Don't grab her clit during sex

So we have all seen the sexy vids of couples making love in all kinds of positions. In missionary and cowgirl passion especially, we tend to see vids where either the girl or the guy, grabs her cock and furiously jerks off while taking her man's cock.

A couple of things I have learned over the years are that while some girls do like this, some others don't. The reasons for those who dont like it are varied, maybe she is a submissive and sees her cock as a hindrance to this. For others, they want to be seen as women and while they accept thier genitalia, they don't particularly want it touched. A far better 'plan' is just to let her get adjusted to whatever position we were in and let things go with the flow. Of course if she is sitting on you in cowgirl and takes your hand and places it on her cock, great but let her dictate that before assuming.

I had one girlfriend who simply wanted it to be left alone with neither of us touching it. She loved to ride cowgirl and simply let it flop on my belly at first and then she would get into her 'grind' and let it rub against my belly in unison with her motions. She was on low-dose hormones but always achieved a super strong climax simply by the underside of her cock rubbing hard against my skin. For my part, seeing this happen and feeling it on my skin always made me cum almost instantly so in a sense, this was better for both of us.

I have had others who wanted me to jerk them and while that has a certain sexiness to it, nothing compared to my ex who just rode me in her own motion and let the semen fly naturally with no 'helping hand' on it.

Use this knowledge as you will, that's up to you....Peace out.