TRIBUTES? (commentary)
So 2 days ago, I saw a lady (lets call her LADY E), online who had accepted my friend invite a few days before. I decided to send her a message, just introducing myself and getting an idea of how she felt about the site. Small talk, nothing sexual. She messages me back "Tribute me?". In my head I'm like wtf?!! Like what's up with girls asking for tributes from any random guy?
Now I know there are some guys who will tribute anybody for any reason just cause, they are guys. And whatever, that's fine. But in my opinion, I wouldn't tribute any girl who I have no report with, no type of friendship with, or a sexual friendship with for that matter. I mean just cause someone's on our friends list doesn't really make them a friend (That's another blog for another day).
To me it's like a guy asking a girl to cam on his first message to her. Like she doesn't know who that guy is. She has no history with him. Why would she cam. I know probably a few girls would, nothing wrong with that. But from what I read, girls don't actually like that as an opening line. They don't just want to be some random dude's instant gratification. Understandable completely. On the other side, some women get gratification from many guys doing tributes to them, showing them all types of sexual attention and what not. I personally don't want to be some random woman's instant gratification. What has she done to deserve a tribute? Look pretty? Have a fat ass? Big tits? Ahhhh you have to do a little more then that for me. A lot of women on here have those characteristics. What else you have to offer to deserve a tribute?
Now if a girl ask me to cam on a first message and I was attracted to her, I probably would. But, she asked me, and as guy, you know I'm going to want to cam.lol. But i would never ask a girl that right away, just out of respect for her. I would show some class cause I know girls are not like men in that sense.
What do you think about what I'm saying?
Of course when I told Lady E I don't know her like that to tribute her, she never responded back to me. No reply to my original message or rebuttal. No problem. I expected that.
Anyone agree or disagree with what I'm saying? Hit up the comments beloooowww
Thanks for reading.
KnightedArmor
Now I know there are some guys who will tribute anybody for any reason just cause, they are guys. And whatever, that's fine. But in my opinion, I wouldn't tribute any girl who I have no report with, no type of friendship with, or a sexual friendship with for that matter. I mean just cause someone's on our friends list doesn't really make them a friend (That's another blog for another day).
To me it's like a guy asking a girl to cam on his first message to her. Like she doesn't know who that guy is. She has no history with him. Why would she cam. I know probably a few girls would, nothing wrong with that. But from what I read, girls don't actually like that as an opening line. They don't just want to be some random dude's instant gratification. Understandable completely. On the other side, some women get gratification from many guys doing tributes to them, showing them all types of sexual attention and what not. I personally don't want to be some random woman's instant gratification. What has she done to deserve a tribute? Look pretty? Have a fat ass? Big tits? Ahhhh you have to do a little more then that for me. A lot of women on here have those characteristics. What else you have to offer to deserve a tribute?
Now if a girl ask me to cam on a first message and I was attracted to her, I probably would. But, she asked me, and as guy, you know I'm going to want to cam.lol. But i would never ask a girl that right away, just out of respect for her. I would show some class cause I know girls are not like men in that sense.
What do you think about what I'm saying?
Of course when I told Lady E I don't know her like that to tribute her, she never responded back to me. No reply to my original message or rebuttal. No problem. I expected that.
Anyone agree or disagree with what I'm saying? Hit up the comments beloooowww
Thanks for reading.
KnightedArmor
13 years ago
but yeah, I'd put that in the same category with guys who send me messages and immediately want me to call them or watch them jack off on skype or cam or whatever...
As for your argument "like a guy asking a girl to cam on his first message" this happens all the fuck'n time - they must get some takers or they wouldn't bother, same as asking for tributes. Its a matter of fishing - if they don't get a catch most just move on. A simple matter of numbers my friend.
In saying all that, I do feel your sentiments and share most of them myself.
I had it when the lady ignores you if you won't do a tribute.