FYI: I'm Not Bi, Gay or in the Closet
It's annoying I need to write this, but I'm sick of guys messaging me thinking I'd like to do sexual things with them. I have never had even the slightest interest in guys. Never any curiosity about sex with guys, either. I do not feel threatened if a guy hits on me, I had a 20-something guy flirting with me heavily at a restaurant a few years back while I was waiting for my to-go order. It was quite flattering, but I had no interest in him.
I'm just sick of guys not bothering to look at the most basic info on my profile and see it says hetereosexual and there's no fetishes that are definitely bi/gay. Crossdressing does not mean a guy is gay, most guys who do it are straight. The various uniforms are because I like seeing girls wear those, although there's a couple I would like to wear sometimes. (In particular a schoolgirl uniform and maybe a maid uniform.) I am quite open about my fetishes, even the taboo ones. If I was bi or gay I would say so.
In fact I'm the polar opposite of gay. I come in at zero on the Kinsey scale: Exclusively heterosexual. And sexually I'm almost obsessed with pussies. Hell, even the crossdressing is largely due to that, because part of me wishes I'd been a girl. I'd be a lesbian though, so even if I'm trans (this is a definite possibility), I'd be a lesbian and I'm way too old to try dealing with how society would treat me a gay trans woman.
What prompted this? Some guy (I won't name) that lived close by messaging me wanting to hook-up for sex. It was clear he didn't look at my profile at all, and it was just the last straw. I blocked them and will do that for any other guys who can't be bothered to read. You can't say you weren't warned.
As annoying as that is, I suspect it's nothing like the bullshit women on here have to put up with from guys who are clueless assholes who think they're the best thing in the universe.
I'm just sick of guys not bothering to look at the most basic info on my profile and see it says hetereosexual and there's no fetishes that are definitely bi/gay. Crossdressing does not mean a guy is gay, most guys who do it are straight. The various uniforms are because I like seeing girls wear those, although there's a couple I would like to wear sometimes. (In particular a schoolgirl uniform and maybe a maid uniform.) I am quite open about my fetishes, even the taboo ones. If I was bi or gay I would say so.
In fact I'm the polar opposite of gay. I come in at zero on the Kinsey scale: Exclusively heterosexual. And sexually I'm almost obsessed with pussies. Hell, even the crossdressing is largely due to that, because part of me wishes I'd been a girl. I'd be a lesbian though, so even if I'm trans (this is a definite possibility), I'd be a lesbian and I'm way too old to try dealing with how society would treat me a gay trans woman.
What prompted this? Some guy (I won't name) that lived close by messaging me wanting to hook-up for sex. It was clear he didn't look at my profile at all, and it was just the last straw. I blocked them and will do that for any other guys who can't be bothered to read. You can't say you weren't warned.
As annoying as that is, I suspect it's nothing like the bullshit women on here have to put up with from guys who are clueless assholes who think they're the best thing in the universe.
9 months ago
