Do black men feel they need an excuse for dating
Why do black men feel they need an excuse for dating outside their race? How do you feel about interracial dating? Do black men use white women?
“An excuse means to seek to defend or justify”
If you prefer strawberry ice cream over chocolate ice cream you don’t have to find an excuse or express revulsion towards chocolate ice cream to justify eating strawberry, right? For black men who choose to date white women or other non-black women, understand that “real” love doesn’t have an excuse attached. Your decision for dating women of other races should stem from your attraction towards the person, genuine love, and respect regardless of the color of their skin, instead of basing your decision on a bad relationship or occurrence with women of your ethnicity. It’s not a black woman thing, it’s a woman thing, and you will be surprised as to how many men are having some of the same issues black men proclaim with women of all racial backgrounds.
The excuses and stereotypes that are formed about black women are what many white women use as a countermeasure when explaining why a black man chose them over a black woman. Words of advice, when a person is sure about their choice, they won’t provide an excuse.
Top reasons black men claim to date white women
Black women have bad attitudes
Black women rejected them while white women accepted them
Black women expect too much
White women know how to treat men
White women are easier and they (black men) can do what they want
What is your opinion?
“An excuse means to seek to defend or justify”
If you prefer strawberry ice cream over chocolate ice cream you don’t have to find an excuse or express revulsion towards chocolate ice cream to justify eating strawberry, right? For black men who choose to date white women or other non-black women, understand that “real” love doesn’t have an excuse attached. Your decision for dating women of other races should stem from your attraction towards the person, genuine love, and respect regardless of the color of their skin, instead of basing your decision on a bad relationship or occurrence with women of your ethnicity. It’s not a black woman thing, it’s a woman thing, and you will be surprised as to how many men are having some of the same issues black men proclaim with women of all racial backgrounds.
The excuses and stereotypes that are formed about black women are what many white women use as a countermeasure when explaining why a black man chose them over a black woman. Words of advice, when a person is sure about their choice, they won’t provide an excuse.
Top reasons black men claim to date white women
Black women have bad attitudes
Black women rejected them while white women accepted them
Black women expect too much
White women know how to treat men
White women are easier and they (black men) can do what they want
What is your opinion?
11 years ago