Xhamster friendship guide for newbies
I joined this huge community of porn lovers about eight months from now, with so much expectation. I am a big fan of cam encounters, so I was delighted to have my first session with a beautiful woman the very first day of my registration. We both did cum after playing about 30 minutes. I was sure that I found the best porn site in the world with women ready to please me. Therefore, I came the next day certain that I would repeat that amazing experience. However, it did not happen. It did not happen that day, neither the next week, nor the next month. I realize that I was very, very lucky my first day on Xhamster, especially when I saw later that my first partner never came back here.
In the last eight months, I had a lot of nice moments, but also some very unpleasant. I met some wonderful women (I am 100% straight, so I will not talk about men) which helped me to experience real friendships here, but I met a lot of those that left a much, much worse impression (actually, the real term for them would be "bitches"). I want to share my experience with the newbies, so they could know what to expect. I will first present you the most common groups of people here based on my previous experience.
The friends collectors
Easy to recognize, they friends list is always huge. They accept friendships with no hesitation. Valuable only for those that belongs in the same category. Do not expect any feedback from them.
The "comment me" group
Whenever they post a video or a gallery, they will ask you to leave comments. We all like to have a comment left on our posts, but it loses its effect if it is done on demand. When I leave a comment, it is because I felt the need to do it. No much chance to chat or communicate in both directions with those women neither.
The "tribute me" cluster
Those women are focused to get a tribute from you. Sometimes they even ask one as a condition to accept you as friend. I understand that a tribute makes woman feel good, most of them like to masturbate watching it, but when a friendship is all only about that..
The fake profiles
They are here to attract you with pictures and video of other people. It could be a gay pretending being a woman or a man pretending to be a couple, but unfortunately even a k** pretending to be an adult. So watch out! It is sometimes hard to detect them, I admit that I had several situations where I was not sure about the person on the other side. I even made a tribute (to Nattasha) for a person I thought to be a woman. In fact I did it for the amazing woman on the pictures, but the profile was of some man, I found it later.
The false "retired"
They are very irritating. They keep retiring and coming back. This way you are not able to see their profiles and galleries when they are not online even if you are their friends or have the passwords for them. By coming back they also achieve to have their re-uploaded galleries in your news.
The "password protected" group
Their profiles are generally full of pictures and videos protected by passwords. I can understand that some galleries are protected like that, because you want only some persons to see them, but protecting all galleries is some kind of disrespect towards xhamster visitors, especially their friends. Sometimes this is a sign that it is a fake profile in question, because they prevent this way the real authors of the hidden material to see it.
Real friends (the way I see them)
They are your friends because they like your pictures and videos, because they enjoy chatting with you, they will always reply to your personal messages and even be here for you when you are in the bad mood. Of course, they know that they will have at least the same attention from me. Having with them dirty chats, exchanging online pictures or even practicing C2C will only add value to a friendship with them. But even without it, they will still be your friends. They are hard to find, like for the diamonds, you have to dig a lot to discover them.
Of course, many xhamster members don't belong to any of the upper categories, my intention was to describe the most explicit cases. Finally, please do not think that I am judging any of people that I labeled. They have the same right as me to be here and to do what they like to do. On the same grounds I have the freedom to like or not what they do and to express my opinion.
In this moment, I have almost 300 avatars in my friend list and I decided to review it, because there are so many people that never replied to any of my numerous messages or they did it just once, to ask for a tribute or demanding to comment their profile... I guess that my list will go under 100, but this time not avatars but friends.
Please, new or old xhamster members, be kind to join me on this topic, say what you think. I am impatient to see your opinion :)
In the last eight months, I had a lot of nice moments, but also some very unpleasant. I met some wonderful women (I am 100% straight, so I will not talk about men) which helped me to experience real friendships here, but I met a lot of those that left a much, much worse impression (actually, the real term for them would be "bitches"). I want to share my experience with the newbies, so they could know what to expect. I will first present you the most common groups of people here based on my previous experience.
The friends collectors
Easy to recognize, they friends list is always huge. They accept friendships with no hesitation. Valuable only for those that belongs in the same category. Do not expect any feedback from them.
The "comment me" group
Whenever they post a video or a gallery, they will ask you to leave comments. We all like to have a comment left on our posts, but it loses its effect if it is done on demand. When I leave a comment, it is because I felt the need to do it. No much chance to chat or communicate in both directions with those women neither.
The "tribute me" cluster
Those women are focused to get a tribute from you. Sometimes they even ask one as a condition to accept you as friend. I understand that a tribute makes woman feel good, most of them like to masturbate watching it, but when a friendship is all only about that..
The fake profiles
They are here to attract you with pictures and video of other people. It could be a gay pretending being a woman or a man pretending to be a couple, but unfortunately even a k** pretending to be an adult. So watch out! It is sometimes hard to detect them, I admit that I had several situations where I was not sure about the person on the other side. I even made a tribute (to Nattasha) for a person I thought to be a woman. In fact I did it for the amazing woman on the pictures, but the profile was of some man, I found it later.
The false "retired"
They are very irritating. They keep retiring and coming back. This way you are not able to see their profiles and galleries when they are not online even if you are their friends or have the passwords for them. By coming back they also achieve to have their re-uploaded galleries in your news.
The "password protected" group
Their profiles are generally full of pictures and videos protected by passwords. I can understand that some galleries are protected like that, because you want only some persons to see them, but protecting all galleries is some kind of disrespect towards xhamster visitors, especially their friends. Sometimes this is a sign that it is a fake profile in question, because they prevent this way the real authors of the hidden material to see it.
Real friends (the way I see them)
They are your friends because they like your pictures and videos, because they enjoy chatting with you, they will always reply to your personal messages and even be here for you when you are in the bad mood. Of course, they know that they will have at least the same attention from me. Having with them dirty chats, exchanging online pictures or even practicing C2C will only add value to a friendship with them. But even without it, they will still be your friends. They are hard to find, like for the diamonds, you have to dig a lot to discover them.
Of course, many xhamster members don't belong to any of the upper categories, my intention was to describe the most explicit cases. Finally, please do not think that I am judging any of people that I labeled. They have the same right as me to be here and to do what they like to do. On the same grounds I have the freedom to like or not what they do and to express my opinion.
In this moment, I have almost 300 avatars in my friend list and I decided to review it, because there are so many people that never replied to any of my numerous messages or they did it just once, to ask for a tribute or demanding to comment their profile... I guess that my list will go under 100, but this time not avatars but friends.
Please, new or old xhamster members, be kind to join me on this topic, say what you think. I am impatient to see your opinion :)
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