To all the tribute collectors!
I can't help but notice that more and more women (or mostly girls, but that's a whole different story) get an xhamster account to get their pics tributed. Not that I think that there's anthing wrong that, don't get me wrong. Sometimes, I even like making one. But I get the impression that many of you aren't even trying. Of course there will always be some desperate guys that will do whatever you want, but knowing what kind of sad guys visit here, that doesn't say anything.
So there are some things I'd like all of you tribute-collectors to understand (I'm not sure if I can speak for all men here, I'll leave that up to them).
First of all, I like to get to know the person behind the picture. To me, sex, or fantasy about sex, has a lot to do with personality.
So if a conversation doesn't go beyond 'OMGYES Cum on my pics, my mail is [email protected]', just forget about it. Tell me a bit about yourself, or your fantasies, or whatever else it is you want to talk about. I assume you have the social skills to do so. If that's too much to ask, I assume you don't care beyond the dick that shoots a load on your pics. I also know that a lot of women drown in messages from the moment they open their account. But if that is keeping you from having a decent conversation, I suggest changing your account preferences.
Second: This is a porn site. Not facebook. I know a lot of women are addicted to (male) attention and would jump through a burning hoop for some compliments. But if you want to post pictures where you're walking your dog or holding an african baby, you're in the wrong place. There are things like facebook for that. Or maybe Tinder.
I come (no pun inteded) here to see some sexually arousing things. And a picture of you and 5 friends smiling at a camera in a bar doesn't do it for me. Don't think you have to go completely naked and use a cucumber for a dildo, but least post something stimulating.
So there are some things I'd like all of you tribute-collectors to understand (I'm not sure if I can speak for all men here, I'll leave that up to them).
First of all, I like to get to know the person behind the picture. To me, sex, or fantasy about sex, has a lot to do with personality.
So if a conversation doesn't go beyond 'OMGYES Cum on my pics, my mail is [email protected]', just forget about it. Tell me a bit about yourself, or your fantasies, or whatever else it is you want to talk about. I assume you have the social skills to do so. If that's too much to ask, I assume you don't care beyond the dick that shoots a load on your pics. I also know that a lot of women drown in messages from the moment they open their account. But if that is keeping you from having a decent conversation, I suggest changing your account preferences.
Second: This is a porn site. Not facebook. I know a lot of women are addicted to (male) attention and would jump through a burning hoop for some compliments. But if you want to post pictures where you're walking your dog or holding an african baby, you're in the wrong place. There are things like facebook for that. Or maybe Tinder.
I come (no pun inteded) here to see some sexually arousing things. And a picture of you and 5 friends smiling at a camera in a bar doesn't do it for me. Don't think you have to go completely naked and use a cucumber for a dildo, but least post something stimulating.
9 years ago
