Just some tips about Site Etiquette
So this is just to help people who aren't sure how to start conversations on sites like this one. Or for people who start lots of conversations but either get blocked or ignored. I've literally spoken to thousands of men on sites like this one. And so I've seen and heard pretty much everything. Including shapes colors and sizes. These rules do not apply to all women. But they do apply to some. So err on the side of caution and you can't go wrong.
Unsolicited Friend Requests
Don't send friend requests before you speak to the person. Its way to forward and overbearing for a lot of us. Maybe they don't want to talk to someone who without even having a conversation just decided you were going to be friends for them without even consulting them. Now some women are fine with this. But a some women don't appreciate it.
Unsolicited Dick Pics
Just Don't. You don't know this person, so why would you just decided to throw your dick at them. Do you know if they are sitting in public place? Or at work? Do you know if they have c***dren that may try to peek at what mom is doing on their phone? No? Why not? Oh that's right you didn't ask! Bad manners. Period. ALWAYS ASK FIRST if they would like to see them. If they want to they will let you know. Again, some women are fine with it. Some aren't. Don't gamble on which one they are just play it safe.
Language
I don't know how many guys I've blocked chewed out or totally ignored because of how they started a conversation with me. If a guy starts with a simple "Hi! I saw you were on and liked your profile, would you like to chat?" Or something like that I'm probably going to respond and be willing to have a conversation. If they start with "God I wanna suck those big titties ass and pussy all night long then fill those holes with this big dick till you scream for more and fill you with my cum." Or "Come get this big dick!" Or even "Let me have your address I'll be right there and we can smash" Those guys lost before the conversation even started. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude. I do a lot of stuff in bed and I'm into a lot of kinky stuff. But I want to be talked to and approached at first like a human being. And also keep in mind that if you won't listen to us on a text conversation it's not safe to meet you because you won't listen to us in persona either. Big red flag!
Being Pushy
If someone declines several offers or attempts from you for anything. And starts getting less wordy you've gone to far. If you make an offer for sex or to meet or to give out their number or whatever and they decline your offer theirs a reason. Continuing to push it on them is always going to backfire. I don't give out my number or private social media, or do phone calls or video chats for several reasons. One of which is I have two young boys. And we live with family. I'm not going to get into a conversation with someone who wants to have phone sex or show themselves masturbating on a video call where my family can see or hear it. Have some fucking discretion!
Please, Keep in mind, just because a woman is on a site like this doesn't mean they are mindless sluts. We don't just fall down and start giving out BJ's to anyone who flops out their manhood. That's porn. And the girls on there are paid to act that way. Yes we enjoy sex. But this is an age where we have to deal with some pretty ugly attitudes from some guys. So talk to us, and treat us in the beginning a little more Mrs. Johnson and a little less Streetwalker and let it find it's way naturally. You will get a lot farther with a lot more people that way.
Just a few tips. Hope this helps!
Unsolicited Friend Requests
Don't send friend requests before you speak to the person. Its way to forward and overbearing for a lot of us. Maybe they don't want to talk to someone who without even having a conversation just decided you were going to be friends for them without even consulting them. Now some women are fine with this. But a some women don't appreciate it.
Unsolicited Dick Pics
Just Don't. You don't know this person, so why would you just decided to throw your dick at them. Do you know if they are sitting in public place? Or at work? Do you know if they have c***dren that may try to peek at what mom is doing on their phone? No? Why not? Oh that's right you didn't ask! Bad manners. Period. ALWAYS ASK FIRST if they would like to see them. If they want to they will let you know. Again, some women are fine with it. Some aren't. Don't gamble on which one they are just play it safe.
Language
I don't know how many guys I've blocked chewed out or totally ignored because of how they started a conversation with me. If a guy starts with a simple "Hi! I saw you were on and liked your profile, would you like to chat?" Or something like that I'm probably going to respond and be willing to have a conversation. If they start with "God I wanna suck those big titties ass and pussy all night long then fill those holes with this big dick till you scream for more and fill you with my cum." Or "Come get this big dick!" Or even "Let me have your address I'll be right there and we can smash" Those guys lost before the conversation even started. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude. I do a lot of stuff in bed and I'm into a lot of kinky stuff. But I want to be talked to and approached at first like a human being. And also keep in mind that if you won't listen to us on a text conversation it's not safe to meet you because you won't listen to us in persona either. Big red flag!
Being Pushy
If someone declines several offers or attempts from you for anything. And starts getting less wordy you've gone to far. If you make an offer for sex or to meet or to give out their number or whatever and they decline your offer theirs a reason. Continuing to push it on them is always going to backfire. I don't give out my number or private social media, or do phone calls or video chats for several reasons. One of which is I have two young boys. And we live with family. I'm not going to get into a conversation with someone who wants to have phone sex or show themselves masturbating on a video call where my family can see or hear it. Have some fucking discretion!
Please, Keep in mind, just because a woman is on a site like this doesn't mean they are mindless sluts. We don't just fall down and start giving out BJ's to anyone who flops out their manhood. That's porn. And the girls on there are paid to act that way. Yes we enjoy sex. But this is an age where we have to deal with some pretty ugly attitudes from some guys. So talk to us, and treat us in the beginning a little more Mrs. Johnson and a little less Streetwalker and let it find it's way naturally. You will get a lot farther with a lot more people that way.
Just a few tips. Hope this helps!
3 years ago