a space to insert a bullet vibe built right into the shaft.
7. Siren Vibrating Silicone Dildo:
6 1/2" by 1 1/2"
The come-hither curve and prominent head on this elegant stylized dual density dildo are crafted for pleasurable G-spot and prostate stimulation. Widening in width towards the base so the shaft feels even more substantial, the Siren is also a great harness toy. Perfect for those who want to explore G-spot and prostate pleasures. The Siren Fire Core Dildo comes with a spot for a bullet vibrator to fit snugly inside the shaft through the bottom base. This will allow for vibration while still keeping the base flush and perfect for use in a strap-on harness.
*Best Harnesses for newbies
1. SpareParts Joque Harness:
Vegan hand made harness that is designed to be comfortable and convenient. With a Velcro strap that adjusts in a snap, the SpareParts Joque Harness easily adapts to your size and shape. Fashionable and flexible, the front piece includes a built-in elastic o-ring that can accommodate toys up to two inches wide. Double dildos, strap-on dildos (flared bases) and even external vibes can be placed in the pleasure pouch. The mesh-lined backing allows for breathability with all-day wear. Get wet in this hardware-free harness! With no metal parts to rust, you can use the Joque as a jock while playing water sports. After getting down and dirty, this washable harness can be cleaned by hand or in the machine.
2. Aslan leather Jaguar Harness:
Sleek, sexy sophisticated the Jaguar has it all. Designed for comfort, style and performance the Jaguar Harness has slim line buckles at the hips for maximum comfort and secure hold. D-ring closures on the butt straps make the Jaguar design simple to put on (unbuckle one side, step in, adjust buckles to fit). Designed for the ultimate ride the Jaguar's dildo placement is lower than most traditional harnesses.
It sits low on the hips like low-rise jeans allowing for delicious pressure on the clit. Two strap design allows for plenty of access. A three point snap out o-ring system (comes with one 2" rubber o-ring) allows for interchangeable o-ring sizes.
3. Aslan Minx Harness:
Enjoy a rare combination of strap-on comfort and sexy design with the Minx Harness. Aslan Leather took the bestselling Jaguar Harness and added a gorgeous corset-style back lace closure, making the Minx as seductively hot as it is functional. Strategically placed buckles and D-rings ensure a snug, comfy fit. And like the lovely Jaguar Harness, the Minx's dildo placement is lower than our traditional jock, allowing for delicious pressure on the clit and a sturdy fit.
4. Bella Couture Harness:
Harness the perfect femmetastic lingerie look and support your strapon dildo in high style with the super sexy Bella. Cut like booty shorts and crafted from gorgeous stretch black lace over black nylon spandex, a strong and stretchy material that holds its shape, it also rocks four black removable garters (included) and a beautiful bow over rear peephole cleavage. Sturdy yet flexible elastic flatters your hips for a smooth, streamlined look. Comfy, functional, and easy on/easy off, this is one harness you can wear all day. The material wicks moisture away from the body and keeps you cool when things get hot, plus quick dry nylon spandex is ideal for wet play, it’s 100% water-friendly and, of course, washable. Durable elastic O-ring fits toys 1 ¼” to2 ¼” in diameter; two internal fabric panels separate the wearer’s dildo from their skin, if desired, or shift out of the way to accommodate a double dildo. With two internal mini-vibe pockets positioned to pleasure both partners.
*Best lube for anal exploration.
Be sure to use a silicone toy compatible lube, anything else can damage your silicone dildos.
1. Sliquid Naturals Silk:
A water based personal lubricant blended with cream emollients and silicone to create a unique hybrid lubricant. Silk is all that a water based personal lubricant can be, with the added longevity of a silicone lubricant. Silk is easy to clean up and has a luxurious creamy texture.
2. Sliquid Sassy:
The Sassy is a thicker gel and it is marketed as an anal lubricant. This thick, long-lasting lube is uniquely blended to emulate your body’s natural lubrications. Called the “booty formula”, the water based, glyercin-free gel is perfect for anal use and can be reactivated with water or spit.
3. Love Balm Natural Lubricant: These delectable, versatile lubes, made with organic coconut oil, can be used solo or with partners, for vaginal or anal play, J/O cream, as a slippery yet absorbent massage oil, and even as a relaxing, moisturizing, sweetly scented bath oil. Great with all types of toy material except latex. A little goes a long way, and the solid at room temp coconut oil will not go rancid like other vegetable oil-based products. It completely liquifies at 76 degrees, so as soon as you apply it to warm flesh, it starts moisturizing and lubricating!
4. Pjur Analyse Me! Relaxing Anal Glide Silicone:
Say goodbye to anal discomfort! Pjur Analyse Me! Relaxing Anal Glide is an exceptional cosmetic product. Helps to desensitize sensitive areas. without dangerous numbing ingredients. It has added Jojoba, which naturally relaxes the muscles. It counteracts hypersensitivity and helps increase your ultimate pleasure.
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