What exactly is a cuckold? In basic terms, it is someone that derives pleasure from their partner having sex with another person. I.E. a husband who enjoys it when his wife has sex with other men.
There are man variations of the fetish, some where the husband is a submissive and participates in the act. He may help to undress his wife or girlfriend, presenting her to the other man. He may also undress the man, stroking and/or sucking his cock to get him ready to fuck his wife.
Often, he will sit in a chair and watch, or maybe even on the bed next to them and watch as the other man pleasures his wife. Sometimes he may kiss his wife or even fondle her tits while the other man fucks her. If he is into this kind of participation, he may also perform clean-up duties when they are finished. This would include licking the other man’s cum from his wife’s pussy and maybe even licking his cock clean, tasting not only more of his cum, but also his wife’s pussy juice on his cock.
Generally speaking, a cuckold feels that he is inferior in bed. It may be a small penis, or cannot keep it up, or some other deficiency. Many times, this deficiency is exploited by his wife and the other man, such as comparing his little dick to the much bigger cock of her lover. This element of humiliation can provide a thrill to some cucks. It is often associated with the lover being a black man with a large cock while the couple is white.
Other times, the cuckold appears to be a very normal guy. Someone who is well educated, has a very good job and provides well for his wife and family. In those cases, it may be that being a cuckold is a sort of relief, giving up his normal control. Often his wife is someone that was maybe a bit above his status or what is termed out of his league, but he was able to land her so to speak.
Many times, in this situation it is almost more a case that he is showing off his lovely wife and gets off knowing another man is experiencing her as he does. There may not be as much of the submissive behavior or the humiliation in these cases, but still pleasure obtained by the man as his wife is fucked by another man.
There are other men for which all of this is only a fantasy, something that they think about often and get turned on by, but has never happened, and very likely will not. Infrequently, a fantasy like this may become reality, but not often.
In my case, I am among the group of men that fantasize about being a cuckold. The background of my situation is this. I am married to a very pretty blonde that in reality is not that awfully interested in sex, so the fantasy of being a cuckold is an extension of a fantasy of seeing her truly enjoy sex.
I knew when I started dating her that I wanted to marry her. I also knew that because she was so pretty, a cheerleader, and very popular, my chances were slim to actually go out with her let alone get her to fall in love with me and marry me. She had many other guys pursuing her and even others that she liked a lot at that time.
The first time I was able to be alone with her, we clicked and ended up making out for most of the evening. The following week I asked her to a big dance coming up that Saturday night. I did not know that another boy, which she liked, had already asked her to go to this dance. I do not know what she said to him, but she ended up going with me.
I started to feel like I had a chance but needed to be persistent. I knew these other boys were asking her out as well, so I had to ask her first to each upcoming dance. At that time, the school dances were pretty much my only opportunities to date her. She was two years younger than me, and I had a bit of a reputation as a wild child, thus the chance of her parents letting her go on any other kind of date with me was unlikely.
I was not one of the popular kids, was kind of a troublemaker, as well as being the class clown. All those things were how I gained attention from others. Being two grades in front of her is what most likely helped me gain the upper hand at first. However, I did learn years later that there were a couple of times that we had crossed paths long before we started dating that seemed to have an impact on her, and I think that may have been what made that first time together as special as it was.
As time went on, we continued dating and I got more and more confident that this was going to happen. Then, the fact that the prettiest girl in school, the head cheerleader, was dating me, is what brought attention! I did not need to be the bad boy anymore and the fact that my reputation did not help her when it came to getting permission from her parents for anything, I started to change some. I quit drinking and smoking; I settled down some.
I really felt like our relationship was developing just as I had hoped it would. We dated throughout my last two years of high school and then when she became a Junior the following year, I went off to tech school but came home every weekend to see her!
Well, I should say almost every weekend. I stayed in the city a couple of weekends to work so I had more money for our dates. It was the first of those to weekends away that there was a bit of a situation.
The one other guy that she had always had feelings for, a classmate of hers, asked her out on a date for the Saturday night I would not be home. We talked on the phone about this date and she wrote about it in her weekly letter to me. I can say that I was not surprised that he asked her out, as I had actually warned her that when I was not around, he would make his move, and he did.
What did surprise me was that she did not say no to him up front. We talked on the phone, and she told me that she was not certain she should go with him, or if she even wanted to go with him. She went on to explain that on the first point she was uncertain because of our relationship. I was at least glad she was thinking about that!
However, in regard to the second point of being unsure if she even wanted to go out with him was a point that really concerned me. If she was truly unsure about that, then why didn’t she say no up-front? By not saying no and by proceeding to talk about their plans (she actually told me on the phone about two things they had talked about doing), it was obvious that she wanted to go out with him, possibly as much as he wanted to go out with her.
They had been a couple in junior high school and continued to be close friends and even flirted a lot while she was dating me. It had even taken her many months (like 7 or 8) before she even admitted that she liked me more. (That according to her sister.)
Well, what was I to do, say no and she gets mad at me, and they go out anyway, which could have changed the whole dynamic of the date. Or, give in and let her go, hoping that it did not go well. When I did give in she seemed to be very happy, and she went on to tell me that I had nothing to worry about, that she would be a good girl, and that she loved me.
Kind of a funny way of saying I Love You, isn’t it? By asking the person you say you love if you can go on a date with another boy! They went on their date, and she told me the next weekend what they had done, but added that it did not go that great, giving me the impression there would not be any second date. While I was upset that they had kissed, which she did tell me about, I got past it and we continued dating.
Several years after we were married, we had two small children and one night we were sitting and talking. The conversation got around to sexual experience. She had always made it seem that I was so much more experienced than her, and that she had done nothing with any other boy. What I told her about my experiences with other girls was nothing she had not heard before, and then I pressed her on her experience.
She finally admitted that on that “date”, she had done more with him than just kiss. Back when she told me about the date, she made it sound like it was a kiss, like a goodnight kiss. I knew that because of her feelings for him that even if it was only one kiss, it was probably much more than a friendly peck on the cheek!
She told me that in addition to kissing (now it sounded like multiple kisses) they had done some heavy petting. She described him rubbing her tits and her rubbing his hard dick. Now, she says it was all over clothing, but nonetheless, I knew that at that time when she and I did any of those things the kissing was hot and heavy and the petting was too, so I immediately imagined what they were doing.
I did not know any of this before this night, and I thought about how she and I had talked about threesomes early in our marriage. I recalled how good the sex was during and after those conversations and I also recalled that we went so far as name the other people we wanted to join us in a threesome. Her choice was this same boy! (By the way, she made me go to a second choice because my first her next younger sister, but all that happened is a story for another time.)
All of these new thoughts of her with him were in my mind and while on the surface I was upset, deep down I got turned on. This was the beginning of my cuckold fantasy and at that point I had never even heard the term.
Many years after this, I actually found out more about the date. We were talking about our dating years, I asked about what she remembers about her date with him, and she started to get angry. She finally admitted that they had gone parking, something she had never said before, and she said that he did something that made her mad and she broke a door or window handle on one of the backdoors in his car. She said she yelled at him and made him take her home. That was the end of that conversation and to this day all that I know about the date.
Of course, this additional information was again upsetting, but knowing what she and I were doing around that time when we went parking, it was not difficult for me to imagine what they must have been doing. That just fueled both my anger and my lust for watching them in the backseat that night. I can only imagine what it was they were doing that made her mad.
Obviously, the kissing did not make her mad, as well as the heavy petting, and the fact they were in the back seat tells me a little more. She was obviously comfortable enough to get into the back seat with him and was okay with where things were going.
I should add that it was just two weeks prior to their date that she and I were on a date during which we did nearly exactly what they did on their date. We went to a movie, went out to eat at The Pizza Hut, and then went parking. So, when I thought of our date two weeks prior what jumped out to me was that night happened to be the first time that she and I got completely naked together in the back seat of my car!
Bam! It hit me. One of two things had to have happened. Both implied that they too had gotten naked. The first was that he had tried to initiate intercourse, and she objected, which caused him to try and force his way in, causing her to get upset and yell at him.
She and I had done a little of the same together. She had finally let me enter her. After the first time of only sticking it in, then shortly after pulling it out, we had progressed to actually making love, but I had to pull in plenty of time. (I can say that over the of years of our dating, after we had started doing this, I got very good at pulling out and looking back she has been kind of amazed that I had the will power to do that.)
Thus, the second thing that may have happened on their date was that she had indeed let him initiate intercourse, let him fuck her, but he was either slow or late in pulling out, making her very angry with him. If I were a betting man, my money would be on the second scenario.
As I have commented throughout this de***********ion of those two, one side of me was upset, and the other was turned on, imagining watching them. Over the years that has built into a very explicit fantasy of watching her not only with him, but with other guys. There has been no element of submissiveness or humiliation, but more of pride and joy of seeing her get pleasured by another man.
I have seen other guys flirt with her at various events, work events or just social events that we have been at. I have also seen her flirt with other guys at these same events. There have been times when guys got a bit handsy and I started getting upset, to which she would tell me to calm down. She never wanted me to make a scene or get into a fight. She knows my history of fights and that now as an adult if I let things go as far as they did as a kid, I might get in a lot of trouble when I kicked the shit out of somebody, especially in public.
Then, there have been additional incidents where other guys, either at work or at social events, have kissed her without her permission. This has happened multiple times and in all but one of the incidents she was not upset about it, only that they had the nerve to do it without asking. In fact, other than one incident, I never knew about the others. I found out about the others after the incident in which she was very upset.
That particular incident happened in our home and involved one of my older brothers. He initiated a kiss, which she felt was just a normal type of “thanks for letting me stay” brotherly kiss, but it ended up lasting longer than she was comfortable with. Then on top of that, before he left the room (I was downstairs with another brother talking,) he decided that he felt she was reciprocating his kiss and he went after her again, trying to kiss her several times and put his hands on her. She was able to get away from him and he came to his senses and left the room. She did not tell me about that incident until he had already left to go home, again not wanting to see me kick the shit out of him! He is no longer welcome in our home!
Now, learning of the incident with my brother was quite different than all of the rest. None of the others involved any force or any attempts to continue or do more. It is thinking about those which have given me a notion that she may even be open to other men, which has given me more inspiration for my fantasy of being cuckold.
My fantasy does not include any kind of humiliation or submissiveness. I have a very nice sized cock, one that she has even described as too big for her! However, some of the bisexual aspects of that kind of cuckold do have as sexual interest to me. I would love to play with his cock to get him ready to fuck her, stroking him and even sucking him, then, the idea of licking her pussy after appeals to me as well as cleaning his cock off with my mouth!
I have to admit that those thoughts of sucking his cock have extended beyond the cuckold fantasy and into being very bicurious, in addition to acting on that curiosity. I have stroked and sucked other cocks, not in the cuckold situations, but just me and another guy. It is through those experience that I now know if she would ever consider it, I would enjoy stroking and sucking the other guy to get him ready to fuck her.