Being pregnant changes your life in a big way. It is not something that can be left to chance, as the resultant responsibility of caring for your child should never be unplanned. So, there is no need to take undue risks and unwanted pregnancy should be avoided.
Let us first have a look at some of the methods people use to avoid getting pregnant. These include: •Withdrawal – It is the method in which the man takes his penis out the vagina when he is about to ejaculate. It is not reliable as pre-ejaculate semen also contains sperms that can cause pregnancy. •First time sex would not cause pregnancy – This is believed by many people but you don’t want to leave it to chance. From the time menstruation starts in you, sex can lead to pregnancy. •Douching – Some women wash the semen from their vagina after sex. This is of no use because if you have to get pregnant, the strongest sperm would have already reached the uterus. •Calendar birth control – This is perhaps a little more effective as when you watch the calendar for those times of the month when you are not fertile, to have sex. But your sperm can stay live for 4 to 5 days and make you pregnant when you become fertile.
If you have been following any of the methods mentioned above, know that you are not secured. Some of the better ways to ensure that you do not get pregnant are: •Contraception – Get professional help to get a reliable contraception done. Whether it is taking pills, IUD, condoms, or permanent implants to prevent pregnancy; there is no dearth of reliable birth control methods. But remember that no birth control gives you 100 percent prevention although it is as high as 98 percent in many of these, if used properly. If you are taking contraceptive pills and also need to take some antibiotics, the former may not work. So, take additional precaution of using condom in this case. •Do not penetrate while having sex – This is a better idea for couples who use the withdrawal method. You can have sex in different ways and induce orgasm without actually allowing for penetration. Just make sure that you do not start doing anything unhygienic, or accidentally bring the sperm into the vagina. •Don’t have sex – There is no method that can ensure that you avoid pregnancy better than this. This is not the easiest of decisions especially for young people. If you can keep your passions under control, this is the ideal way out for you. •Do not take alcohol or drugs – Most young girls get pregnant when they have unprotected sex while they were drunk, or under the influence of drugs. Unprotected sex may seem to be ok in the heat of the moment, but it will surely make you feel bad as you wait for your periods to come in the next few weeks.
educating tem about sex at tis age is good because now they are learning process they will take care of it wen v start educating tem from now onwards towards sex..........or else it will be late if u teach tem about it after everything is over.....
This is not the place for religious people. Go to other sites this site is to have fun and open up new frontears Nothing wrong by talikng sex with kids. It is better to learn from parent then strangers who may rape girl.
Sick people sick comments! Its too early to get into details. Talk about how parents have to love each other (not making love) first and then get school text books that talk about reproduction in a scientific way
For Son no need now..for daughter suggest some sex education sites and books but not porn sites. Else ask u r female friend to counsel her. Lastly visit a sexologist Nothing works contact me
just love them and care for them and be free to talk about sexual matters with them and gradually they will learn surely....then tease son if you like him and give him more intimate passionate care which wud make him learn
Let us first have a look at some of the methods people use to avoid getting pregnant. These include:
•Withdrawal – It is the method in which the man takes his penis out the vagina when he is about to ejaculate. It is not reliable as pre-ejaculate semen also contains sperms that can cause pregnancy.
•First time sex would not cause pregnancy – This is believed by many people but you don’t want to leave it to chance. From the time menstruation starts in you, sex can lead to pregnancy.
•Douching – Some women wash the semen from their vagina after sex. This is of no use because if you have to get pregnant, the strongest sperm would have already reached the uterus.
•Calendar birth control – This is perhaps a little more effective as when you watch the calendar for those times of the month when you are not fertile, to have sex. But your sperm can stay live for 4 to 5 days and make you pregnant when you become fertile.
If you have been following any of the methods mentioned above, know that you are not secured. Some of the better ways to ensure that you do not get pregnant are:
•Contraception – Get professional help to get a reliable contraception done. Whether it is taking pills, IUD, condoms, or permanent implants to prevent pregnancy; there is no dearth of reliable birth control methods. But remember that no birth control gives you 100 percent prevention although it is as high as 98 percent in many of these, if used properly. If you are taking contraceptive pills and also need to take some antibiotics, the former may not work. So, take additional precaution of using condom in this case.
•Do not penetrate while having sex – This is a better idea for couples who use the withdrawal method. You can have sex in different ways and induce orgasm without actually allowing for penetration. Just make sure that you do not start doing anything unhygienic, or accidentally bring the sperm into the vagina.
•Don’t have sex – There is no method that can ensure that you avoid pregnancy better than this. This is not the easiest of decisions especially for young people. If you can keep your passions under control, this is the ideal way out for you.
•Do not take alcohol or drugs – Most young girls get pregnant when they have unprotected sex while they were drunk, or under the influence of drugs. Unprotected sex may seem to be ok in the heat of the moment, but it will surely make you feel bad as you wait for your periods to come in the next few weeks.