Porn is NOT an educational video...

No, really! Porn is not reality. People don't normally a) act that way, b) look that way, or c) talk that way.
And you shouldn't (or don't) either.

Let me break it down the basics for you:

a) Most women have the money to pay the plumber/mechanic/pizza boy, and aren't just waiting around for some random dude to fuck them.
b) This is a site full of professional porn stars; most likely you don't look like them the same way I don't look like them. What makes you think I want to see a naked pic of you when I can look at THEM?
c) Stop getting your vocabulary from porn. Most women in the real world don't like being called milfs. If you said that in person, you'd have a drink thrown at you. And "mature"? Straight from porn. Mature is not a word for age; it's a way of acting. And crazy thing... not all "older" or "mature" women are the same. When you're into "older" women, that's a fetish.
Here's a tip: most normal women don't like being fetishized.

Here are some extra tips from you:

- most normal women don't want to know every detail of a total stranger's fantasies.
- most normal women don't want to know that a total stranger is jerking off to them.
- most normal women don't care about total stranger's long, hard, whatever-colored dick.
- most normal women don't want a total stranger calling them by an endearment.
- most normal women don't like being stalked across the internet.
- most normal women don't want to send a total stranger naked pix.
- most normal women don't want to see a pic of a total stranger's dick.
- it's not up to YOU to decide if what you said to a normal woman is rude.

Also... reading a person's profile and posts before contacting them would be a good thing.