Feederism and Feedee

I know I’m not alone in my fetish. From my early teens I knew I was interested in fuller, chubbier, plumper women. Skinny, thin, petite women have never really had much appeal. It may appear strange to those who don’t share my feelings, but to me it felt right. It feels right.

It took me along time to explore my sexuality, my feelings, and my fetish. Tragically due to a world so obsessed with a single type of beauty, and the destructive forces of adolescent pride, and need to fit in, I found it impossible to express my desires and feelings even into my late teens. Now after a string of relationships and a period of reflection it is easy for me to say in any company, ‘no I prefer larger women’ ‘fuller women’ 'some handles to hold'. I love women that are able to accept themselves as they are, regardless of size, there are clearly too many people not just women trapped in shame about their bodies. However for me bigger is definitely best.

In exploring my fetish, I know that this extends to the desire to feed and to nurture. It’s like a protective and malign force, which I know cannot be correct. I understand the health implications and that untempered that feederism has dangerous implications for the feedee. However my own fetish is not to be the dominant partner but a submissive feeder, of a dominate feedee, which in itself is a bit of a paradox.

There must be others like me, and also very lucky people who get to enjoy a relationship such as this where both partners get to act on their desires.

I’d love to see the responses of those of you that share my fetish. How do you interact with your partner, does your partner understand your fetish? How do you explore this maintaining safe boundaries?

I’d love to here from you!