PREVIOUS BDSM EXPERIENCE

So I thought I'd write this blog post mainly as one of the most frequent questions I get asked is - 'What have you done before?' I don't mind answering it but it does get a bit repetitive after a while, so here's a brief account of the previous Dom/Master situations I've had.
Both these took place about 18 months ago while I was still at University

My first situation was with a friend of an ex boyfriend who I'd know for a short time, he was in his mid 30's. When I split from my boyfriend he got in touch and we had a few drinks and the subject of sex came up. We somehow got onto the topic of spanking and he told me he'd some experience of BDSM. After a couple of weeks he invited me back to his house and this was the first of around 5 or 6 sessions we had over a 3 month period.

What I later found out was he had very little, if any true BDSM experience. He'd picked a few things up from online and made things up as he went along. He'd no equipment or toys of any kind. I realised with hindsight he was using me for sex with a bit of kink thrown in. Now in a way, I did quite enjoy it as it was the basic NSA situation but my big hope of some genuine BDSM sessions didn't happen

My visits lasted anything from 1 to 4 hours, this is a brief list of what we did :-

When I got to his house I was made to strip and remained naked throughout my visit
I was referred to as SLUT and was given lots of verbal abuse
I was roughly inspected at the start of each session, made to stand with my arms up and out, turn around and bend over to touch my toes
Every visit started with me giving him a BJ
Depending on the length of my stay certain things happened, some of which included BJ's, facials, hand-jobs, rimming, squeezing and pinching of my breasts, slapping and pulling of my breasts, hair pulling and dragging me around with my hair into position, fingering of both my cunt and ass, hard fucking of my pussy in various positions, slapping and spanking of my ass, pulling and stretching of my pussy-lips and on the last visits anal sex

So some of these things were new for me and in some ways I enjoyed trying them, but as I say when I look back he was more an amateur Dom/Master rather than a true experienced Dom/Master with experience that I would have preferred. The sessions stopped when he move away from the area

My second situation was with an older man who was in his mid 50's. Apparently he was a work contact of my first Dom and we met in a cafe in Manchester during my lunch break at Uni. He was local and was open and honest about himself and what he wanted. He was married but his wife who was disabled knew and approved of his sessions, but had no involvement in them whatsoever. He had a spare bedroom which we used for the session and again the sessions lasted from an hour to on a couple of visits all day
He had been doing BDSM as a Dom/Master for around 20 and had a variety of equipment and toys. I won't list them all here but there were many things I'd never seen before
The only thing that was the same as my first situation was I was made to strip immediately I arrived, but after that things were much different.
I had always to address him as Master and was not allowed to speak only when he permitted
I won't go into the detail of what he had me do sexually as that's taken for granted but he did what I call proper BDSM training including:-

humiliation and degradation
physical and verbal abuse
tying and restraints
orgasm denial and forced orgasms
breast
toy and object insertions

I've probably missed some things out but every session was varied and exciting and at the end we always had a cuddle and kissed

Things were going well and I looked forward to my visits but sadly after about 6 months his wife became ill and we had to stop the visits

So that's a brief but I hope informative account of my experience so far. If you do message or chat to me and you want any further detail of any of the above please ask

Thanks for reading

Blondie_K