To be a...
Dom/mes means you are a teacher, not just someone that knows their way around rope and other interesting devices. It means you guide, you love and you treat your submissive as they should be treated.
These films...they teach you nothing. A true Dom listens, they know, they are there for the submissive for all the ups and downs.
They build together, they learn together and they are together. There is no switching off like in the Story of O.
They build a sub's confidence with teaching them how to serve properly, on ALL levels not just in the bedroom or roped to a bondage cross in a basement.
If there is a Collar, there is a Leash...
To be a Submissive is probably more difficult than being a Dom. They have to know all what is going on in their owners mind. They need to feel the emotion, the permissions and the pain. They need to know that what they are meant to do is more than just a weekend thing, it is who they are, what they are and will always be.
From serving through the day and serving through the night...it is your duty to act responsible, loving and to be understanding with your Dom/mes and know that you have chose this life.
While I know the "to each his or her own"...I dislike the weekend warrior, or the closet Dom/sub who can not be truthful with the ones they have in their life.
I was a Money Mistress for 6 years, I trained for 8 years, and I am now a Top/bottom switch with my Husband. I have learned, proper protocol for both, as well as history of multiple ethnic backgrounds-Arabic, Chinese, Roman...I know much about each and every one of these enslavements...
And if I can help you, I will, I love to teach, thats the best thing about being a Top/bottom
These films...they teach you nothing. A true Dom listens, they know, they are there for the submissive for all the ups and downs.
They build together, they learn together and they are together. There is no switching off like in the Story of O.
They build a sub's confidence with teaching them how to serve properly, on ALL levels not just in the bedroom or roped to a bondage cross in a basement.
If there is a Collar, there is a Leash...
To be a Submissive is probably more difficult than being a Dom. They have to know all what is going on in their owners mind. They need to feel the emotion, the permissions and the pain. They need to know that what they are meant to do is more than just a weekend thing, it is who they are, what they are and will always be.
From serving through the day and serving through the night...it is your duty to act responsible, loving and to be understanding with your Dom/mes and know that you have chose this life.
While I know the "to each his or her own"...I dislike the weekend warrior, or the closet Dom/sub who can not be truthful with the ones they have in their life.
I was a Money Mistress for 6 years, I trained for 8 years, and I am now a Top/bottom switch with my Husband. I have learned, proper protocol for both, as well as history of multiple ethnic backgrounds-Arabic, Chinese, Roman...I know much about each and every one of these enslavements...
And if I can help you, I will, I love to teach, thats the best thing about being a Top/bottom
13 years ago